My biological mother is indeed at fault, should I admit her?

First of all, the mother and daughter (son) must establish no mustard trust and trust in their teacher. As a child, you must first understand your mother's love for yourself, and don't blindly rebel against your mother. Secondly, it is necessary to correctly understand that mothers also have the limitations of their own times.

We can't do 60 points ourselves, but ask our mom to do 100 points. Pay attention to the way you communicate and your attitude. When a mother realizes the growth of her child, she will definitely be happy to grow up with you.

After being wise, you should remind yourself that your parents are aging, and your children should be better at learning and growing, "if you can't do it, you should ask for yourself", ask yourself with a reflective attitude, and communicate with your parents with an understanding attitude, which will definitely make your family have more beautiful experiences.

Believe that there is a rainbow after the storm.

I've also encountered this, parents are sometimes wrong, but for the sake of face, they won't apologize to their children, so let's not quarrel with her first, both sides are calm and calm, and you don't want to worry about it later, after all, it's still your own mother, scolding you when you are hungry and respectful, if you really want something, your parents' prudence is your last reliance! I hope you'll think about it!

Home is not a place to reason, you don't have to worry about who is right and who is wrong, as long as you know that your parents love you and are all for your good, and her starting point is correct, you will forgive him.

First score the situation, first: the relationship between the adoptive parents and you.

If your adoptive parents are kind to you and you have a strong bond, then you should think about your adoptive parents' feelings. After all, Yang En is there.

Second: the reason why your biological parents are separated from you.

If it is caused by objective factors, it is still necessary to recognize relatives. After all, they are biological parents. If they voluntarily gave up the support, they can admit it as an ordinary relative, or simply not admit it, but they may still have to pay alimony in the future.

Third: How you feel in your present family.

If you have a deep affection for your current family and your adoptive parents don't mind too much, then accept it generously and treat them politely. If both sides have average feelings before this game, then be beautiful alone and live well.

Fourth: What do you think, do you want to leave your current family after recognizing your relatives or become ordinary relatives after recognizing your relatives, or do you not want to recognize them back?

Summary. Hello dear! There are two kinds of not admitting it, one is that you can't recognize your own mistakes. The second is to realize that he was wrong, but because he is an elder, he can't let go of his son and hold on.

So you have to figure out what kind of mom your mom belongs to. If they belong to the former, it is more troublesome, because by their age, many ideas are already ingrained, and it is difficult to change them. It's not impossible, find a way to educate her, just like she taught you when you were ignorant when you were a child.

It's the same, it's all about instilling ideas.

If it's the latter, it's not a big problem, save her enough face, if she doesn't admit it, she won't admit it, she just needs to be clear in her heart. It does not affect the specific work. Moreover, you saved her face, and she knew it.

Hello dear! There are two kinds of not admitting it, one is that you can't recognize your own mistakes. The second is to realize that he was wrong, but because he is an elder, he can't let go of his son and hold on.

So you have to figure out what kind of mom your mom belongs to. If they belong to the former, it is more troublesome, because by their age, many ideas are already ingrained, and it is difficult to change them. It's not impossible, find a way to educate her, just like she taught you when you were ignorant when you were a child.

It's the same, it's all about instilling ideas.

If it's the latter, it's not a big problem, save her enough face, if she doesn't admit it, she won't admit it, she just needs to be clear in her heart. It does not affect the specific work. Moreover, you saved her face, and she knew it. Summary.

Hello dear! There are two kinds of not admitting it, one is that you can't recognize your own mistakes. The second is to realize that he was wrong, but because he is an elder, he can't let go of his son and hold on.

So you have to figure out what kind of mom your mom belongs to. If they belong to the former, it is more troublesome, because by their age, many ideas are already ingrained, and it is difficult to change them. It's not impossible, find a way to educate her, just like she taught you when you were ignorant when you were a child.

It's the same, it's all about instilling ideas.

Hello dear! There are two kinds of not admitting it, one is that you can't recognize your own mistakes. The second is to realize that he was wrong, but because he is an elder, he can't let go of his son and hold on.

So you have to figure out what kind of mom your mom belongs to. If they belong to the former, it is more troublesome, because by their age, many ideas are already ingrained, and it is difficult to change them. It's not impossible, find a way to educate her, just like she taught you when you were ignorant when you were a child.

It's the same, it's all about instilling ideas. If it's the latter, it's not a big problem, save her enough face, if she doesn't admit it, she won't admit it, she just needs to be clear in her heart. It does not affect the specific work.

Moreover, you saved her face, and she knew it.

Summary. Hello dear, glad for your question. Actually, I don't know much about your mother, but if it were me, I would admit it, after all, I was pregnant with a child born in October, why don't I recognize it?

Hello dear, glad you have a problem with limb tremors. Actually, I don't know your mother very well, but if I guess it, I will admit it, after all, it is the child who was conceived and born in October, why don't you recognize it?

