How do you balance emotions in the game and reality?

In today's world with the rapid development of the Internet, the Internet has become an indispensable part of people's lives, and online games are very popular with many young people. Many people are addicted to online games, sitting in front of the computer all the time, the mobile phone does not leave their side, ignoring their families, and completely leaving their real feelings behind, which is very incorrect. So how do you balance the game with the emotions in reality?

Some people think that games and real feelings are opposites, and you can't have both. If you play a game, you can't take care of your feelings, in fact, this view is not right. It's okay to play games, but you can't play them for a long time, games are used to delight your mood, and you can relieve your depressed mood by playing games when you're particularly bored, but you can't let games occupy your heart and completely lose yourself.

If you want to balance your feelings, you need to find the stakes between the two, and you must know that the world of the game is far less important than the feelings in reality, and you must be clear about this in order to find a breakthrough from it.

Take myself as an example, I have a boyfriend, the two of us are in the same school, we have to play together almost every day, I also like to play games, but I don't play games when I'm with him, because it's not good, so I will play for a while when I get up in the morning and wash up, so that I can have a game addiction without delaying other things, and I will also play when I go back to the dormitory at night, so it is a good balance between games and reality.

In short, you can't take the game too seriously, the game can be played or not, but the relationship with others can't be so casual, so when balancing the game and feelings, you still have to focus on feelings.

The game is just a virtual world. You may feel like you're emotionally invested and feel like you're going to be rewarded. But that's just a virtual online world. The display is still quite brutal, so don't associate the game with reality.

Games are just a way to relax yourself, and real life is the main thing. You can't ignore your family for the sake of having fun, you have to learn to control yourself.

With the development of the Internet and people's needs, more games spring in people's field of vision, people's entertainment is not only stand-alone games on the web page, now it is very convenient to play online mobile games on mobile phones, so many games, but also led to problems, such as many people can not balance the relationship between life and games. Here are three ways to balance the relationship between play and life.

First of all, we must understand that play is the main part of life to relieve stress, secondly, we must know the harm of excessive play to the body, and finally we should use the right way to enrich our lives. Let's take a closer look.

First, the game is entertainment, life is the main body, the production of the game is actually to give people more of a way to relieve their mood and release stress, rather than letting people spend too much time in the game, if people spend too much time in the game, the effect is often counterproductive. We need to understand that we are the subjects of life, and that life needs us to be in control. There's a lot of fun to do in life, and you don't have to waste time on games.

Second, we need to be aware of the damage to the body caused by excessive play, which can lead to vision loss, and if you sit in the same position for too long, it will also lead to different physical diseases, such as cervical spondylosis and frozen shoulder. Staying up late to play games for a long time can even lead to serious cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases, even sudden death. Indulging in games for a long time will cause irreparable damage to our bodies, so it is very important to balance the relationship between games and life.

3. Enrich your life with the right wayFinally, we don't just have games as a way to entertain in life, but there are actually many ways to soothe our mood and wait to be explored. For example, in addition to playtime, we can fully explore our hobbies, such as sports, writing, drawing, singing, etc. Face life with a positive attitude and enrich your life with the right way to relax.

Make sure you have a good life first, and then use games to polish your life, and don't waste your life because of games.

Playing games must not affect your life. The game is virtual after all, and it can't replace anything. The game can only pass the time when you are bored. Don't play games for more than two hours a day.

I also play games, but I don't have to play them every day. If you have free time, you can go to play, because games affect your life, to have disputes with friends or lovers, relatives, I think it's very naïve, it's nothing if you don't play games, some people hurt it is a scar that is not necessary.

Life is important, and games are just a pastime. Everyone lives to be disease-free and only 30,000 days to the age of 80, and everyone plays a variety of roles in the limited time they live, and these roles often correspond to certain responsibilities.

In fact, the only difference between the game and reality is that in reality, you can feel the shortcomings of the person you love.

