I m about to graduate.,But the more uneasy I feel in my heart.。。

I can understand your mentality, I have just graduated, I am a female student majoring in chemical engineering, I can only work in chemical factories by majoring, the working environment is poor, and it is also harmful to the body. So I chose to go to graduate school, but I didn't get in, and finally chose to do a relatively easy job like administration, and the pressure was not great. I don't have high salary requirements, and it's good to be able to eat and drink by myself, so I'm relatively comfortable at the moment.

I also have a high school classmate who studied a major with you, according to him, their classmates either do sales, or do technology, there are indeed only these two paths, a good company recruitment sales is required to have academic qualifications, not as you think of graduating from junior high school, and when you are promoted, you also attach great importance to the first degree, so you don't be presumptuous, you must be better than any junior high school student. The technical category is more difficult to enter, because you learn service, mainly to do after-sales, and the technical class generally has a higher starting point, but it is more difficult to be promoted. And car sales are different from food and clothing sales, most people who buy cars have money to buy them, so you only need to introduce them.

I hope you can put your mind right, step by step, and you will definitely gain something in the future.

Everyone will find a place that suits them.

It's been five years since I graduated. Let me tell you what I think. If you don't want to go to graduate school, whether your academic performance is good or not, it's not a big problem, the premise is that you can get a graduation certificate and a degree certificate, and you must find a way to get it, because they are a stepping stone after you get out of school, because many companies still look at this, civil servants, public institutions, and everything else needs to be used.

As for interpersonal relationships, there are not many friends, two or three confidants are enough! Of course, you still have to have a good relationship with your classmates, at least you can get by on face, these are your future network resources.

Looks like you're a sullen type. Speaking of your girlfriend, the girls are more powerful now, and the school is relatively better. As soon as you enter the society, your true form will be revealed, what are you like, and you should tell her earlier. No, it's over as soon as possible, there is no grass at the end of the world.

This is a stage, before graduating from university, you are all students and have the basic ability to live, but what you lack is independence, financial independence, and life independence. We are about to face work pressure, life pressure, etc., and now the basic pressures of society will exist.

As a man, you must dare to act, grow yourself in action, you are about to graduate, you are going to start looking for a job, where to work, the salary income plan for 2 years, 3 years and 5 years should be on the agenda, it is time to discuss with your girlfriend where you will work and live in the future (aside from the case that you are a rich second generation), after graduation, you will not be a student, you must start to learn to support yourself, your family, your wife and children, this is all time to consider.

Dare to move forward, dare to move forward, even if you fail, you are a young person, this is capital, there is the power to fail. However, it is important to face challenges and social pressures with a positive attitude.

According to your statement, I can feel that you are a thinking person, I will not pour you chicken soup for the soul, your troubles are nothing more than no motivation for study and life, but this feeling makes you very afraid, but you can't escape it. There's also the fact that you don't have anyone around you who you can trust.

Having said so much, you are just afraid of graduating, the hotbed that has been protecting you is gone, you are afraid of change and insecure, this is not something that can be solved by complaining and complaining, and you can carry it yourself.

Well, that's how it is, the more you grow up, the more lonely you become. People are very selfish, but they also have to make good friends, and a few true friends in life are fine. It's normal to have worries and no motivation.

Yes, you're right. I'm used to being lazy at university. When you first enter the society, you can't arouse your interest, and it may take a long time to adapt.

Go out and talk to people. If you talk about something, you can go back and be more open. Time will erase any emotional disappointments you may have.

First of all, when you have a negative ** about the future, and you are always worried about this negative future, you should analyze yourself, what the positive future will be, of course, it must be in line with reality, a little higher can also be, it is what you can get if you work hard. And look at the ability of the present, which future will be closer, negative? Or is it positive?

Because you have to judge reality based on yourself, if you think that you are actually quite good, then you should be closer to the positive outcome, and then you will be more successful in shifting your attention from the negative to the positive.

After weighing, it doesn't matter if you feel that the possibility of a positive future is mixed with a negative future, or that there may be a more negative future. First of all, tell yourself that there are many possibilities in the future, not only negative, you see, there is such a positive side, and then you have to believe in your own ability, you can have a very large control over the future.

It's like I'm going to take an exam, before I review, I must have forgotten all the knowledge, and at this time, I may have to kneel if I don't hang up, but as long as I review as planned, I will definitely be able to master all the knowledge quickly, and then I will most likely do well in the exam. Through my own efforts, I will be able to increase the possibilities for a positive future.

Psychology believes that anxiety is due to excessive attention to the future, and not living in the present, because the future is not something we can control, we can only control the present, so we will feel anxious because of what we can't do, and I do this by shifting my attention from the future (fear of failure) to the present (I have control myself, and I can succeed in the future by working hard now). And, when you know that the odds of success and failure are mixed in the future, it's actually not bad, because you can use it to call it the motivation for your efforts: I want to change the situation, I don't really want to fail, so I have to work hard to succeed.

In this way, it is actually quite good to be moderately anxious.

This mentality is mainly caused by the uncertainty of the future life, which is a normal phenomenon, and I think I can face the future life optimistically and put away unnecessary anxiety.

Graduating and getting a job is stressful, and everyone is very anxious, so if you want to get rid of this emotion, try to enrich yourself.

I'm about to graduate, and I'm very anxious. This is not a difficult thing, I am afraid that I will not be able to use my own academic subject results, but I am afraid that I will not have the strength. This is the choice of a scholar who is going to graduate.

