Why is it so difficult to carry children now?

Did my wife eat seafood such as sea cucumbers, lobsters, etc. during pregnancy?

Generally, it is not easy to bring such a child. He is very restless and teething quickly.

In addition, it is normal for children to be hyperactive, and children are full of vitality, which is a pure yang body.

Don't hurt him, just move yourself, hehe. Watch from the side.

It only shows that your child is smart. Do you want him to be like soft dough every day? If you don't want to, then yes, haha, let's have fun.

1. Parents have no experience with children.

2. Mothers are generally more pampered to their children, after all, it is the meat that falls from their bodies.

3. The mentality of parents should be correct, it is a good thing for children to be naughty, if you are like a little old man one day, it is estimated that your wife will be even more anxious.

Some children are very difficult to carry, but some children are very easy to carry, and this phenomenon has many influencing factors. The first is the baby's innate personality influence, if the baby is very quiet at the beginning, and is also very quiet, then the child will be very good after birth, often do not cry or make trouble doing their own things. In such a situation, parents will also feel very worry-free, and parents also feel that such children are simply their little angels, who do not cry or make trouble at all, and will not let themselves have headaches.

But there are some children whose personalities are very irritable, and the children are also very sensitive, in the case of a little discomfort, they may express their emotions by crying, in this case, many parents will feel that this kind of child is particularly difficult to carry. Therefore, the baby's innate personality has a great impact on the acquired factors, and this influence is also difficult to change, can only slowly guide the child to control his emotions, but all this can only be exercised after the child grows up and is sensible.

In addition, the baby has a certain perception of the surroundings after being born for a period of time, if the surrounding environment is very depressing, and everyone's mood is not good, then the baby will also be affected accordingly, so that he likes to cry. If the surrounding emotions make the child feel insecure, then the child will also cry to get everyone's attention. All in all, after the child is born, everyone should create a more harmonious environment for the child, so that the help for the child will be greater.

In addition to these factors, there are also habits that a child develops during the fetal period that can lead to different behaviors after birth. For example, if parents do a good job of prenatal education for their children before they are born, then the children will be very sensible after they are born, so parents should also consider the issue of prenatal education for their children.

Because each child's personality is different, some children are more lively in personality, so it is more difficult to bring children when they are carrying.

Because each child's physical fitness is different, each parent's method of taking care of their children is different, so what children have is difficult to take is easy to bring.

Because each child's personality is different, the inherited genes are also different, so there will be such differences.

Getting married and having children is something that most of us go through when we grow up. When we have children, raising babies has become one of our very important tasks. But the pressure of raising a baby is very high, which will make it difficult for many parents to bear.

So I hope to have a child in the future. About why just one child? Specifically, the pressures encountered when raising a baby include the need to consume a lot of time and energy to raise a baby, the economic cost of raising a baby is not often high, and the process of raising and educating children is very hard.

1. Raising a baby requires a lot of time and energy, which is very stressful for parents.

The pressure of raising a baby is first reflected in the consumption of time and energy. Raising a baby requires a lot of energy and a lot of time from parents. This can be stressful and even overwhelming for parents who still have to work.

Regarding this factor, many parents feel that this is the most direct pressure they show during their baby-raising period.

2. In terms of economy, the cost of raising a baby is very high, which makes many parents feel great pressure.

During the period of raising a baby, the financial pressure on the parents is also very high. In the process of raising children, all aspects have to spend money, especially when the child enters school, it needs to spend more money, which makes the cost of raising a baby very high, and many parents will feel particularly stressed because of this, and therefore give up the plan to have a second child.

3. The process of cultivating and educating children is very hard, which is where parents feel the most pressure to raise a baby.

If there is any factor that is the greatest strength of raising a baby, it is the cultivation and education of children. In order for their children to become talented, parents will do their best to nurture and educate their children. However, in this case, it is not enough to have a passion, but also to master the corresponding methods, and many parents lack this ability, so they will feel great pressure because the effect of nurturing and educating their children is not ideal.

1.Parents spoil their children excessively, causing them to develop bad habits of self-centeredness and selfishness.

Since childhood, he has been overly pampered with children, and he has been full of requirements and has been well cultivated, and he has made unprincipled concessions, and he has given his children all delicious food to eat alone. Once he can't meet his needs, crying and fussing, sprinkling willfulness, parents can't resist the child, although they are not able to achieve it, they will do everything possible to satisfy the child. Slowly, children develop the habit of being self-centered and selfish.

Taking his parents' dedication to him for granted, once he can't meet his requirements, he will yell at his parents, and even add punches and kicks, which is the "giant baby" phenomenon of Chinese-style family education.

2.Parents' words and deeds, words and deeds, all have a subtle impact on children.

Parents are the first teachers of children, parents respect their parents, and children will also be filial to their grandparents. If the child has lived in a family that has been grateful for the kindness of his parents since he was a child, the child will definitely follow his example and follow his parents' example. It can't be an ungrateful.

On the contrary, the parents are not good to the grandparents, and the siblings are not united and calculating. These children also see it in their eyes and remember it in their hearts. When he encounters a similar problem, he will follow your example without thinking. Therefore, the influence of the family on the child is often deep-rooted.

3.A good mother is the foundation of a child's physical and mental health, and a loving mother and a strict father can form a good family style and pass it on from generation to generation.

