I m escaping reality, what should I do? I know everything, but I don t dare to do it, I can t do it

School is hell, and it's not your own idea. In fact, when I went to school a few years ago, I wore a fat school uniform that I had few opportunities to wash every day, like a prisoner's clothes, and I didn't know why God had unfairly locked me up here. But in fact, we have to painfully accept reality.

I like scenes from anime or games, and I think it's a great supplement to endure such an uncomfortable life, so why is it contradictory? In such a vomiting age, shouldn't we have a beautiful utopia in our hearts? Hopefully, these beautiful fantasies will always be with you and help you get through this unbearable life.

But then again, I have been in college for 4 years, which is really eye-catching, and three years are very good, especially when you devote yourself to studying, don't take into account the cruelty of life, then time flies very quickly, and it will be much better to go to college.

I used to have this situation at the beginning of school, in fact, the more you don't go, the more you don't want to go, because you are getting more and more unfamiliar with this situation, do what you should do at this age, our life still has a long time, if you don't study well, I just didn't study well in junior high school for 3 years, and often skipped class, and finally I realized that I can't go on like this. I chose to start all over again and went to junior high school for another 3 years. Only when you lose do you know how to cherish.

Actually, online games are very boring, haven't you noticed?

Be yourself in reality. You will find out. It turns out that I am great!!

Typical youth growth period Normal I also came over like this Confused, helpless, lost I think you should make a better friend Like-minded people talk and laugh So that you want to be happier As for learning, if you don't like it, don't learn If you learn in vain, because you're not that piece of material, discuss it with your parents Go and learn a major You always have something you like Just learn it according to that Why do you have to be so painful Get out of the virtual handle Face the reality You say you understand everything I don't know anything I see you don't understand anything Only after experiencing it will understand Good luck.

Then do you think that if you don't go to school, can you support yourself, now it's hard to pave the way for the future, you are not small, you should share it for your parents, to consider, now the pressure of adults will not be less than yours, and when you have the ability in the future, it will not be too late to dig into your dreams.

I think you're watching too much anime, right?。。。 You have to distinguish the reality, and you have to understand what it means to not go to school? What can you do if you don't?

You're only sixteen, are you going to go out and look for a job? It's not as easy as you think, really. The reality is that we are helpless...

Escaping is not necessarily the most difficult to hide, and facing is not necessarily the most uncomfortable. Why run away from it? In fact, escape is a cowardly behavior, a manifestation of weakness, is a psychological factor of fear, there is a bad heart to escape, you have to dare to face things, the more you are afraid, the more you are afraid, only facing is the only key to solving the problem, people who are afraid of danger are 10,000 times more terrible than the danger itself.

Turning around is not necessarily the weakest, hesitation is not necessarily no choice, just not wanting to be wrong again.

Sadness is always inevitable, wipe away the tears you accidentally dropped, heal your bleeding wounds, pretend that everything doesn't matter, and then drive it all out of your wounded heart, forget him if you don't want to bear it, treat it as a sad death, get out of the shadows, be strong, face it bravely, you know, in fact, a second can be all, a tear can also be a lifetime.

Everything takes time to digest, and if you don't want to escape, you have to face the team bravely.

Don't be afraid of this word.

Everything is possible, but it's up to you to grasp it.

If you want to live in this world, you can't escape reality, only by facing reality with your heart, your life will be colorful.

The more you avoid some things, the more it hinders your pace of progress, only bravely face the reality, no one can be smooth sailing, there will be big and small troubles, as long as you face bravely, these are nothing. Come on!

It's very rewarding, just don't let yourself be idle and full.

Why don't you want to face real life and what part of your life you don't want to face? What is the reason? How do you want to escape? Or what things to run away from?

If you can't change reality, change yourself! Don't be discouraged.

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Escape is a manifestation of seeking benefits and avoiding disadvantages, which is understandable in itself, but the problem is that many people are addicted to seeking advantages and avoiding disadvantages, as long as they feel uncomfortable, they will immediately look for comfort and do not leave a little time for themselves to recognize. When encountering contradictions and conflicts, they cannot think well about how to solve them and adopt an evasive attitude. Lack of the ability to correctly analyze and solve problems, and often adopt the psychology of avoidance in the face of problems and difficulties, which is a problem that most people often encounter.

This is the escape or denial of reality. Escapism should be precisely for unbearable results, because of fear, so escape. People guess early to escape from reality, more from their own interests and avoid disadvantages, people are born with this instinct, the so-called interests are of course measured by self-centeredness, the truth of what happens in real life is often the opposite of what people imagine in their hearts, whether they can accept reality, it depends on how big the gap between the ideal and the reality is, and how strong their own ability to accept.

The process of escaping reality is a process of accepting the gap between ideals and reality, and if you can accept the truth, you will choose to face it, and if you can't accept it, you can only keep avoiding. Maybe it's a joy for them to live in their own world. In fact, when we observe reality, we will find that reality is only an objective existence.

So we cannot deny it, nor can we escape it. We can only try to recognize it and accept it. So even if we have a bad life, we are not satisfied with life, it is not caused by life itself, but by ourselves, and we ourselves live life the way it is.

Don't fail to admit it, whether you like it or not, the reality is there. It is precisely because of its objectivity that if we want to grow, we can only accept reality first. Instead of escaping from reality, it is better to laugh at life.

Summary. According to your description of not daring to face reality and always liking to escape, I think it can be initially considered to be caused by a strong melancholy psychology. This is a negative state of mind that is melancholy and depressed, and it is a general psychological problem.

According to your description of not daring to face reality and always liking to escape, I think it can be initially considered to be caused by a strong melancholy psychology. This is a negative state of mind that is melancholy and depressed, and it is a general psychological problem. Summary.

According to your description of not daring to face reality and always liking to escape, I think it can be initially considered to be caused by a strong melancholy psychology. This is a negative state of mind that is melancholy and depressed, and it is a general psychological problem.

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First of all, I suggest that you should correctly examine your own state, understand the difference between your current self and your original self, accept your temporary backwardness, and do not have too high requirements for yourself. Re-evaluate yourself and give yourself a positive attitude.

I hope you can find your best state, take the first step bravely, face the reality, and keep moving forward!

First of all, you have to understand that escaping is a kind of self-preservation. In fact, escaping will not solve the problem. But you don't want to face the reality yourself.

After reading your description, it is very distressing, it may be to escape, or it may be to face the pain, it depends on your goal of help, if your goal is faced and changed, it will definitely help.

Will it really be effective after consultation? This is similar to taking medicine, the doctor prescribes the medicine, the doctor's order, but it is up to the patient to take the medicine after returning home or otherwise. In the process of psychological counseling, it is not that the counselor drags the client forward, but more of a process of accompaniment, exploring the reasons and strengths, and at some times will give some push.

Either way, if you don't have a better way to do it, counseling is worth trying. The sooner you seek help from a counsellor you trust, the sooner you will know if the counselling is effective. If you wish, I can accompany you through this special period.

To be sure, you are indeed running away.

You should be a boy, a manly husband, many times although we are unwilling to face, unwilling to bear, but life is forced, family is forced, career is trapped, we have to force us to face to bear, so strangers, I hope you have the courage to face and dare to fight, at least to the people you love and love us will not be sad, nothing is the reason for us to fight.