I m in college right now, I m a freshman, and I have a few questions that I hope can be helped. Than

Anyway, joining the student union allows you to meet more people, but it is not necessarily that you don't have to get exercise, if you have an internship yourself, it will be better than joining the student union. I think it's very important to have a good relationship with my classmates, especially like you, because if you go back every week, you will miss the weekend, which is a great opportunity for everyone or the whole dormitory to act collectively, after all, friendship depends on cultivation, to be honest, there are many clubs in the university, but not all of them are good, and you are likely to only develop interests in it, but you don't get much exercise. You think so much about the future, I think it's already rare.

In fact, I think that university study is very different from high school, mainly depending on the degree of self-consciousness. If you want to go to work directly after graduating from college, you need to get in touch with the society more and study seriously every day, which is more useful for the graduate school entrance examination or being a scholar in the future, because you will find that as long as you sprint to make up for the university exam in the last month, the score will be very high. People have their own aspirations, maybe the classmates around you are very busy because they have joined the student union or many clubs, you don't want to be affected and feel lonely or impetuous, don't regret it, the most feared thing has no goal, if you have a clear goal for the future, then move forward persistently!

Also, there are many benefits to participating in more activities at the university!

The student union or something, in fact, it may not be suitable for everyone, but if you want to exercise, try a little more complex interpersonal communication, you can join, but there is not only one way to exercise interpersonal relationships, you can also do a good job of interpersonal relationships during your internship. Classmates, and a small number of them, you think they are promising, and the character is relatively good, it's okay, not everyone is good at mixing well with everyone, you can do it well, treat the major with a very serious attitude, it's already better than many people, so don't worry. Slowly find your future goals and development directions, and then work hard in your own way.

You can also consult a counselor or mentor, future development and so on, these are relatively good. ps: There are all kinds of competitions to participate in, and don't complain too much about being "hacked" as a result, these are normal, it's good to learn by yourself, but you still have to fight for the rankings and awards.

Actually, college is all about how you can deal with these things, including self-improvement, interpersonal relationships, and so on, just do what you think you need to do, after all, society doesn't accept robots, everyone has their own principles.

Personally, I think you need to put aside some unhappy things for a while to put yourself in a relaxed and stress-free state first, and "travel light to win all enemies"!

Second, you need to start to know what you know about your major, since you can't accept new knowledge now, then systematically sort out the knowledge you have learned, "review the old and learn the new"! The most important thing is to understand that you don't understand, I think your major and my computer should be similar, I didn't know anything about computers, I was combing textbooks night and night, and I took notes during the day, I know that this method is very stupid but I think it's suitable for me, because I'm a person who wants to understand the root of things, with a head full of soy milk, I can't learn anything, and slowly it's clear that I separate hardware and software, and I know that various software classifications are now half a line of people, So you're very similar to me and me now, so there's no need to put so much pressure on yourself!

Third, I think it is to be calm, know your blind spots, break through each humility, and happily ask friends, classmates, teachers, and professors, let yourself infect them, your enthusiasm, and thirst for knowledge, oh, I like a sentence in "Three Fools in Bollywood": When you pursue excellence, success will naturally catch up with you. Therefore, when you concentrate on conquering the fortress of your studies, it will not be a problem to change majors and fail the exams.

Fourth, if you are not interested in this subject and you don't know what you want, don't consider dropping out because you don't know what you want! In fact, vocational training is the same as university, (I am the person who has come from vocational training), the environment affects people, and career wishes are not necessarily much better than the university atmosphere, the key is a person's mentality! Now I think you should adjust your mindset first and try to give your major (which you don't seem to like and are not good at) a chance, and also give yourself a challenge!

Learning is all subtle, and no one can say when it will be of great help to your future! So now you should study this major steadily, hehe.

Hope it helps!

Study hard, you can study a major you like, there is no freedom in society, enjoy the four years of university life, there will be more pain in the future.

Determine a goal you want to achieve, and then really try to do it, if you can't do it, then you will still be able to achieve nothing out of school, if you can do it, then choose a higher one, which will be more beneficial to you in the future. You'll be full.

Stick to it. Cherish the time you spend reading. We used to be too, when we were studying, we wanted to enter the society as soon as possible, and we felt that we would definitely be able to make a difference.

But now that I'm really working, I miss school life very much. In short, hurry up and adjust your mentality.

Personally, I think you don't treat yourself well like this, and you should go to a psychiatrist sooner. There should be a psychology class in the school (our school has) You can talk to a psychology teacher, solve the doubts in your heart, and show your own problems as soon as possible, which is also beneficial to yourself. I'm also a first-year student, and the major I chose is not my favorite, but I still want to learn something from it, even if I don't pursue a career related to my current major.

Hehe, interest is the best teacher, it seems that you are very touched! If you want to change majors, you must first do a good job in your grades, at least meet the conditions! In fact, there are methods, but everyone uses it differently, repeat the memory, practice more, this seems to be a stupid method, but it is very practical and effective, as long as you are determined to conquer a certain subject or course, you will concentrate on it, and put the others aside, concentration is an unparalleled power, just like Li Yunlong said, even if you bite your teeth, you have to gnaw him down!

There is no threshold that cannot be crossed, just focus and be attentive! Another point, university is a high degree of freedom, it is a transition stage to social development, you have to have a sense of self-reliance, learn to control yourself, learn to be a person and do things, instead of studying for the sake of scores! A diploma does not represent your ability, it only proves the degree of education you have received, and you must accumulate your social work experience during your school years, otherwise, when you graduate, you will know nothing about society, then you will be even more confused!