In the game, it's all about your imagination. You will subconsciously imagine the other person as a perfect person. This is because one of the characteristics of human beings is that they never consider themselves to be imperfect.

As long as there is resonance in your heart, you will be desperate to think that the other person is a perfect match for you. In the game, everything is perfect because you are so attached to the spiritual yearning in the game.

Personally, I don't think there's any need to think about what to do. Because everything in the game will come to an abrupt end at the end of the game, and any retention is useless. That's when you'll find out what you can and should grasp.

But there's no need to be a verbal critic of the emotions in the game, after all, it's also a valuable experience in your life.

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Games are just games, just play, but reality is not the same thing as games.

A person can choose to play games all day, without eating, drinking, sleeping, and of course, not working or studying, what will be the result? People are not made of steel, as the game developer's prompt said, "addiction to games hurts the body", if you don't eat, drink or sleep, sooner or later your body will collapse, and the sudden death of young people in Internet cafes reported in the news in recent years is a bloody lesson. A person can also choose to make games a helper in life, for this person, games are only a small part of life compared to eating, sleeping, working, studying, and social interactions.

As the game developer's prompt says, "moderate gaming is good for the brain", the game itself actually has many benefits, such as relaxing, improving memory, making people react faster, allowing people to learn some new knowledge, and so on. These two are different choices, but also have different purposes, the former is to clear the level, in order to win the glory in the game, in order to make friends in the game, in order to get a sense of accomplishment in the game, etc., in the final analysis, often want to use the game to replace life, in order to escape life, and the latter is for a better and more committed life. Different choices and purposes will have different results.

Balancing life is a simple matter. Imagine that otaku with such a simple life can't be balanced, how can celebrities with many hobbies such as Lin Zhiying be peaceful? Control the amount of time and effort you put into the game, and the first thing is to lower the priority of the game.

A lot of times when you keep playing and don't do anything else, it must be because there's nothing higher in priority. Write down what you want to do, follow the procedure strictly, and if you can't punish yourself, then find a friend to punish you for violating the behavior. In fact, self-control is also required for all of the above, but daring to take the first step shows that there is still salvation.

I'm bored at home after work, and I play two sets lol. I wouldn't choose an online RPG game because it takes a lot of effort and it takes me a lot of time. If I play an online RPG, I can't get to work.

When my friends want to get together, I can't go as promised. When a player wants to play, they will exclude me. When my girlfriend misses me, I can only tell him that I want to participate in union activities and brush up on copies, don't make any noise!

I love gaming, I also love drinking, playing cards, dating, watching movies, reading books. Don't let your life only be games, be richer, find more of your friends, drink, brag, play cards, climb mountains, and explore your favorite lifestyle, what are you obsessed with only games?

The reason why I am addicted to games is more because I can't find value and presence in real life (it may be short-term or long-term). If you find value and a sense of existence in life, you will have a deeper experience of real life and will like to be silent in this feeling. At this time, the attraction of the game to itself is weakened, and if the attraction is small, the time spent playing the game will be reduced, and even the game will feel boring, because the sense of presence in the game has been replaced in real life.

Be aware of what the game means to you. If gaming is your means of life, then, when making money, I hope you pay more attention to your body. If gaming is just your way of relaxing, then remember that playing games is for you to relax.

After realizing the meaning of the game to you, it is equivalent to positioning yourself to play the game. Why do I play the game? In order to relax yourself.

Play is just a way to relax, not the only way), which is very important, as long as you recognize this positioning, then you will look at it and deal with it as a positioning.

The game should be in moderation, enjoy the happiness brought by the game in the fault of the game, in normal time, such as eating and other free time, you can choose to listen to ** to relax, in addition to not overly addicted to the game, communicate with your family more.

When you find a better way to spend your time, the game becomes secondary. Instead of constantly forbidding yourself from playing, you should be optimistic to find your other interests. It may seem like a bit of a runaway, but if you add more fun to your life, maybe the game won't have such a deep impact on you.

You won't be bothered with the balance between games and life.