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1. Re-examine yourself.
The key to solving the problem must be yourself, and no one can replace you to get out of the predicament. First of all, you must see your current situation, whether the pain of marriage is real or your own crankiness, and figure out whether the root cause of the pain can be solved by yourself, and whether you can afford the price of change. In many cases, I don't know the true face of Lushan, only because I am in this mountain.
Maybe it's because the angle is too narrow that I bind myself.
2. Adjust your mentality.
Don't force everyone and everything to be held to your own standards, learn to let go of your obsessions and do yourself well first. The happiness of life still depends on oneself to manage it little by little. Maybe your situation is really bad, as long as you are firm and optimistic, you can live a stable and peaceful life.
Don't let the tribulations of life hurt your body and mind, keep a good attitude, and you can get through the big storms. Only by understanding and accepting the difficulties of life and letting go of the torture you give yourself can you meet the beauty of tomorrow.
3. Enrich your spare time.
When you are desperate for marriage, but life goes on, you have to be hopeful for yourself and make your life better. So you start enriching your spare time, so that you can live a happier life, and it can also save you from facing that broken family and marriage. You can also learn a lot of new skills to help you face many things independently, marriage is not all there is to a woman.
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1. Insist on doing your job well and make more money back.
For men, the greatest value in marriage is to support the family, provide the minimum material security for the family, ensure the family's expenses, and provide a better and better quality of life for the wife and children as much as possible, so that the woman feels dependent and at ease.
2. If you have energy, take care of the children with your wife.
At present, the focus of marriage, a large part of the energy will be focused on the children, educating and accompanying the children is a painstaking job, you can't throw the children to one person, you must help your wife share more. Including housework, if you can also do it with her, the relationship between husband and wife will definitely improve quickly.
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When desperate, women must coax and love more.
Desperate women generally behave as follows:
01 You may not communicate with your husband because you feel that such communication is meaningless, so you will not waste your time and energy.
02 After arguing with you, she will no longer cry, a woman's tears in front of a man are actually a manifestation of coquettishness, but when a woman is completely disappointed in a man, she will become very strong and will not shed tears in front of you again, "mourning is greater than heart death", I don't want you to see her weakness, a woman's weakness is for men who love themselves.
30 No longer in close contact with you A woman is completely dead and completely disappointed in a man, which means that this marriage is coming to an end, unless the man can really change, when the woman's heart is dead, will she still want to be intimate with you, and even separation is possible, and the final outcome is likely to be divorce, or for the sake of the children, living like a familiar stranger.
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When a woman is completely hopeless about her marriage, she usually says two words and should be more careful.
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She will choose to divorce and start her life anew.
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When a woman is desperate for marriage, I think it should be. Deal with the relationships around you, and you should still let yourself adjust your emotions as soon as possible, so as not to affect your mood.
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I wanted to have a complete dependence, even if it was good to rely on each other, but I never thought that I had really become an oil crop, and I was thinking about how to squeeze it out, and the biggest sorrow of a woman in marriage is this.
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Thinking is more terrible than anything else.
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When a woman despairs of marriage, she has the following suggestions:
1. Life is blessed, and you will be content if you want to open.
2. Be satisfied.
3. People have good fortune and bad luck, the moon has yin and yang, bear paws and fish cannot have both at the same time, the most beautiful scenery is on the road, and the best feeling is in the heart.
4. There is a long way to go, and we should do it and cherish it.
The three main elements to maintain the relationship between husband and wife:
1. First of all, the emotional foundation, that is to say, marriage is based on feelings, if there is no affection, then after marriage, the married life will definitely not be happy, nor can it last forever, in life to pay for each other, to be responsible for the family.
2. The second is the material foundation, the material foundation is also extremely important in married life, although money is not possible, but there is no need to use money in married life, especially after having children, it takes a lot of money to cultivate children, if there is no material foundation, it is difficult to maintain this marriage.
3. After all, everyone is independent, and it is very normal for the body to think differently, when encountering a thing, if you do not tolerate the other party, then you will be exhausted together, because you will only quarrel when you encounter things, and you will not be able to solve the problem. <>
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