There's really no way, dropping out is not a bad thing, the key is that you have a clear goal and plan, measure the gains and losses, and not blindly drop out, otherwise you will lose your wife and lose your soldiers, and the two ends are empty! Whatever you choose, don't push yourself! Good luck!

I think there is only one problem you have to solve now: how to change this situation if you are not studying well now. It's an attitude to learn to face a difficult problem and solve it.

Your school and major are good, your foundation should not be bad, and the correlation between university and middle school is not strong in engineering things. Find the crux of your own learning: is it really a lack of intelligence, a lack of proper attitude or a problem with the method?

Figuring this out is key.

It is normal to encounter difficulties in life, and it is in the process of facing difficulties that people continue to hone and grow. Emotional things talk about fate, to separate feelings and learning, a charming woman must first have an independent personality, and constantly improve herself: knowledge, cultivation, and talent.

What you need to learn in college is not only professional knowledge, but also learn to live, learn to learn, and learn to be a person, which is a worthwhile trip to university.

1.There is a lot of free time in college, and joining students will not affect your studies. I often only have 2-4 classes a day. Joining the student union can indeed get to know more people and increase knowledge.

2. It is indeed beneficial to run for class cadres, and it is also said on the resume to find a job in the future.

3. It is a bit troublesome to study for probationary party members to join the party, if you have the intention of taking the civil service examination in the future, then enter.

4. Joining the party is mainly to enter civil servants and state-owned enterprises, and no one will check whether you are a party member if you go abroad.

5 can be tested. Any teacher loves students who love to learn.

Personally, I feel that the current environment is very sluggish, although the learning environment and teaching methods abroad may be better than those in China, but I do not quite recognize that the same 300,000 training costs can bring huge benefits in the future.

Software engineers abroad are definitely not a youth meal, but the situation is different in China. If a domestic private enterprise does it, then it is basically a youth meal. Now in the country can basically be said to have not formed a good R & D environment, everyone is you copy me, I copy you, if you can from technology to management or consulting, then of course Bu Chen, this is also the direction of most of the domestic turtle state Zen, especially in multinational companies have project management experience is still very popular.

So in general, it is difficult to say that you can learn useful things at a huge cost of 300,000 yuan, and it is related to personal talent, as well as the willpower and execution of knowledge.

If you want to cover the cover, you can apply to study abroad after graduation, if you want to study software, I think the United States is better than Australia.

Now returnees, in addition to the good employment of graduates from famous foreign schools, the rest is actually like that.

You yourself have said that whether or not to study abroad is a matter of two years after Oak Song, so the most important thing now is to prepare for the life of the Great Sakura School, maybe you will have an idea in two years.

It is better to finish four years of study in the country and apply for a graduate study in a good foreign university.

What kind of school is Deacon, Australia is not good except for the eight major fibers.

There's no need to spend so much money, 300,000 is enough for you to work hard for three years, just learn the technology well.

At this stage, you can feel your confusion, which is actually a very happy thing! Thankfully! You're just a freshman in your freshman year, which is just beginning, and it's still too late, and it's also the time for high school students to transition from college students. I'm most afraid that I won't know the confused person until my junior or senior year!

Here, I would like to tell you that in fact, college students were confused at the beginning, but many did not find the direction, so many college students are not doing their jobs in college, fooling around in dormitories, Internet cafes, and entertainment venues all day long, as a pastime, wasting time, after three or four years in vain, and only after graduation did they know that they regretted it.

In college, exams are generally not a problem, the key is how to exercise your personal ability, for example, interpersonal skills, organizational skills, etc., you say that you did not enter the student union, did not work as a worker, this is not a matter of the state key, you say your character... It's not the key issue either, it's your determination that matters most!

A perseverance, tenacity, perseverance. Have a strong desire to change your determination!

Will look for a way, everyone has their own way to change themselves, the best is to find relevant books, where do you want to change, you go to find a collection of books in this area, for example, I want to change my communication, then go to find some books about interpersonal communication or search for some interpersonal relationships on the Internet, learn the skills. Books such as "Square and Circle" by Ding Yuanzhi, as well as "Studying in College, What to Read", etc., are all worth reading, in fact, there are many more, I have time to visit the library more and see what books interest me!

Another point is that you have to start planning your future university life now, I don't have a good way, you have to learn to care about the people around you in life, many times you have to think about problems from the perspective of others, there is a sentence that has been encouraging me, I think it will also be very useful to you: meaningful, the more scared, the more I have to do!

A person's self-confidence is strengthened by overcoming their fears, you have to learn to overcome the fears in your heart, know that you are afraid to do it, you have to encourage yourself to do it, but when you do it, you will get a sense of accomplishment! Speaking of this "sense of achievement", it is actually a good motivation!

If you want to change yourself, you have to rely on yourself, you have to grasp every doubt in life, it is best to carry some small notebooks and comparisons, and record every inspiration in life, and then have time to slowly study and solve, do, or think about these problems. Try to use your own practical actions to realize your every little wish, this is the accumulation of a sense of achievement! Those who can do small things well will become great things!

This is just a small suggestion, if you want to change yourself, you must rely on yourself, find your own information to solve your confusion in the direction, and achieve the right effect!

I wish you to say goodbye to the confusion of the present as soon as possible, and the confusion of the future will depend on yourself, hehe...