Love, desperate situation Very depressed, love master enters, boring

Alas!!!

Just as the ancients said, "If life is only as first seen, what is the autumn wind and sad painting fan, and so idle changes but the hearts of the people, but the way of the old people's hearts is changeable".

Lamentable!!! is also like modern people, who obviously love each other, but want to hurt each other, blame each other, resent, blame each other, torture each other, and embarrass each other.........

I'm the same as you, the mentality, the feelings, the perceptions and the pain, except that this relationship of mine has been over a year old.

You write so well, it's like a person telling my heart one by one, evoking my infinite memories and endless melancholy .........

I hate it so much, why didn't I know how to cherish and love the person around me at that time, I just blindly hurt each other's feelings in inappropriate ways and words when I felt bad, and this feeling disappeared little by little in the accumulated wounds and healing, healing and wounds.

So, although I don't know if you are a girl or a boy like me, I want to say that when getting along, don't be angry and impulsive to say hurtful things and hurt people, it sounds like you are just the one who has been hurt more, and it seems that your lover is a little inexplicable and unreasonable.

If you don't do anything that is not good for the other party and love, then I think it's time to communicate well, you should tell the other party all your feelings as above, and it is best to use letters to give the other party time to read and understand your sincerity in love.

In fact, I can feel that you have too much helplessness, this is like a hot love, it seems that only you know how to maintain and love this relationship unilaterally, and the other party will vent recklessly as long as you are unhappy, you are really tired, I can understand, not to be cooperated and want to maintain and continue or even happy a relationship, it is very difficult and hard, you are worthy of my praise, because you are serious and persistent, but at the same time I want to advise you, in this repeated division and combination, do not be too accommodating and tolerant, this does not mean that you are a tooth for a tooth, If you have done what you should do, and the other party does not understand, do not sympathize and do not change, then you really have to consider whether you are the other party's love, whether it is really suitable to go on.

I have always believed that feelings are mutual giving, is an interactive relationship, if only one person works, then, either one person is too painful, or eventually has to face the result of breaking up.

Love, can not be forced, should be two loves, two parties know each other, cherish each other, such feelings are mature feelings, but also happy feelings, otherwise, even if they are still together now, there will be all kinds of contradictions and imbalances in the future due to unbalanced giving and getting.

What I'm talking about is my personal feelings, if you love, you should be together well, try not to hurt, because no one is hurt, if you don't love, you don't have to entangle, entanglement is not suitable for the feelings that do not belong to you, it can only be a kind of infatuation and stupidity.

I envy you for having such love, when it comes to love, as a girl, I also have my own vision, but the reality is not the same as I thought, your love will not stop, if you are not in love, you will not have that feeling when you are separated.

Now you just know each other too well and are too used to each other. There is not only love between you, but also family affection, so there is no fear of each other. Will say something hurtful, that's for sure.

As long as you communicate well, your love will be forever, don't think about how to tolerate, think about how to manage, it's easy to love someone, it's easy for two people to love each other, but it's difficult to manage a relationship, haven't you been in business for four years?

Then work hard, it will be a lifetime.

Your relationship should have entered a period of exhaustion, or a period of running-in. This is the stage that two people must go through when they have grown together. It looks like you're already living together.

He felt like nothing mattered. So I didn't care about talking. Sometimes maybe not what he really is.

At the moment he's looking for your faults, and so are you. And so on. Slowly only break up.

If you care too much about a lot of things, it will become a burden. Burden. There is no perfection in love, and love in reality is just like what the old man said.

One doesn't know the other. Learn to be tolerant slowly.

You are an ideal lover, you are too demanding of love, and you think of it too perfectly. There is no immaculate love, just like there is no perfect person.

Love will inevitably go through a transition period that you described above, and there will be confusion, and dissatisfaction with the other person will burst out all at once. If you get through this, you will continue to walk, otherwise, you will be separated.

Love can make people sensitive and think too much, and at this time, you should not let yourself indulge in it, but let something else divert your attention, which will help you get through this difficult time.

"I just hope that we can be like the peak of love, is it really just life for each other as it was for the first time.

Is there a point where we are really going to be farther and farther away from each other?"

As you said, there is no such thing as an eternal "pinnacle of love". It will only last for a while, there is only a dull relationship, now is the time for your relationship to transform, if you love him and want your future, relax your heart and lead him and your relationship in a good direction. (From a pair of lovers, to a family.)

When something goes wrong in love, don't blame someone. Both of them have to be brave enough to take responsibility. If you still blindly lament and complain like now, your love will not see life.

Love is more important than doing business, and you must learn to grasp opportunities.

Don't be discouraged, take good care of your years of hard work!!

After a long time, the relationship is relatively flat, if you love each other, it would be good to spend this period! Try to be more considerate of each other and think about how it felt to be together in the first place! But if the love is not deep, in fact, there are many people who are more suitable for you, you can meet!

From your article, I feel that you are a quiet person on the outside, but on the inside. I don't know if I'm feeling right.

The most basic principle of getting along with two people is trust, I feel that your belief in trust has been shaken, or rather, it has felt normal, you don't know whether what you are pursuing is correct, whether you can get a final satisfactory answer. Some people say that both parties in a relationship are equal, but I think that the final result may not be equal. The inequality depends on how you twist it.

