Why are more and more Chinese women moving away from marriage when traditional Asian marriages are c

First of all, the most important point is the shackles of traditional thinking, and secondly, the pressure of work and life is getting bigger and bigger, many people can't even guarantee their basic life, and the pressure will become more and more after marriage, and finally more and more women are hurt in their feelings, and they don't want to contact this thing in their hearts.

First, traditional thinking has caused women to be hurt too much in marriage

Many women become housewives naturally after getting married, and they can only take care of the whole family at home without being able to do some things they like, which is very unacceptable for many women now, because many women don't want to stay at home, and want to go out to the society by themselves to seek their dreams.

Second, the current economic pressure is particularly great, and it is even more difficult to maintain a life after marriage

With the development of society, people's consumption level has improved, and many people have difficulty maintaining their consumption concepts. Many people earn enough money after a month of hard work to buy cosmetics on their own. If they choose to get married, it is unimaginable for them to have family expenses after marriage.

Because of the problem of economic income, many women choose to avoid marriage.

3. Many men's attitudes towards feelings are becoming less and less rigorous, which makes girls hurt by their feelings

Two people rely on each other's trust together, but because many men are not strict about their feelings, they hook up outside all day long, but girls feel that boys are unreliable, and many girls refuse the arrival of new feelings because they are afraid of being hurt again after being hurt by their feelings. Many girls simply don't think about marriage anymore, and it's good to do what they like all day long.

Because you can't get happiness in marriage, you will feel that marriage is a grave, and it will be very uncomfortable to suppress yourself.

Because they have been hurt in their marriage, they are unwilling to believe in love anymore and are not willing to re-enter into marriage.

Because if the marriage is not happy, then most of this life will be ruined.

There may be many reasons why more and more women are reluctant to enter into marriage nowadays, and here are some possible factors:

Changes in personal values: Modern women pay more and more attention to self-development and realization, and are more inclined to pursue the values of self-realization, believing that marriage is not the whole of life, and paying more attention to personal independence and freedom.

Changes in the concept of marriage: With the development of society, people's concept of marriage has also changed, and many people no longer regard marriage as a necessary part of life, but more pursue emotional truth and freedom.

Changes in the social environment: Modern society pays more attention to personal independence and freedom, women's social status has gradually improved, they have more choices and opportunities, and correspondingly, marriage has become more liberal and diverse.

The increase in marital risk: In real life, the divorce rate is rising year by year, and the risk of marriage is also increasing accordingly, and some women are worried that marriage will bring unnecessary risks and troubles, so they choose not to marry or marry later and have children later.

In short, there are many reasons why modern women are reluctant to enter into marriage, involving personal, cultural, social and other factors. Every woman should make a choice that suits her according to her actual situation and needs. Whether you choose to get married or be single, you should stick to your own principles and values and live the life you want.

This question has been repeated many times.

More and more women are reluctant to enter marriage, and now according to incomplete statistics, there are tens of millions of single women of school age, unwilling to get married, and some are even in their 30s, 40s, or single, and have not found their ideal other half.

Why is this happening? The main reasons for hail slippage are the following three points.

The first is the proliferation of small **, the prevalence of hedonism, and the proliferation of poisonous chicken soup, which has caused many women to lose their self-awareness, lack sober thinking about life, and just want to use marriage as a springboard to improve their social class.

Now there are a lot of women who have this kind of idea, and they are with men, not to live, not to make each other better, but just to find a support, so that they can live a worry-free life, two people together do not have any feelings, only the exchange of interests and values.

Maybe when you are young, as a girl, there is still capital for exchange, but as you get older, a marriage without feelings will break down sooner or later. I have no value and I am not willing to give, and sooner or later I will be abandoned by others.

It is based on this situation that many women want to find an honest man, but now honest people are not so easy to find, so many women are increasingly reluctant to enter into marriage.

The second is that the material requirements are getting higher and higher, and the standard configuration in my heart is actually the top match.

I don't look at my own conditions, the requirements for men are getting higher and higher, I have a house and a car, I am 1.8 meters tall, I am handsome, I have a good job, I have a high income, and my parents have a pension ......

Such conditions are actually very high, most people can only meet one or two of them, and those who can meet all of them are one in a million. Women are looking for it, it is difficult to find a suitable other half who can satisfy them, and if they can't find it, they are reluctant to enter into marriage.

In the end, there are some small problems, I hope that the other party can love themselves more, I like each other, and I am afraid that the relationship between the two people will not last long. Conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, work reasons, fear of having children, fear of housework, ......

Some girls like to live freely, are afraid of marriage, and are reluctant to enter into marriage.

In more detail, with the development of society, people's lifestyles and needs are becoming more and more diversified, the society is becoming more and more relaxed, various phenomena emerge in an endless stream, people are becoming more and more tolerant, and it is not surprising that more and more single people are not surprised. Bi Xian Gao.

Hello! Marriage is definitely not so good to be able to walk in, so it is sure that marriage is still relatively hard, and marriage is still very troublesome.

The truth of marriage is too beautiful to bear to look at each other......When you get married, it's usually women who are trapped, so it's not that love is worth it, who wants to get married.

Because of the cultural differences between the two countries, as well as the differences in living habits, language communication problems, etc.

Because after coming to China, the living habits are different, and life is not very convenient.

Marriage has made itself very bad.

There is no need to reduce your quality of life.

Modern women want to persevere and find true love.

Marriage is not a necessity for human beings.

Marriage is when a man finds a nanny and a woman finds a man to raise. What kind of person do you think would choose this kind of life? What will happen to their next generation?

Chinese lack proper education in marriage values. Education in this area is almost nil.

