I m going to graduate, how do I choose my future?

It's good at home, too!

Your conditions are good, if you are a party member, I think it is better to be close to home, so the relationship is easy to grasp! Good for you later!

Of course, you can also be away from home, because both sides are doing well!

There are a lot of opportunities outside.,It's important that you have good enough ability.,I see you're still very confident in yourself.。。 In this case, I think it would be nice to be outside, after all, it is a common idea of graduates to go to big cities nowadays. Isn't it said that there is such a saying:

I'd rather have a bed in the city. Don't base (western) a suite!! I think having such an idea is the main reason for such problems, especially graduates!!

I have this idea, which leads to my current company in Shanghai! I could have gone to work at the People's Bank of China in my prefecture-level city!! 11

You think, I came out and made such a choice, and the pressure was no less than yours! Because I'm the People's Bank of China! What's more, it's not my family looking for it, it's me who got into it myself!! 111

That's why my family was so depressed by me!!

Haha, think about it, I'm a major in finance, I don't go to the People's Bank of China, I just work as a "part-time worker" in a place in Shanghai!! Do you think I'm stupid!。

Part of the reason I was influenced by that kind of thinking!

So the key is your own choice... Don't mind too much that others are ideas, because the road is your own and others won't help you!!

Because after all, I'm still very young, I'm going to graduate this year, and I'm in Shanghai! Hehe, seeing your troubles reminded me of my decision again, just a few days ago. Not for a month! That's the choice!!

It's really heartbreaking!

Only if you have truly felt it can you understand your pain! I sincerely hope that you can make your choice!

And, as long as you make a choice, don't regret it, whether it's right. Again, wrong!!

Some people think that income is an index of success coordinates, then they are likely to choose a career path that is easy to "get rich"; Some people think that the pursuit of the realization of professional ideals is a sign of success, then, even if they are poor and poor, they will devote themselves to realizing their professional ideals.

If it can be "at your fingertips", it is not called "career success". The career path is a long and difficult one, and it will stay with you throughout your life. A person must have tenacity, patience, perseverance, coupled with your strength and unpredictable opportunities, to achieve success.

You're young! Have your own ideals! I think I'm going to spell it out?

But it should also be combined with the surroundings! Estimate! The development prospects of your own favorite company!

And the work experience you accumulate in the future can also make you even if you change companies! Under the same work! Handy application!

Hope you are happy!

You don't have to be one"Strong woman"Target!

Isn't it good to stay in your hometown and develop? Why not!

All of the above is good!

It's really good.

It's worth learning from.

Since you have found a good job outside, it is not bad to exercise yourself outside, after all, you are young, exercise is not a bad thing, don't worry about not being able to mix people, you can find a job as soon as you graduate, which shows that your ability can still Hurry up and choose your own life path, choose a good road to go down bravely, you will be able to succeed Going home is also a good road, but your fighting spirit may not be so strong, if you want to live a comfortable life, do it at home, If you want to break through outside, you will do a good job, you will definitely succeed, girls can do the same good results There may be difficulties encountered, as long as you don't give up, there will be a day to solve.

It should be said that career is important, it depends on your heart, what are you most willing to do?

Is the family also for your good? The important thing is that you feel that you are doing well.

Don't waste your time, just bless you.

I think I still have to live a comfortable life.

Pay off your student loan first, and then look for a job.

It is very dangerous to make a living on **, and it is difficult to earn money on 10,000 yuan, like you said, you can only make ends meet. What if there is turmoil and money, how can you explain to your sister, when the time comes, there is no work, the loan has not been repaid, and the trust of your relatives has been hurt, you have no way to go to heaven, no way to enter the ground, and you have the heart to die.

Therefore, take advantage of the present, hurry up and find a job, don't look at the high and low, if you can find a job, you can do it steadily, and look for opportunities for development in the work, people can only learn more, harvest more, and get more opportunities only by contacting people. If you don't repay the loan, you will have this record in your personal file in the future, and when you buy a house and a car, you will never be able to get a loan.

At present, it is not recommended that you start a small business, now it is not as easy to make money as before, and you can basically only make ends meet.

After work, in addition to doing your own job, you should also take time to study your company and find out the direction of the company's development. In view of the boss's current problems, put forward your own detailed opinions, not only who will convince you, but also convince the boss, and your opportunity will come. Even if you don't have such an opportunity, you can settle down and plan your future well, think it through before acting, and you won't be as insecure as you are now.

It's all like this, you still want to play with the computer, it's really hopeless.

Others say that today's college students have low eyes, and sure enough!

Do you think that if you are a college student, you can have a good job as soon as you graduate, do you think that people nowadays have a high income and drive a car and live a petty bourgeois life, all of a sudden?

In the beginning, no one is like you, they all start from the smallest and the lowest!

Introverted at work and not good at words. It's all an excuse, no matter who has a hard time working, it's inevitable, just because of this not to do it?

Do you want to be so introverted and unsociable all your life?

If you don't want to go through this basic stage and want to reach the sky in one step, then you will be like this for the rest of your life, although the words are heavy, I hope it can be of some use.

Fellow travelers. I'm now working in a firm for intellectual property, and I'm very confused, I don't want to help others at all, do you want to start a business together?

Boy, you're so unsteady! You have to remember that you are in the learning stage, and precipitating yourself is the first thing.