But if you know each other, I don't recommend that you move to his place, because both of you have your own families, and you have your own parents, and he will love you very much, and if you go to your biological parents, your adoptive parents will be very sad.

My biological mother came to see me when I was 8 years old, and I asked my grandmother to me once, and she didn't come after that.

Then I don't think you need to recognize him.

Why. Your mother only saw you when you were eight years old, and she didn't see you the rest of the time, and she didn't do her mother's duty.

Many famous figures in history are abandoned children, such as Cao Cao is someone else's adopted son, Confucius is an illegitimate child, and Zhu Yuanzhang is an orphan.

Therefore, a noble person should treat all biological or non-biological children well and raise them to be useful people in society.

The parent-child relationship is the most important thing. I am very grateful to my parents, they educated me very well, sensible, good and evil, when I was young, they often beat me, all kinds of discipline, otherwise I really can't imagine what will become of me who is rebellious or unattended, whether I fell in love at a very young age, or even ran away with someone else.

If they tell me now that I am not their biological child, I still love them and thank them. I won't recognize my biological parents, I will only love my adoptive parents more. Therefore, it doesn't matter whether it is biological or not, what matters is the feelings, which are the nurturing grace of more than ten years or even decades, and this emotional bond is more precious, profound, and indestructible than the so-called blood thicker than water.

Your mother is so worried about you.,It's not your own child.。。 You can see that she is helpless against you, and can only rely on your majesty to suppress you.

Parents want to be good to you, don't be obsessed with what happened when you were a child. When you were a child, you may have a stubborn temper, and your mother can't control you, so let your father take care of it. In any case, our parents are the ones who love us the most and want us to live happily the most. So you have to be biological.

In this case, it is not just a suspicion, but it is necessary to speak with facts, and you can conduct DNA identification yourself, and you will know when the results come out.

It's because of your personality, and she's been strict with you, so that you wonder if you're her biological son, and you should be her biological child.

I confirmed that it was my own mother, because my mother did the same to me, and I am also a mother now, although my son is only one year and three months old, but he has already begun to have his own way of thinking and doing things. During this time, I had a different opinion with him, and I would cry angrily because of some little things, and I had to tell not only his father, but also his grandparents. But it wasn't done because he didn't love him, or because he wasn't biological.

And it's because I love him that I do it.

Hahahahahahaha

You're so funny. Didn't you even notice it yourself?

You and your mom are arguing.

You and your dad are being scolded unilaterally.

You just bully the soft and fear the hard, you dare to fight with your mother, you can't beat your father, your mother moved the rescuers to clean you up, you even thought it was not your own.

Then if you dare to be beaten, will it be a real hammer?

It's normal, you're definitely biological.

If this is the case in the family, in fact, it is recommended that you move out to live, a person will be cleaner, your mother said that I don't know your purpose, but I know that if there is someone next to me every day, and I and she can't solve the situation, then my choice is to dodge, (this is my choice, you just listen to it yourself, don't make random choices), what I understand is that getting along with people is more about tolerance and understanding, rather than accusation and complaining. If it's a colleague, it's okay to see each other every day, there are not so many bumps and bumps, but if it's a family living together, there will definitely be a lot of small contradictions, after all, people are different, for example, some people are left-handed, then you live with a left-handed person, you have to be considerate of his left-handed habits, not why he doesn't use his right hand to eat, his right hand is doing a lot of things inconvenient, so that two people can't live at all. Of course, I'm just referring to special cases, and if it's a special case, should I ask the other party to change it or ask the other party to change it.

Having said all this, I actually didn't get to the point.

Well, a chat with a stranger will calm your mind, but your family's situation requires you to be independent. After all, this is your family problem, no matter how outsiders interfere, they can't meddle in your family problem, this is a general principle, unless it's your husband. If you have time, you can try to find someone to talk to, which can be more comfortable, but you still need to go through this hurdle yourself.

You don't think it was your mother's own, but do you have a basis? Do you have a sentence specifically? After all, you are still raised by your mother, although you are not born by your father, but your mother treats you as a son, so you should be treated as your mother, dear, mother.

Your mother's personality is not that gentle, and her love for you may not be so delicate. You must know that parents all over the world love their children very much. Except for a few very few. Everyone expresses love in a different way. You are insecure because of what happened to your parents when you were a child.

Why do you think that you were not born by your own mother, is your mother not good to you, or is there any abnormal behavior?

Interesting, your mother cares about you, and she thinks it's not your own mother, and your father doesn't care about you, do you think it's your own father?

Mom is biological or not? He has given you life and raised you, some of his practices are really unbearable, so don't worry about him anymore, you have the ability, you go to honor him, if you don't have the ability, you stay away from him, support yourself, and live your life well. Don't be influenced by anyone.