Mothers spend more time with their children than fathers in family life, and the words and deeds and qualities of mothers have a greater impact on children, and a good mother affects three generations of the family. The child's bad habits also have a lot to do with the mother.

Of course, the influence of the father on the child is also self-evident, "the father is not the fault of the father", so the father should also participate in the child's education, do not throw everything to the mother, especially after the child is sensible, the father's role in the child's education will be more and more.

4.Changes in the general environment, doting on parents and elders.

When some children go to school, they will show off the "spoils" they have obtained from their parents in the lead school, which will attract the attention of their classmates, which leads to "children who show off are more show-off, and those whose family conditions are not good, if they are not sensible, they resent their parents for not being able to satisfy themselves".

5.I am reluctant to let my children suffer.

After the child is frustrated, he does not carry out the correct guidance, but adopts the way of protection, which leads to any problems in the future to seek help from parents, and if the child's purpose is not achieved, the child will complain to his parents.

Introduction: Many parents don't know why there are differences between their children.

Many parents don't know why their children have a good reputation and are difficult to carry, and they don't know why. Many children have different personalities when they are young, some children like to move, and some children like to play by themselves. If a child is particularly naughty when he is young, parents must correct the child's bad habit of writing about himself, and do not let the child be spoiled too much.

If the child is an angel when he is young, parents should let the child adjust appropriately. If the child is very quiet when he is young, the parents also like it very much, at this time you can think about what kind of situation the child has, you must help the child to control it, you can't let the child have this situation, if the child always does not cry or make trouble, parents should not let themselves feel proud, and must guide the child. Many children have their own personalities when they are young, and parents must learn to help their children.

If the child is particularly disobedient and naughty when he is young, parents must guide the child well and not let the child develop this habit. Some children are very well-behaved, and taking them out to play will also make them feel very happy, parents must see if the child has been badly affected, and must help the child eliminate. If a child often cries when he is young, parents must see why they must make children's plans, so that children can grow better, and parents must learn to accompany their children.

Many parents will take their children out to relax when they are not busy, at this time you can make appropriate adjustments, so that children can do some things better, parents must actively cultivate their children. Many children will also have some bad habits in the future, parents must let the child be changed, must give the child to consider the child's growth problems, help the child establish a good consciousness, so that the child can be sensible.

This is because the child's personality is different, the child with the model base is more obedient, so it is easier to bring it, and some children are very naughty, even if they say a lot of truth to the child, the child friend is not good to listen to.

The environment of each family is different, the attitude and belt of each family to the child returning to the shed is different, and the child's personality is also different, so this situation will occur.

Because each child's physical condition is different, and each child's personality is different, the state of bringing up children is different.

There are many parents who report that it is more and more difficult to bring their children now, and they need to spend more energy to take care of their children, and there are always disobedient children, so what should I do when the baby is becoming more and more difficult to bring? Is it to beat or scold, or to let it go? At the same time, are such babies smarter?

Let me take you to understand why it is becoming more and more difficult to bring a baby.

For some mothers, when they feel that the baby is getting harder and harder, it may also show that he is a smart baby! The key is divided into the following four scenarios.

1.Very energetic.

This kind of baby vitality is very sufficient, some netizens said that their baby is 2 and a half years old, every day is very energetic, habitually reluctant to fall asleep, sometimes get up at 9 o'clock in the morning, can play until more than 1 o'clock at night, I really don't understand how the baby can be like this, and she is well reasoned with, scolding is useless, making the family very sleepy. Such a baby is active, intellectual curiosity and desire to explore are relatively strong, very cheerful, and the future temperament will also be very sunny, such a baby is also very smart.

2.Very sticky mom.

When the mother takes care of this kind of baby, it will be more headache, the child will make trouble when he can't see himself, he always likes to stick to himself, he likes to be accompanied by his mother, and he is taken care of by his mother, and his mother can not get rest, and he will feel very tired. In this way, the baby will have a greater sense of belonging and more alone when he grows up, but mothers also have to take their children to contact with external people and enterprises.

3.Always go against yourself.

Babies to a certain age, will like to speak against the parents, you think I talk about the West, so that parents laugh, children in this situation parents can always want to hit the child, "singing the opposite" is the main manifestation of the baby's intelligence, indicating that the baby has learned to think, but also likes self-expression, very fond of practical activities.

4.Love to be trick-or-treated.

The child is not dirty for a while, and for a while it is to disassemble something, or it is inconvenient to lose something, all kinds of idleness, all kinds of trick-or-treating trouble, this main manifestation is also the baby's strong desire for knowledge, the main manifestation of love to explore. The child's incorrect position should be corrected, but the child's impulse to explore and express should not be erased, and such children will grow up to be very intelligent and talented in the plastic arts.

In fact, many mothers feel that the baby is becoming more and more difficult to bring, that is because the child now has more and more of his own thoughts, to do what he wants to do according to his own thoughts, and mothers are still looking forward to being able to control the child, but I did not expect the child to be unmanaged, in fact, it is really just the baby's regular development trend. The baby wants to grow and be alone, of course, it becomes "difficult to bring".It's become "annoying", and from another perspective, I see the development trend of children.

If you are strong, you will feel happy.

For children, parents must be carefully cultivated, after the child grows up, there is no doubt that he will want to follow his own ideas, if the ideas of the parents are upside down, then the parents are likely to get angry, scold the child, this kind of personal behavior is actually unreasonable, depriving the child of the ability to act on his own, is not conducive to the growth of the child.