**This thing is similar to gambling, just graduated and has a very low success rate in business, go find a job, learn a little more at work, skills, experience. It's all important, and these things don't come from confusion, they need to be put into action!

If you are still young, you can start with the basics, start a home**, start small, and when you have funds, you can consider expanding or investing in others, step by step, don't worry!! 30 and you shouldn't be 30 yet.

I'm sorry to see you like this. But life is your own, and no one knows what decisions are best for you, except for one person, of course!

I'm glad you can come and ask for help from everyone to prove that you are still very motivated. I recommend two books to you here: Zhang Defen's "Meeting the Unknown Self" and "Too Stupid Ten Days". I hope you can find yourself soon and make your own decision.

Bless you!

Given that you have just graduated and have little social experience, the best advice I can give you is as follows:

I paid off the student loan first.

Find a job to learn some experience, master some contacts, and don't forget to pay more attention to the business opportunities around you, etc., after accumulating a certain amount of capital and social experience, you can go to Wenzhou to do some business, create a business or something, you may only be twenty-three or four years old now, give yourself 5 years to fight the world, after the age of 30, achieve some career out, don't forget that there are marriage events waiting for you to deal with it, so don't waste time, seize the time and work hard!

Seon lost his horse, but he didn't know if it was a blessing. Young people can always find a way out.

You can be like me, open a business in **open a business**, do a virtual business, and nothing will be delayed.

It can be used as a side hustle, you can't just make a living by, it's too risky, you lack experience, so you accumulate step by step, no one has experience as soon as you graduate, don't want to eat a fat person in one bite, take your time, and have confidence in yourself.

After reading your words, I understand how you feel now, and I want to help you. But I don't know how to help you now, because we're all over the world.

Although this society is a little more cruel, it is a little more realistic. But this society is full of opportunities, it just depends on how capable and confident you are. In today's society, we don't recognize anything else, but only --- money, power, and relationships.

As long as you can make the most of these, you can develop to a certain extent.

Give full play to your strengths and discover your strengths. Then go to the society to practice, and you will find some paths suitable for your own development. Adjust your mindset and stay self-motivated.

If you look for a job with an attitude of being willing to endure hardships and stand hard work, it should not be difficult. Because you're in good shape. But one thing, you're a recent graduate.

It is necessary to adapt to the unit for a period of time, to exercise oneself in the front line of the unit, enrich one's life, exercise one's will, and master some business knowledge and skills. Once you have the ability to live independently and get the job done, you will think about starting a business later.

You said above that family conditions are not good, and as long as it is a business, you need capital, and it is not a small number. It may be not a small number for you, even astronomical. It's hard for your family and for yourself, and if for some reason fails, it's hard for you to get up.

Now your mind should not just focus on recruiting a good job and starting a business, but go deep into real life, experience life, and hone yourself. Train yourself into an iron will and perseverance. Give full play to your abilities, and after you are appreciated by your peers and trusted by your friends, you are looking for opportunities to do a great job.

Put down your current mood and get to the grassroots work! A mentality like yours is not good at doing a job and starting a business with him. Don't complain that there is no opportunity, don't complain that the industry is too competitive, the market is like this.

Have you forgotten the saying: shopping malls are like battlefields. Whoever can become a hero depends on his ability and will.

Most of all, I advise you as a friend:

Make good use of what you have learned and make use of what you have learned.

Make friends and be kind to friends.

Treat friends with success and be tolerant of friends.

There is also a saying: to expand one's knowledge, you must not only have depth but also breadth.

I'm sure you'll succeed.

Never admit that you have failed.

It's best to always motivate yourself.

Always remember that fate is in your own hands.

Bless you deeply.

It is no accident that the strength to create a classic king is not accidental!

It's not so easy to mix up step by step.

Don't have a certain amount of money, and one day you will find nothing left. Running business can train a person's ability, will slowly be extroverted, interpersonal will be more and more extensive, you are still in elementary school when things, there are many opportunities, it is recommended to develop in big cities, don't be in a hurry to pay back so much money, stabilize and then say, now the industry is too difficult to survive, you can go to the talent market to see, run the business to speculate and make money better, come over, not much, it is recommended that only this, so do yourself.

I can understand your current situation very well, I am the same as you, a little more than a year after graduating from college, and I have nothing, just a very ordinary office worker, I go to work every day, work overtime, and other entertainment time is almost occupied by work. But I feel very fulfilling, because my dedication has verified the true meaning of the phrase "self-improvement can save oneself".

We must always understand that we can rely on ourselves, we can support ourselves, and we can't try to escape when we encounter problems, and reality is the most realistic example. Because we are learning from others and learning from society.

Regarding ** and doing business, I don't refute it, and I don't agree with it. It depends on the individual's intention and perseverance, starting a business is difficult, but as long as you can stand on your feet, you can succeed. Don't get caught up in it, just as a side hustle or hobby.

In general, the future must be controlled by oneself, and self-improvement can save oneself.

I can only say so much, it is my own experience, and I wish to get out of the confusion as soon as possible.

Get a job! How much money do you want to make after graduation, and when you think about how much money you make, think about how much profit you can create for your boss! Doing sales, at the beginning are not profitable, sales rely on diligence, accumulation, skills and luck, a few months can not be seen!

Make money slowly first, pay back the money you owe to others, and then make money slowly.