Once loved, once hurt, how to forget the past

Updated on amusement 2024-06-06
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Time is the best doctor!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you want the quickest way, I can tell you no.

    Because you're always constantly reminding yourself how hurt you are.

    Actually, after a while.

    You will find out. If you don't deliberately recall.

    You won't be actively thinking about it either

    Do something you're interested in

    That would be a distraction.

    Hope you can heal well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    There are only two ways to forget the deep love and deep pain you once had: 1 - lose your memory and 2 - commit suicide.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Hehe! Brother, you give too few points!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Throw away all the memories related to her in the past, turn your attention away, refocus on other girls, start a new life, and if you can't do it, you can only let time help you forget, trust me, in the face of time, everything is nothing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Ask what the world is like, and teach people to live and die. Every time I think of this sentence, a person comes to my mind - WGY.

    Who is she? It can be described in such a word - cute. Maybe you don't think I'm the right fit.

    But to be honest, I think only this word suits her best. She is innocent, pure, mischievous, cynical... But in my opinion, all her strengths and weaknesses are advantages. She is the Seven Fairies who came down to earth to save me, a mortal man.

    But it turns out that I overthought it.

    I met her in the first year of junior high school, I intersected in the second year of junior high school, and I really wanted to know her in the third year of junior high school. But I failed. It's a mess of failure, and I've pursued it before, but failed.

    From the moment I failed, I knew that we were destined to be inseparable in this life. So I gave up – I'm not one to give up easily. Because I know that there are some things that cannot be forced.

    Of course, I'm also a materialist. I don't believe in fate, but I know it's fate. Falling in love with someone may take hours or months, but forgetting someone takes an unknown amount of time.

    Now, many years have passed, but the memories seem like yesterday. Perhaps, this is the power of "love"!

    Although we haven't started yet, I'm always watching her life. Perhaps, it's because of loneliness! But one day, I suddenly changed my mind.

    Perhaps, she is not as good as I thought. is the so-called lover's eye out of the Shih Tzu. Perhaps, I am caught in an emotional vortex and can't extricate myself.

    That's when I decided to make some moves.

    The sage had already given me the answer, but I was too stupid to become aware later. "What you can't get is the best". This sentence illuminated my way forward.

    So, after I sent her one last message, I deleted all of her stuff. Because, I want this wonderful memory to be beautiful forever. Never meet again, never contact again, good memories forever.

    It's really good that way. Meeting you is the greatest luck in my life; Missing you is the biggest helplessness in my life; Not seeing you is a beautiful memory of my life!

    I really hope you are happy, happy, carefree, and I hope that in the future you will still be the person I once knew! Someone I loved dearly! Bye! Say goodbye!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Inheritance.

    Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust the mentality, life is short, youth is limited, and I read Zen Sen.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you still love him, you can't forget it.

    If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget.

    Trying to forget a person may not be so simple.

    If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them.

    If you're trying to forget, you probably won't really be able to do that, right?

    If you want to forget someone, they may have hurt you, or for some other reason.

    You have to find the reason that makes you sad, or you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of something, let your heart go, instead of thinking about it often, maybe, you think about it occasionally, but it's also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him, you have to spend your life forgetting.

    If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.

    To forget about a person.

    That takes time.

    Slowly dilute feelings.

    Or. Find someone worthy of your love again.

    will forget the previous thia.

    Time and distance can dilute some of the things you want to forget. Change the rhythm and way of life in the past, add new elements, you can go to another city to work, travel, chat with friends, go shopping, buy clothes that you like, eat your favorite food, make your life more fulfilling, make some new friends, new friends of the opposite sex, find someone worthy of your love again, and start a new relationship.

    So. You'll be able to forget about each other

    Using a new relationship to forget the pain of a past love is the best way to resolve the situation. That's true, but it's not so easy to fall in love with another person again. Before you fall in love with someone else, all you need to do is minimize the pain that love brings you.

    For example, look down on the other party, let the other party no longer become the most important thing in your heart, don't let the other party be left and right, one day, you can be indifferent, maybe it's okay.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't understand your sincerity to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Calmly pass and negotiate acceptance;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

    I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!!!

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't want to forget someone.

    In the world of emotions, no one can force themselves, and the feeling of the heart is the most important.

    The people who miss with their hearts can't be together, and they are very disappointed.

    But true love is about making each other happier!

    Don't force yourself to forget the past, let go of your hands and let the thoughts creep in.

    It's hard to try to forget someone.

    What is it to forget?

    Many years later, when you meet by chance, or mention this person, or receive his greetings, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But it's hard to do, especially when you forget someone you once loved dearly.

    To deliberately forget is to forget.

    Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level.

    So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget, one day, when you don't care if you forget, you really forget about the lead mill shed.

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