How to face a man who has just loved and is about to lose

Updated on psychology 2024-06-21
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    What you're doing now is just deluding yourself. You're just trying to numb yourself, is that good for you? Find someone who is reluctant to be with you for the time being, and wait until you have feelings in the future to find that you can't be with each other, and if you go on gradually, you will only become more and more numb.

    By the time you understand, it's too late. For the sake of temporary pain, but it damages your good life in the future, is it worth it?

    I think it's good for you to take your time to face the fact that you are out of love, and make yourself look for another boyfriend after replying!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    He's right not to contact you, it's time for you to have your own love, he's not your permanent, you have to face it!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I hope you can find a man who truly loves you, one who is married. Who can believe that his love is real or fake.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You weren't supposed to be with the beast in the first place, but now that he's let go, you should be happy to stay away from the beast

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I have had the same experience as you, he left you because he still loves his wife, and he doesn't want to hurt you too much!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    How many good men are there?Why provoke a married man? Get free! There will be no results!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Forgetting that he is the best and wisest thing to do.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    A man without a sense of responsibility, why are you nostalgic? Cheap?

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Start a new relationship again, or go on a trip, or increase the intensity of work so that you don't have time to think about emotional problems, or try to find out the shortcomings in him that you can't accept, and tell yourself that he is not enough, it is not worth remembering, who leaves who can't do it, besides, now there are more men and fewer women in China, and there are more good men, it depends on whether you are willing to turn your eyes and understand them. Come on, sister, o( o.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you lose it, if you can't get it back, you can only give up and forget about him. Empathy is the best way to do it. It doesn't hurt so much when you fall in love with someone else. You'll meet someone you like.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Tragedy, everyone is like this, they don't know how to cherish when they are there, and they regret it when they lose it.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Think about it, if you can't really live without him, you can't be happy If not, then you don't have to think about so much suffering that you don't need to remember It's a good thing for a person to have memories But you also have to think about it Whether this memory is worth it to hurt day and night To remember Maybe there are better ones around you that you haven't found Maybe when you're in pain There is someone who is also hurting for you Not necessarily Don't say that you're not happy Or that your happiness hasn't come Maybe you're already happy It's just that you don't know Be happy Have friends cry with you It's also a kind of happiness to laugh with you Hehe, hug You said it was once So why bother with a passerby who once appeared next to you.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Either you chase her again, or ignore him and ignore him.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's the old routine.

    I lost my 、、、 only to find out 、、、

    Find something to do.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Haven't you loved him before?

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I want to find myself again, I want to regain my confidence.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Then get your love back

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Go on with the self-exam, although the man you love the most leaves you, you have to work harder to make him impressed with you.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you don't mind each other, keep loving. Feelings are a matter for the two of you, as long as you have love, don't care about the strange eyes brought about by the age gap.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    You're 9 years older than him, and he's doing so well, although it's a bit vulgar, I still want to remind you, do you have anything to make him profitable?

    Physical appearance, personal or family wealth, power, job, hukou, if there is nothing, then congratulations.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    These are different from person to person, and maybe you will be really happy.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    To love and not to love. Happiness or unhappiness depends on oneself to feel, of course, not on the spur of the moment. Don't give up your true love at will.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    There is no age and no boundaries in the relationship now! If you love him, take it away!

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Cherish your feelings!I'm also in love with a boy younger than me, he's 5 years younger than me, and by the way I'm a boy too, hehe.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Anything will only make people sad for a while, but it definitely won't be for a lifetime!

    You're just at this juncture, thinking that years of endless pain can't heal in your heart! The only solution is to fall in love with someone again, but not everyone can love, love what you love instead of loving when you see someone, there is a saying: love, by no means looking for it when it is missing, let alone changing it when you are tired!

    The most important thing is that you have to dare to face the reality, in fact, in this world, no one leaves who has no way to live a life, what is worthy of love is to give, don't be afraid of getting hurt, don't suppress your emotions, there is nothing wrong with loving someone, no one is wrong!

    When you are together, it's not who is more suitable for whom, it's just who cherishes each other more, if you both cherish each other, then there is no endless pain, since someone doesn't cherish you, then your current pain is not worth it!

    Look up, chest up, let it stay in the past, look ahead of you your life is still long, long, this is just a small episode!

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    No one loses the ability to love, you have realized your innocence, naivety, knowing that you can change your mistakes, why give up the whole forest for a tree, think about it.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    In fact, in this materialistic city, everyone is the same, as long as you don't forget the original vision, no matter how old you are in the future, 29, 39, 49, 59, you must believe that there is always a piece of the world that suits you.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You're tired, crying, hurting! Feel like you've been cheated! This is your experience right now!