1. There is no corresponding education before and after marriage. Many of the actions that people do before and after marriage are blind and mostly instinctive.

However, moral education cannot keep up with the pace of the times, and people's moral values lack the most basic education that should be provided. Chinese's education of people is more motivated by political considerations, and the criticism of tradition is greater than the inheritance of tradition.

Second, due to the imperfection of democracy and the legal system. China's laws are very problematic in both legislation and law enforcement, and it is obvious to all that there are laws that cannot be followed, that laws are not followed, and that law enforcement is not strictly enforced. This is still the case with mandatory laws, and morality without compulsory constraints can be imagined.

3. Too much irresponsible criticism of traditional morality has led to a disconnect in people's moral content. There are deviations and gaps in people's moral orientation.

Fourth, the political and economic inequality of the whole people has led to the inequality and non-popularization of education, and the wealth and poverty in education have intensified. Many poor people lack the education they deserve.

Fifth, lack of due sense of responsibility. It is the main and direct cause of the persistent divorce rate. This lack of responsibility is manifested not only in the responsibilities after marriage, but also in the sloppiness before marriage.

As for some people, this is the inevitable result of economic development. is an irresponsible statement. It is an important aspect of the inferiority of the Chinese people.

It is that it is rarely looking for gaps in itself, but more looking for objective reasons. This is the same as saying that poverty arises from China's large population. If Chinese always think that if there are more Chinese, there will be insufficient resources and poverty, then Japan, South Korea, and even Taiwan have a population density that is many times larger than China.

But why are they developed? Doesn't that tell the story? At the end of the day, education doesn't go up.

I won't say anything else about other sensitive things.

Japan's economy is developed, and everyone can see it, but Japan's divorce rate is one of the lowest in the world, and China's divorce rate is dozens of times that of Japan, which should give everyone a reflection.

I think that failed marriages are also an isolated phenomenon. To put it so arbitrarily, China's marriages are failing more and more, and it seems to have overturned a boatload of people with a rod.

Look at the people around us, or many people have happy marriages. After all, divorces are still in the minority. It's just that the probability of these divorces is much higher than in our parents' generation.

I think it's a social reason, and there's a reason for everyone. After all, more and more people will not settle in marriage, I think this is the progress of society and the progress of human emotions, there is nothing to worry about.

Actually, it's not just our country. In any country, there will be a lot of failed marriages. Therefore, it cannot be said alone that marriages in our country are failing more and more.

I think that getting married and living a life is like opening a store, and if we can run it, we will naturally open the store better and better. If you can't operate, you can't keep the risk of going out of business.

We can't say that if we see a few stores that have closed down, we can't say that opening a store in China is not profitable, it is a failure.

Because today's marriage is based on the conditions rather than the character, most of the conditions are based on the conditions of the man's parents, and what the man's parents can provide. Individuals who calculate the gains and losses of their personal interests without emotion can only fail more and more.

The current marriage law is problematic in its orientation, which wants marriage to be based on pure love. Whether it is traditional China or modern China, marriage is based on the common foundation of love and economy, and only when responsibilities and rights are unified can there be a good marriage. Many problems in the current social transformation, such as the phoenix man, the peacock woman, the demon of helping the younger brother, the inheritance of rural property and pension, etc., are difficult to describe!

In the eyes of men and mothers-in-law, women should also be like before, taking their husbands as their heavens, selfless dedication, and three obedience and four virtues. And a woman's mind has been emancipated, she wants to pursue respect, recognition, and more importantly, self. Women's minds have been emancipated, but men are still alive in the Qing Dynasty.

Isn't it because a man marries a wife but can't treat his wife as his own mistress because he can't do without his mother's naivety? The root cause of everything is that the mother's education has affected a man's life, and Ma Bao Nan should not marry a wife and have children to harm others.

Why failed, first ask the marriage law, a woman has children for the family, hard work, once the marriage breaks down, she is out of the house, why is the divorce rate low abroad, because the cost of divorce is high.

The contrast between men before and after marriage is too great. Attentive before marriage, indifferent after marriage. When a daughter-in-law marries home, it is like a thing in a bag, and she no longer bothered about it.

The man came to an abrupt end, while the woman continued to move forward along the lines of the emotional marriage that she had previously recognized or that she wanted. There is also a part of it because women are so ambitious and watery; Men attract flowers and butterflies. A part of the personality cannot be fused.

It is difficult for people to get along with each other, and there are too many reasons for the failure of marriages to be unified.

Most women want to divorce, don't want to live a meaningless, worthless and self-directed life, this is the awakening of women, don't want to be someone else's nanny who doesn't spend money, nanny still has a salary, the woman's contribution in marriage is not recognized and respected, very vulnerable.

Because in the world, marriage is still based on the inequality of men and women. Money and love are indispensable in marriage. Women are becoming more and more awake, and men are still defending vested interests.

It seems that men and women are now equal. In fact, after marriage, women are not respected at all, and even more so when they live with their in-laws. The in-laws feel that they have paid for the children, and the young couple really didn't do any housework, but after a long time, there are only sons in the small family, no husband and father, and the daughter-in-law has no space of her own, and the husband still insists on all the living habits of the original family, and the wife can only follow, no matter how much you don't like it, no one will ask you if you are used to it, because except for you, everyone else is really used to the family.

In addition to not having to do housework, you have lost all the rights that should be in your marriage, normal communication with your husband (because the elders are there) as a real hostess, the home you and your husband have built, your mother-in-law is the hostess, you can no longer get the warmth and love of your husband, but your husband thinks you don't have to do anything, are you still not satisfied? Only you know that you will never have a home after marriage. When will Chinese parents let go, getting married means that the family is an independent individual, let this individual grow up on their own, support each other, and improve the quality of marriage.