Seek help! I don t believe my boyfriend and I didn t work out, there must be a way. 20

Your hearts are together, and nothing else is too much of a problem.

Your future will always have to be fought by the two of you.

It's better to try to prove it to his parents from now on.

Settle his family??? It's funny, isn't that what he should have done?

He's going to marry you, not your parents.

You're going to marry him, not his parents.

If he doesn't support you, it's hard for you alone to change his family's mind. If he can support you, you can do it, there are many ways, although it is also very cliché, but some of them are quite effective. If he just watches from the sidelines and doesn't help you, I advise you to give up on him, because he doesn't love you, but wants you to quit on your own, so that he feels that he is not responsible.

Such a man is very selfish.

Maybe you once really loved each other, but the world is always inevitable, you take him as your dependence, you love him right, but the problem is not here, the problem is that this man does not love you deep enough, he does not have the courage to bear the pressure from your family to him, he retreated, he said let you solve, this is basically a dead proposition, it is impossible for you to do it alone because the relationship between the two families is not equal, and this man's will to be with you is not strong, Even if they are barely together, they will be dwarfs.

Kiss me and help you. Don't be so sad, okay. There are no absolutes, and there are no facts that cannot change.

Originally, the two families who were not wealthy were rarely married, and the old men would not bear to see you split up like this. Your family and his family's worries are about kinship. Everyone wants to find someone with a better family background to relieve themselves.

Right! You can set a time goal, a promise in front of his family. But you have lots and lots of effort to do in this time!

Are you afraid of suffering? All right! Just give yourself 5 years.

You have to work hard with your lover for these 5 years. It is also an important stage in your destiny change. It is also the time when you and his origin end.

Give yourself a chance, give yourself a chance in life, okay?

Personally, I think that if two people love each other, they should face the problem together, only when two people face it together, give each other courage and encouragement to solve the problem, and getting along with others requires wisdom and patience, you have to learn to endure, endure the disapproval of his family, do you think you can face these? If you want to be recognized by his family, you must first let him be your strong backing, so that you will have the courage not to let yourself live too tired, and be optimistic in the face of some things.

Maybe it's the difference between humans and animals. Selfishness, those loves, loyalty, are! The family just wants this kind of person to change his mind under the pretext, then he must have the ability to have a relationship, help him in his career, and help him get promoted and make a fortune, I think his eight generations of ancestors will treat you as a bodhisattva-like tribute!

Once trust is lost, it's hard to get it back. The best thing you can do to maintain that trust is to prevent losing it in the first place. And that means both people have to be willing to commit and be loyal in all respects.

If your relationship has recently gone awry, resulting in a loss of trust, then you need to fix the problem as soon as possible. If you want to start trusting your boyfriend again, these are the reasons why you need to fix it, and how you can do it.

You have to figure out what the hell is going on, why don't you trust him? If he does something, you need to figure things out. When you keep saying "I don't trust my boyfriend", he must have done something to solve the problem through communication.

Ask yourself if their wrongdoing is forgivable. If they do do something wrong, you have to think for yourself, are they doing something that you can forgive? Can you really let it go in your relationship?

Be honest with yourself, this will help you trust Him again or help you recognize that you can't be with Him.

Get the opinions of others. When it comes to our loved ones, sometimes it's hard to think clearly, you can ask your friends for their opinion, open up to them, tell them how you feel, and they can help you see the real problem if it's something you can really solve.

Have a real communication about your trust issues. Talk to your boyfriend. I know it's hard to open up and be vulnerable, but you have to do it. Tell him that you don't trust him and let him know what you're thinking so he can help you out.

If. This love does not belong to you, so please let go of your hand. Love hurts, it hurts so much that I cry, so I choose to let go.

Letting go is a kind of helpless despair, and it hurts to the heart. When the people who once cherished life were about to meet strangers, they suddenly realized: it turned out that what they once thought was eternal, but in fact it was just a meeting in Pingshui.

I once thought that I could hold hands all the way like this, but when I let go, I realized that everything is just the accidental intersection of two parallel lines, when everything disappears, the parallel is still parallel, even if it is not far apart, it is already the end of the world. The price of bravery is to let go of oneself first, admit failure, accept helplessness, sigh softly, and wish him happiness in the future.

The feeling of happiness may only be instantaneous, and after a moment, it is a person's wonderful.

Hello! If you don't believe in your boyfriend, two people try to communicate to solve the emotional conflict between the two people and trust each other.

Then you don't believe him, and you don't want to be too affectionate Get along slowly when you don't have an object If there's a play, there's a play, and you won't be sad if there's no play.

You are too sensitive, more suspicious, and not trusting your boyfriend enough. Of course, most women in love have this trait.

However, in fact, the more this happens, the more it will cause her boyfriend to be disgusted, and it will push him to another woman in disguise.

My suggestion is to be more generous and tell your boyfriend that he is allowed to contact his ex-girlfriend and even become friends. At the same time, take various means to strengthen surveillance (what methods you understand); Third, make it clear to your boyfriend that although he is allowed to be friends with his ex-girlfriend, let him know that you feel uncomfortable doing this, but only do it out of consideration and respect.

It's easy to fall in love and hard to get along, if you want to be happy, blindly follow your own temper, it may make the road to love difficult. It's better to use your brain more.

Whether it's marriage or love, it's all about managing it well.

Finally, I wish you happiness.

I think your relationship is a bit dangerous right now. In fact, there is nothing wrong with him contacting his ex-girlfriend, just be an ordinary friend, just don't do anything out of the ordinary. I believe that if your boyfriend loves you, he will also be conscious, but if their relationship is not as simple as being ordinary friends, then you should consider letting it go, and don't let yourself be hurt by others.

But some things are fought for on your own, if you are always in trouble with your boyfriend, the problem may be even bigger, use a gentle method to make him feel that you are the person who really loves him the most in this world. Bless you, come on.

Love is not maintained but by hard work, and you strive for your own happiness.

Separate! I don't think you have any status in his heart, maybe he has someone in his heart, separate, and you must not let the same man lie to you a second time.

This kind of trust makes your relationship already on the verge of suspicion, the most important thing in a relationship is trust, if you go on like this, you are not seriously suspicious, and you will make a mess of yourself. It's better to end such an emotion early.

First of all, you have to ask yourself very sincerely: Do you love him?

If you love him, then you should love him well, give him a lot of trust, men love face, if he has reached the point of being out of control, then you don't have to trust him consistently, because he is not worth it! For these things, you should know how to relax and face them with an indifferent attitude.

If you don't know whether you love him or not, then you should give him time, give him a chance, like him to confess your feelings in your heart, if he has an attitude of love and ignorance, then you don't have to force it, why bother to be tired of someone who you don't trust and he doesn't take you seriously? You won't be happy in the future, will you? What we pursue is happiness.

If you don't love him again, let it go, there is nothing to leave for such feelings. There are many good men in the world who are worthy of your love.