Why do usually good friends leak their true colors when it comes to money and errands?

It's very simple, 9 out of 10 people who borrowed money don't pay it back, and you say that you still dare to borrow money indiscriminately, so that you can repay the money and hurt your anger, which is different from Western countries.

Let others run errands, and the larger ones have to invite guests, everyone is very lazy and busy! There are also friends who are friends, that is, not your bank nor your slaves, who want to borrow money from the bank and let them run errands, why don't you do what you can do?

If you want someone to run errands for you, you also have a problem, friends rarely go to run errands like you say, if you want a friend to buy something, it depends on whether the other party goes to the neighborhood where you want to buy something, so that he can buy you one by the way, but will not buy it for you.

So don't feel that others are not interesting because they don't lend you money, or don't want to help you run errands, don't you feel that you are not thinking about others in doing this?

And don't think that if you are a friend, others should help you do something, such a person is very annoying, others help you, or you ask others to help you, you owe someone a favor, you must remember it, the person who helped you, if there is something, as long as it is not too difficult, you should take the initiative, so that if you really have something, others will not push back.

。。。This requires you to observe the people around you. Take the little things and try it out.

It's not your personal reason, it's not your social reason, it's all human instinct.

I have a friend, the toddler round began to be in the same class, go to school together and leave school together, play together for ten or twenty years, his business is very dark, everyone is black, just don't black me, make money and invite me to go online, invite me to eat and invite me to play. Later, he opened an Internet café, but the funds were not enough, I invested hundreds of thousands of yuan in him, and he took the money and ran away, and also united with loan sharks, and the police station made my money as if it did not exist, and it was useless to call the police and file a lawsuit.

No matter how reliable a friend is, there is no one who is not dizzy in the face of interests. But when a tsunami or disaster comes, your wife, son and your friends are in danger, no matter how many you can save, you will save your son and wife first, and then your friends last, you will definitely be like this, does this mean that your friendship is not strong? Everyone has their own difficulties and families, and it is the turn of friends to deal with these first.

In his heart, his family or relatives are facing a tsunami-like predicament, so he doesn't have the heart to take care of you first, that's it. So friendship is friendship, don't get involved with money and interests, otherwise something very simple will become very complicated.

I care. Financial resources are limited, you can't use them freely, and you can't face it calmly. But not all friends will be like this, people are different.

Because when it comes to money, the feelings before it feels like there is an intention, and no one has ** feelings at all.

Only at the critical moment can you see what a dog is and what a friend is.

Brothers will turn their faces over money, let alone friends?

, still not to the point of intimacy, talking about money will make people think that you have intentions or something, it is easy to make each other think too much, in fact, I think, even if it is a brother, you have to settle accounts.

He really doesn't have any money or is still cautious, and if he will help you in trouble, he can still pay.

Such friends are not to be made, too stingy.

Will he help you if you are in trouble?

You can't say the same, if your friend is very rich but he doesn't borrow you, don't want such a friend, sometimes borrowing money depends on something, you have to do nothing all day long, gags, someone borrows you is weird. Don't kill a boatload of people with a stick, think about it, and you'll understand.

It's only when you're in trouble that your friendship is tested, but it's good to see who your friends are.

This thing tells us:1You need to be cautious when making friends, and you will make deep friends after seeing clearly; 2.Don't borrow money from friends, hurt feelings, and finally be disappointed yourself; 3.Have a long heart, and others will weigh how good you are before making a decision.

His family only has 10,000 yuan, you borrow him a trillion, and you are reasonable.

True friends will never ask you for money unless it is difficult

It could be that you borrowed too much or borrowed many times at once.

A true friend, he will do his best to share your grief when you are sad, remember, it is sharing, not comforting! , He will be happy with you when you are happy, Remember, it is to accompany, not to be happy for you, He will be the first person to complain when you are sad, You can not contact often, but you will not leave when you are the most sad, You can not care about his existence, but he will tolerate all your shortcomings, Because he cares about you so much, The friendship that is entangled in you and needs your care is often fragile, A true friend is the one who thinks of you before interests and then thinks of himself, Maybe when you are immersed in happiness, The first person who comes to mind is never him, but when you are sad, he is always the first to share your sadness, he will love you for the way you are, when you inadvertently hurt him, he will tolerate you, he understands you, understands your heart, he will try to protect you, try not to hurt you. A friend should be the kind of person who can share weal and sorrow with you, regardless of the gains and losses, and can talk to you; Although there are very few such friends now, as long as you put your heart into it, you should make such friends.

