He told me to do something I would get angry if I couldn t do it 20

It's too manly, so you won't have a good time in the future. You see, if you put your whole heart and soul on him, he's going to be more macho, and he's going to have a vicious circle!! And the more you are centered on him, the more arrogant he will be, and what he tells you to do in the future, if you don't do it, he will be more angry, or a vicious circle, dear, the world is very big, there are many men.

Mom and Dad have raised you for many years, not to make you grovel and blindly accommodate a person who will be angry with you if you don't get it. Do you think I'm right? You are such a good girl, (I don't know if it's a girl) Why should you be so wronged by yourself.

The world is so big that there are no wonders, and there are definitely better ones.

Love itself is a mutual understanding and help between the two parties, rather than a unilateral effort.

Then break up, don't want such a man, who does he think he is? There are more good men, and maybe you will live better without him. Or be separated for a while, if he really cares you will look out for you.

I'll come to you if I figure it out. If he doesn't care how you feel, why put so much pressure on himself? People should be happy and happy in life, especially the most important thing is to find a person who is good to themselves and thinks about themselves everywhere, what do you say?

If it's an inconsequential little thing that he's like this, then you should think about what you love about him, and when you think clearly, you will know what to do, remember not to blindly accommodate the other party, otherwise you will be hurt in the end.

Lovers shouldn't be like this, think about what you like about him and what he likes about you.

In the case of breaking up because of willfulness, frequent quarrels or personality incompatibility, etc., the psychological change of a man is that he will feel a sense of relief at the beginning, feel very relaxed, and at the same time will have a sense of guilt towards the other party, at this time he will not be willing to meet the other party, because the pain of meeting you at this time is like a reminder of his cruelty and failure (no matter who proposed the breakup of this relationship, it is a failed relationship). Won't want to think too much about anything between you. At this time, most of the time he is immersed in or transferred to something of interest, so you can't see on the surface that he has any pain or thoughts about the relationship.

In this case, the woman may understand that those who may ignore you and are unwilling to meet, or you may find that he is emotionally entangled from the previous side.

The second is because of the reality of the situation, such as studying abroad, long-distance and other reasons to break up, the man's psychological changes, at first will be very rational, think of various reasons to persuade himself, will be very attentive to the other party's situation, but also very painful, and unwilling to meet, which will aggravate their pain and incompetence, willing to do a lot of things for each other and miss the sweet love time very much, in this case, if there is no external force, the possibility of a third party is very rare, and then it will slowly calm down. But the feeling of powerlessness will always be there. In this case, there is no need to worry about why the other party seems to be the same as when they were in love, but everyone knows very well that the relationship is falling apart, just like breaking up after graduation.

Third, when self-esteem is hurt, for example, the girl has a sense of superiority in the relationship.

Or the conditions are superior, the woman's parents do not agree, etc., the man's psychological changes, he will start to resent the woman very much, and will transfer his emotions through games or immediately looking for a new lover to alleviate this pain, and at the same time, he hates himself more because he is incapable and self-esteem.

When you can't stand it, you will hate the woman again, and then another round of such a cycle of resentment, if the woman is recovering, she will bear a lot of anger that may be vented, and the stage of breaking through the defense is also the most difficult link.

Generally, the breakup is nothing more than these three situations, some people may say that we are opposed by the man's parents, we are in a different place, but it seems to be a personality incompatibility, then I count which one, his mentality changes to see which situation, that is, the most important reason for your breakup is which is which situation, such as those mentioned above, the most important thing is that the personality is incompatible, then look at the first one. In fact, don't always worry about how the other party is, think about it, and don't focus all your energy on tangling and guessing what the other party thinks in their hearts.

Couples should communicate more with each other, don't get angry because of inconsequential things, it's easy to hurt feelings, be more tolerant, understand a little more to better promote feelings, and be confident in your future life.

Don't get angry because of some trivial things, it will hurt your feelings, say something, and the two of you will solve it together

Whatever he does or something you are not used to seeing is to say it, don't hold it in your heart, so you will be very uncomfortable, if there are bad things to correct him, next time he changes it, you don't have to be angry, with an optimistic attitude to him.

The main thing between couples is communication, ah, what do you think? Sit down and talk openly and honestly, so that each other can know, don't let the lion let the other party guess, after a long time, it will affect the relationship and further development.

You can tell him directly, don't hold it in your heart, you tell him what you don't like him to do, and ask him to change.

Summary. Dear, hello, you will be angry, because you have troubles in your heart and feel uncomfortable, so you will not do things for him willingly.

When someone asks me to do something, I get angry about why.

Dear, hello, you will be angry, because you have troubles in your heart and feel uncomfortable, so you will not do things for him willingly.

I've been this kind of psychology since I was a child, and now I'm 40 years old and I'm a lady.

You are the kind of you who are usually spoiled and doted on by the people around you.

will form your kind of character.

Is this character a manifestation of selfishness?

This is not a sign of selfishness.

It's that the people around you spoil you, and it's not good to be too pampered with a lady a lot of times.

Okay, teacher, I still have a question in my mind, can I ask?

Yes, let the teacher help you analyze it.

When I was 9 years old, I suffered from **, the shadow has always been there, low self-esteem, autism, unhappy married life, pain, how**?

Come and ask the teacher to hug you.

Let the teacher be your listener and listen to you.

Thank you for your love, teacher, I am now 40 years old, ma'am, and I found out that the shadow of children hurt me a lot, and I said a lot of things, and I was released.

From the perspective of time, when you need someone else's help, someone else may have something, he stops what he is doing to help you, you should be doubly grateful, if he asks you to wait, that's right, or even say that he helped you Maybe he can't finish his work, why should he help you in this situation? What qualifications do you have to ask him for help, and what are you angry about?

From the perspective of interests, why should others help you if there is no benefit? Why was the emperor able to respond to every call? That's because it's good to tie up with the emperor, understand? And we can't, so when others help you, it's out of kindness, and it's right not to help you.

From the perspective of people's hearts, once, no problem, twice OK, 3 times, how much? It's going to be annoying, this is one of them, pay attention, parents will also have impatience times.

Why do you say empathy?

For example, one day, you didn't finish your homework, and you made up at school, and the class representative kept urging you to hurry up, and you had to hand it in after class. Then, he said why don't you help, and then he got angry... What would you think?

I'm sure I'm thinking, neurosis, don't you see me doing things? You're in charge of being called a parent, aren't you? Ask me for help and still drag like this...

I hope you can understand.,Not everyone is willing to help people.,People aren't willing to help people all the time.,When looking for someone to help, you have to be considerate of others.,I don't understand when I'm angry or something.,If the above story is replaced by a person you hate coming to ask you for help.,Then,Even if you have time.,I guess I won't pay attention to him.。

The last point of view is that people who help others will be helped by others, and first you have to be willing to help others.

It's impossible for others to rely on you for everything, what he doesn't want to do, if you let him do it, he will definitely be unhappy, you have to empathize.

Maybe the purpose of your friendship is too obvious and candid, but he is not comfortable or does not know what to do. If it is to communicate, get to know each other, understand and then make a decision, it is more prudent. Noisy Chang makes friends of the opposite sex, if he really meets that person, no matter what the reason, he can't stop him.

It's like this in love. The so-called bystander is clear, you might as well let someone you know together understand. Maybe it will be better.