Is it appropriate for a 19 year old girl to stay at her boyfriend s house

Updated on society 2024-06-24
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I don't think it's appropriate to stay in his house!

    First of all, whether you have a real relationship or not, outsiders will always speculate, even if his parents know that you are in a private room, they will inevitably think about what will happen to you when they are not at home, and besides, even if his parents don't say anything, the neighbors will gossip; Of course, it is not excluded that his parents will not be biased and will like you more and more, but you have to think about other aspects, whether it is as long as his parents like it.

    Second, after being under the same roof for a long time, it is difficult to guarantee that there will be no emotional moments, can you completely guarantee that something will not happen to you? If it happens, and the result is not together in the end, looking at your problem, you can already feel that you will care a lot in the future; Or if you find that there is something bad about him in the future, or the two of you are not as suitable as you imagined, will you be hesitant to break up because you are already in a relationship with him, or even will you have the idea of "It's already like this, or will it be forgotten"?

    Third, no matter how open-minded his parents are and how good they are to you, in the hearts of most parents, they will still prefer girls who are not casual to be their daughters-in-law, and occasionally you go to his house to accompany his parents, and when you go home at night, his parents will not only not be angry, but will feel that you are really a good girl in their hearts.

    Finally, what would your parents think if they found out? What happens if you even let your relatives and neighbors know? Will your parents not be able to stand the rumors, will they think you are too casual?

    There are many small details, I won't say more, just advise you not to be impulsive and think in the long run!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's not suitable, 19 years old, although I'm an adult, but I'm not yet the legal age to get married, and living in my boyfriend's house like this will be seen clearly.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It is certain that it is inappropriate, living together at this age will definitely lead to pregnancy, and the end of being pregnant before marriage is to be looked down upon.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It feels like it's already okay.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Cohabitation at the age of 19? Don't read books?

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    A 19-year-old girl lives in her boyfriend's house, and if the relationship is already established and it has reached the point of getting married, then it is no problem.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    is already an adult, and he is responsible for his own actions, and there is nothing appropriate or inappropriate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think it's appropriate for a 19-year-old girl to live at a friend's house, because especially if a boyfriend goes to live at home at this time, it may be too inconvenient.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Personally, it feels very inappropriate. If a man and a woman have not properly determined their relationship and have no intention of getting engaged to get married, they will live in their boyfriend's house. This will give outsiders a bad view.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Now this society, actually. As long as you're genuinely together. If you don't study anymore, this is also a normal thing, you must still decide to go on in the future, that is the ultimate goal, so now young people are more open-minded, so you still have to take into account whether you can treat yourself in the future?

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    I think this situation must be a very inappropriate phenomenon, as a girl, you must learn self-esteem and self-love, never live alone in your boyfriend's house, this will definitely have a bad impact.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's not a question of whether it's appropriate or not, because after all, it involves parents on both sides, and if you think about it from another angle, do you consider the inner thoughts of the other party's parents, although it must be welcome on the surface! On the other hand, what would your parents think if they knew you were living in a boy's house? Look at the pros and cons of weight, think calmly!

    Good luck!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It depends on the situation, if both parties don't mind, it's okay, I have a friend who lives with her boyfriend, and there have been no conflicts or quarrels, cohabitation can run in two people, so that two people can understand each other better.

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It's very uncomfortable for you to do this, there is a feeling of being under the fence, I think you should move out, if your mother-in-law said this is aimed at you, it can be seen that you are a little unpopular now, if you don't care about the face, then you can go to find a job, just say that you want to work, you want to live in the company conveniently, after all, you can't make money depends on your face, you have to be a little backbone, why should you be so angry, how to say that you are also a member of their family, there is no such work, as a parent, I'd rather give it to my daughter-in-law if I don't eat or drink, this old woman, her brain is rusty.