A true friend is the one who can't be broken up, a friend is the person who is sad and wants to see the most, a person who doesn't need to say sorry when you bother, a person who doesn't need to say thank you when you help, a person who doesn't change his name when he rises step by step, a person who cares about each other at the ends of the world, and a friend will come to comfort you when you are sad. When you are in trouble, friends will come to your aid. When you are happy, friends will share the joy of happiness with you.

When you fail, your friends will pull you along and keep going. Friends are not stumbling blocks, they are accelerants. Confidant people, who can talk to you is a kind of belief that the wind can't blow, the rain can't fall, and you can always make yourself happy, just like your own family, be good to you sincerely, and will not pick you up because of your success Nor will you laugh at you because you are disappointed, and stay away from you.

When you encounter difficulties, do your best to help you understand you very well, and friends who understand you very well will stand up and help you solve your problems when you are most suffering. Comfort, encourage, and support you when you are sad and failing. Help each other, trust each other, improve each other, be considerate of each other, and understand each other.

Be there for you whenever and wherever you are. Laugh together when you're happy. Cry together when you're sad.

Definitely not taking advantage of you, not remembering your mistakes, your mistakes. I will only remember your goodness, and I will not care who pays more and who pays less. never give up, never care who pays more than whom;

In the real world, people are becoming more and more hypocritical, and almost everyone wears a veil and acts as an insincere self. The word "friend" has become more and more abstract. The meaning of friend has different concepts in the eyes of different people.

Friends, no matter how long they have known each other, no matter how many times they have met, as long as they treat them with sincerity, they are friends. Some people, when they use friends, try to compliment, and when they achieve their goals, they scoff at them, and even laugh and sarcasm in front of other friends, in fact, this is not a friend. It's just a tool you want to take advantage of when you're struggling.

Friends, not every day to contact, not everything to report to you, friends, the longer the more true, the more plain and pure, the more sincere the longer. A true friend, he won't laugh at you when you're making a fool of you, he won't look at you coldly when you're in trouble, he won't be jealous of you when you're good, and he won't be jealous when you tell him your secrets. He won't spoil you.

When you are sad, he will have sincere words to persuade you, and when you are worried about work, he can accompany you to relieve your boredom. A true friend, only one step worse than a lover, only one level lower than your parents, a true friend who can accompany you through your life until forever...A true friend, when you are in a difficult situation, listens to you, he will not just take it as someone else's business and listen to the joke.

A true friend will try to help you, understand you, and pull you along. A true friend who never forgets your name and what you do. , Real friends, and will not scold each other, because friends respect each other, even if there are any contradictions, they are held in their hearts, at most they are estranged from the relationship, and they will not scold, if you can scold your friends, then you are not real friends.

True friends, there are many sayings, in my eyes, this is a real friend, if a person has two such friends, then I feel that this person is really happy and lucky. However, lucky people are always rare. Oh.

Money is a sensitive issue, because money is a benefit, that is to say, the relationship between you becomes a relationship of partners or economic interests, so you should be particularly distinct. But you are friends and you should not care. Therefore, if you are short of money, you can borrow from banks and professional institutions.

If you borrow it from a friend, you have to make a note.

Because personal interests are involved.

There are too many people who don't speak honestly.

I think friends are those who support you no matter what you do, support you when you have something, children, friends also need time to touch, and you need to operate, there will be some friends who love you, you say they are unreliable? Do you know your friend? Don't always look for other people's no, cultivation, cultivation

First of all, I want to ask you, do you treat people with sincerity? Are you making friends with your heart? Do you see them as true friends?

And just treat them as playmates? When something happens to them, do you step up as the first to do it? Do you lose your temper and scold people for a little thing?

Always talking dirty? If you have done all the above points, you have something to ask for, and they still shirk it with various excuses, then there is only one possibility: they want to help you, but they can't help, please understand.

Giving you encouragement when you fail, giving you comfort when you're sad There are many more ... Hehe, remember, make friends and be careful, you won't do any harm.

Friend: If you don't care about something, it's a hairy thing, a real friend will support you no matter what.

The so-called "life has a confidant, it is enough!" This is not unfounded.

It's normal for now, it's normal, because money is becoming more and more important and direct now, and it's easy to be emotional,,, unless you can think very openly, borrowing is love, and it's normal not to borrow, but the reality is basically not like this now,,, I understand this very well, I want to open, and if it were a true friend, it wouldn't happen directly,

It depends on how the other party treats you, right? If A borrows money from B many times, and it takes a long time to repay it or has not repaid it, and then borrows like this repeatedly, B will sooner or later break up, and if A only borrows money once or twice and the amount is not very large, then it is nothing

Isn't this "talking about money hurts feelings"?

Regardless of family, friendship and love, as long as it comes to money, it is often easy to deteriorate!

That's why it's so valuable to insist!

Because, you treat him as a good friend, but he doesn't treat you as a good brother.