I was 19 years old and worried that I wouldn t be able to meet a boyfriend in the future

Updated on psychology 2024-05-03
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I have a similar personality as you, I didn't have any male friends when I was in school, and I didn't even talk to my male classmates, and sometimes I carried a gun and a stick when I spoke.

    However, I am 22 years old this year, and I have been working for more than two years, and in these two years, several boys have chased me and have already met their future husbands, and they are planning to get married next year!

    So, when you work and grow up, you will naturally have suitors.

    And as long as it's someone who likes you, they will tolerate you to the greatest extent when pursuing you (but don't be too willful). And you yourself, because of the social personality or something, it will naturally change, and it will be natural to talk and behave with men, everything will be fine, and you will change for the better unconsciously, and you will learn how to behave from society. Don't worry, no problem!

    Just let it be!

    You can also think about your own shortcomings through what you have experienced. Perfect yourself!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Don't be too anxious, care more about the people around you, care more about the feelings and needs of others, and believe that there will be people who appreciate you to your side.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can try to send some ** to meet online, and you can't see it, and you can make an appointment to meet when the chat is almost over.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Your personality determines that your boyfriend must be a very active person, and to be extroverted, it is difficult for two introverts to be together for a long time, you should also change yourself, maybe you really experience a relationship will involuntarily change yourself. There is no need to worry.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Let's start with friends of the opposite sex.,Slowly get used to getting along with the opposite sex.,You're not very old.,Why bear this kind of heart.。。。 Sweat...

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This is only caused by psychological effects, such a psychology appears at this age, it is easy to understand, usually don't think too much, don't be in a hurry, fate can't hide, on the contrary, you can't be anxious.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Look at you, talking so ugly! It hurts people's self-esteem!!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    It's good to get used to what is in a hurry.

    It's only 19 years old, and it's not 29 years old.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I like it again.

    Don't rush to make friends.

    Don't make friends for the sake of making friends.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's okay to take it slowly, maybe you're not happy with how you look? Don't think so much about women definitely not worrying now even though I'm a man! Men are worried! Ay.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Are you not confident enough?

    Be confident.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You have to talk to him. If you don't express your stance to him, he doesn't understand what you think. But if you tell him and he still doesn't listen, or he continues to tell his brother and sister that he doesn't pay attention to your commands, it means that he doesn't have you in his heart. You ask for your own hardships and send them to the door! ~

    Girls shouldn't be bothered by boys! Being the head of the family should be a man's responsibility! The more you spoil him, the more he depends on him. The more I don't cherish you.

    In this matter, I advise you to break up! You're at a loss. He doesn't care that he doesn't have you in his heart, he doesn't treat you as his own person, and he doesn't share his joys, sorrows and sorrows with you everywhere.

    Instead, he told his loved ones all the things that were on his mind. What does this mean, the person who will marry him in the future, you don't have this kind of trust. Will the two be happy together in the future?

    The person who loves you will definitely have your place in his heart, even if he doesn't say it, but his body language will make you feel his tenderness. He will also write down your voice and admonition in his heart, and there will be no similar incident next time.

    He doesn't have any opinions at all, and he doesn't suit you now. If you continue, you will only get more and more tired, and you will only get through it more and more difficult to get through when you start a family with him. In the end, if his family treats you badly, or if your life is not satisfactory in the future, you will regret it even more.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    You didn't say you wouldn't let him say it???

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