Love is like business (a bit of an inappropriate metaphor, but very practical), sincerity and faith come first.

Believe in Him, and believe in yourself.

I know I don't understand your feelings, the above personal opinion, if there is anything wrong, please don't scold me!

People's lives are living in love, people change bit by bit, of course love is the same, maybe people always crave the peak of love like a vigorous love, but that belongs to the adolescent period. As time passes, we experience more things, and when you are old, you will find that in fact, ordinary love is also a kind of happiness.

Sometimes, what we see in our eyes is not necessarily the truth, perhaps, he has his own troubles, his own suffering, you have faith, you have to keep having faith, pass on your faith to him, or talk about it.

Once the feeling of love is gone, it is almost irretrievable. Love is also a kind of radio wave, the signal of these two radio waves used to be very strong, today, the radio wave has become weaker, the other party refuses to receive it, and no matter how strong your transmission network is, it is in vain.

Two people who once loved each other grew up on different paths, then, the only ending is to go their own way. Everyone's path is different, if you are lucky, you will break up. It's better to meet once than never to meet.

It is a fact that no matter whose feelings are becoming dull day after day. It's impossible for you to think that your relationship won't change at all for the rest of your life. In fact, it is true that two people live together and are ordinary.

If you grasp a little problem and think that your relationship is going to change and maybe it will get farther and farther apart, then maybe your relationship is really missed because of this little thing. Loving someone is giving, don't think that he doesn't pay as much as I do, and that kind of love won't last long.

You're not mature enough You'll find out when you fall in love with another person again Actually, what you did back then was too childish It's too funny It's not like your own personality at all Everyone will have such a transition period when they're in love Don't worry about it Although it's painful But there's no way Love without a thousand hammers is just a phantom in life It's all fake But if you understand it, you know that your current behavior is funny Of course I have it But I've already passed.

Plain is true If you've been through so much and he's still in love every day like when you're in love, and everything lets you go, do you feel like he's in a bag, everything is predestined, don't think too much, go with the flow, simplify everything, and you'll find that you're actually very happy.

Love is to be tolerant, not what you blindly ask to get, but to pay, don't want to gain or lose, to love others, others will love you, love wants to keep fresh, you have to surprise each other! Hope you are happy! Four years is a long time, cherish what you have, and grasp it well!

These problems accumulate over time.

Cracks have already appeared in your daily life.

It's hard to remedy it.

However, it is not possible for two people to calm down.

Slowly comb through the past.

Don't expect love to always be hot.

If you like that person, I hope to join hands with her for life.

It can only be a long stream.

Although the love is plain.

But every second counts.

To have a vigorous love.

One is not good.

Sorry, the end was undoubtedly bleak.

Master the weight!!

Maybe your view of love is different, you are pure love, love for love, and the other party has this kind of love for you, yesterday I listened to a radio program in Shijiazhuang, called "Rainbow of the Heart", there is a girl who is in the same situation as you, and the host said this.

Are you too immature, unflawed in love? Is that love?

You should learn to be mature, hey.

Love is going to die or live, life is going to be alive and dead, since you love each other, don't worry too much, live well.

And sometimes you can artificially create a sense of freshness, make a surprise!

Love can't always be fresh and vigorous, don't you often say that plain is true? In fact, plainness is happiness, to be able to live together, to sublimate your love into family affection, this is also a kind of happiness...

A friend of mine has been in love for 7 years, and now it's not separated, love makes people so haggard and so helpless.

It's better to be happy.

Hope you can adjust your mood!

In many cases, what you like is the best.

Don't deliberately pursue anything, you should be satisfied with what you get.

It's going to be fine.

I always quarrel with my object, but it's because of my bad temper, which I admit myself, although he tolerates me, but people will always have a temper, and sometimes they will be anxious, but I think what he said to me is quite right, so today I say to you, the reason why there will be a fight is that people can't listen to anything when they are angry, and we will put our hearts down now, just like you said, I think of breaking up and what can't be said frankly, So after we quarrel, we use text messages or chat QQ to treat each other as friends, listen to what the other party is dissatisfied with, this way is very good, you don't need to meet and you won't be able to say something you want to say to each other, chat and chat to understand why the other party is angry, why everyone quarreled, and then ask each other out to find a quiet place to talk, and it's okay, because everyone really loves each other, why hurt feelings, you are not enemies! You can try!

Maybe it's a problem with personality and not coming.。。。 Think about whether it is necessary for you to continue to maintain this relationship that you have no faith in ... Ask yourself, is it necessary? There is no need ... Just divide ...

Maybe they are tired of each other, so they should be moderately separated for a while and reconciled. Only after separation do you know the importance of each other!

Don't give up, tell him not to meet just yet, and be alone for a few days.

I think people only send messages when they are idle, and she has more time at home to post.

The first floor is a bit excessive.。。。 May I ask the landlord how old are you two... How does it feel like a high school student is in love...

The mood still has to be adjusted by yourself, in fact, you can control your heart, try to think of something happy, open-minded, light-hearted, everything will be fine You have to think like this: this is not the beginning of pain, but the end of pain, you can finally be free