Why be anxious, you should be excited, although life may be stressful, but you have your own finance** don't have to rely on your parents, isn't it great?

This emotion can't be shaken off, and it will accompany you for a long time, all you can do is to be with your emotions and work hard to self-discipline and improve yourself.

Everyone is like this, full of confusion about the future, it doesn't matter, let yourself think about something else.

Maybe you are particularly confused about the future, because you are about to leave school and step into society. Relax and don't be nervous.

Anxiety will be there, in the face of the unknown life after graduation, longing for but not clear anxiety, it is recommended to rest and adjust after graduation, think about what to do, how to do it, and think twice before acting.

Take out a piece of paper and ask yourself, why are you anxious, anxious because you graduated, you don't have a good job, why don't you have a good job? Keep asking yourself. In the end, I have my own career plan.

Everyone has anxiety, please accept your emotions positively, find the root cause, face, solve, accept, don't put too much pressure on yourself, and don't over-deposit in this emotion, come on.

Just remember in your heart: everything will pass, and people have to look forward.

Every graduate has it, don't take it too seriously, turn your attention elsewhere, talk to other students, see what others think, it will help you.

As long as you work hard, the future will be bright!

You should actively go to the company that suits you for interviews, apply, keep yourself busy, and you won't be too anxious when you have something to do.

When you are about to graduate, things are often complicated and important, and you have to make important choices in life.

First, when you don't know where to go, find a stable job first, and then talk about anything else.

Second, write graduation** The process is painful The ending is often good It is to prepare materials It is very annoying to typeset and print and organize files At this time, you have to cooperate with your friends.

The most important thing is to establish a self-mechanism, not to think about the bad things, and to be prepared to deal with difficulties.

Anxiety may not have found a more satisfactory job, or is about to go out of school a little uncomfortable, if so, you can't help but let yourself slowly calm down to learn to read, see what you are better at, find a job that is not necessarily high, but there is room for growth, learn to improve yourself in the work, when you find the direction in the work after your anxiety will slowly disappear, this period may be very short, may be relatively long, but you must believe that your efforts will be rewarded, What is returned to you is not necessarily money, it may be a platform, recognition, and the trust of the leader in you, which will eventually be linked to material. So don't be too high, take every step steadily, and you will find that every step you take is an experience for you.

Be in the moment, don't think that far ahead. Even if you have a firm goal, you should divide it carefully, step by step, and do a good job in the moment.

It's okay, it's just your first step into society, and there's nothing to be afraid of, after all, everyone comes from this stage, meet your colleagues with a smile, take the initiative to greet everyone, introduce yourself, will leave a good impression on everyone, take the initiative to ask for work, make your boss think you're motivated, don't have a conflict with anyone, because you're a new person.

You are the best, earthlings come over like this, what are you nervous about, it's good to get familiar with it in a few days, who is nervous at the beginning.

Hehe, just like me at the beginning, I was nervous to death, isn't this more than a month over, it's okay, just ask others more questions, there are not so many people who make things difficult for you when you first enter the company, believe in yourself!

It's normal, I'm also doing an internship, school and society are different environments, we all need an adaptation period, but all of us have basically experienced it like this, as long as you study modestly, after a period of time, you will feel at ease.

It's all about this process, it's okay, give yourself a little confidence and self-confidence, and believe that you can do it well. As long as you are diligent, diligent, diligent and polite, I believe that you will win the favor and affirmation of your leaders and colleagues. Remember, there is no fear of treating them as elders or siblings in your family.

Whether you are nervous about going home for the New Year is not the focus of the problems you encounter now, it is recommended that you watch that movie in the United States several times, happiness comes knocking on the door, must watch! What his dad said to his son on the basketball court. Anyway, it probably means that the ideal that the son thinks is happiness, and even her father can't change it.

Hope it helps.

It doesn't matter, the more nervous, the more.

No matter where you go or what the weather is, remember to bring your own sunshine. Remember, all experiences are cultivation.

Don't overthink it, calm yourself down, do something you like, and let yourself relax.

You're in a mess right now, and you're annoyed in your heart.

Don't throw yourself away because you graduated.

I've suffered like this.

Because I graduated from junior high school, I missed the past too much, so I had no friends in high school, I was withdrawn, gloomy, and my grades fell to the bottom of my age, and now I can only go abroad to study at a private university.

So don't joke with your future, it's in your current mood and it's in your judgment.

Try to relax your mind, don't have too extreme ideas, graduation can only mean that you can leave school and step into the society, compared to the school society, you can learn some things, such as survival skills, which you can't learn in school, so don't be afraid, it's not just you who graduate, everyone has a different way of life, wouldn't it be better to go to the society to practice learning earlier.

Think about what you did in school, whether you have cultivated your ability, whether you have studied professionally, and whether you are better than your peers, and then you know what you want to do.

Don't be afraid, I've been graduating for several years and I'm still going to die like this.

Don't pick, just take a job, do it first!

If you feel restless because of lying, it shows that you have a good heart, which means that you need to improve your emotional intelligence. You might as well tell a few more lies to deceive yourself, and you won't have this kind of restlessness, you know.

Force yourself to sit down and write well, a must.

Truth be told, there's nothing wrong with that. Classmates are lifelong and don't never associate with each other just because they graduated – you have a common circle unless you completely run away from all your teachers and classmates. Paper can't contain fire, and if you don't say it, others will know sooner or later, won't it be even more embarrassing when the time comes?