    Perhaps, you should think like this, in the future, you will not be easily deceived anymore, and the more experience you have, you will not be so tired of love in the future! Don't take the current injury so seriously, so that you won't be able to get out, give yourself a chance and make yourself better! Since she doesn't cherish you, then you should live well to show her, she doesn't cherish you, she is also telling you that she is not your true love, your true love is behind, come on, you will be very happy, in the future!

    Next stop. Happiness'

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    First of all, I think you are a very emotional person. That's why it's like this. You are trapped in it, it is very difficult to get out, alas, I can understand, there is no good way, the worst but most effective way is to fall in love with another person, someone with whom you have a future and a future.

    Hope you're getting better.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    People will not lose the ability to love, without love even animals are not as good, you are not losing the ability to love, but your time has not come, you still need time, do more meaningful things, care about relatives and friends, gather more, socialize more will help you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Man does not lose the ability to love.

    I agree. What you need is time, at least I don't think there is unwavering love in this world, and after a while you will understand, "Ah, how could I have thought that in the first place?" ”

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Over time, it will get better.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    That's when you mistakenly admit that time is in place of everything.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    You have to think about how you can lose, whether you have done something wrong, or what other problems, and only by understanding the root of the problem can you keep it.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Forget about it and go looking for the woman you love the most.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    You're no match for a piece of paper in his heart.

    If it were me, I would have worked hard to take the test, and I would have lived better than him, so that he would regret going and miss me, which would be his sorrow.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Actions speak louder than words! It's not that you missed it, it's the man who is glad you discarded this reality. The self-examination of course continues.

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    He is not worthy of your love, and 2 years of relationship can't be exchanged for a diploma, which shows that you are not important in his heart! Let it go and find someone who loves you to marry.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Missing out on the man you love the most is to get the man who loves you the most.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    1.Some people are born without family affection, because of him.

    are orphans; 2.Some people don't have time to think about these things because they are suffering from illness;

    3.Some people don't know what these things are because they are struggling to die of hunger;

    If you still have it, but you just feel abandoned by your family, friends, and loved ones, you can first think about why this is happening. If a loved one dies, you should try to live for yourself and for them; If you lose friendship and love, you have to get up and create again!

    There will be a lot of ups and downs in life, no matter what happens, depression or unhappiness is just a waste of time, a waste of their youth, the only thing we can do is to have a positive attitude, if there is a disease, go to the treatment, what to do;

    In fact, there are more unfortunate people than us, we should think more about what we are better than others, and we should be content;

    In fact, a person is unhappy only related to his mentality, think about it, don't those healthy people have no troubles, yes, when you are healthy, you will have other needs, only when you are suffering from illness, you know the importance of health, that is to say, unhealthy people have troubles, healthy people also have troubles, only those with a good attitude people have no troubles, in order to maintain a positive attitude;

    When we lack food and drink, we persuade ourselves to work hard to live, when we are not short of food and drink, we want to jump off the building, why do you say people are so cheap?

    Mindset is everything!

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The past cannot be traced.

    Memories are like a cold wind blowing.

    It was all my fault in the first place.

    It makes you sad and never look back.

    Now I regret it all night.

    I hope you will return.

    The future is without you.

    How should I deal with it?

    God, please give me a chance.

    Compensate your sweetheart for some comfort.

    If life can be reincarnated.

    I'd rather go back in time.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    First, there are two sides to the story, even if there are objective reasons, but in the end, the biggest loser is you, you should bear most of the responsibility, emotional destruction is easy, reconstruction is hard.

    Second, family affection, blood is thicker than water, the prodigal son looks back, and the first one to forgive you must be family affection, do your own responsibility, and change your image.

    Thirdly, love is emotionally affectionate with affection and responsible action.

    Fourth, friendship starts from a small size and slowly accumulates probation.

    Give you advice, sincerely admit mistakes, have the courage to take responsibility, and be persistent in feelings, and the spiritual support of a person's life is feelings, and everything should be based on serving feelings.

    The necessary money should be had).

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    There is so much to lose, you have to think about why you lost so many things. If you are sure that there is something wrong with yourself, you must start by changing yourself. Get rid of your shortcomings. Be a person that everyone likes, and what you lose will come back in the future.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    Fortunately, he can still have his own --- which can prove that he can live like a real man.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    I wonder why he lost his affection, friendship and love?

    I don't think anyone who loses these three things will feel good.

    But in the final analysis, people live for themselves, even if there are swords, mountains and fires, they have to face it in style.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    If it were me, I would find a place where no one was, think quietly for two days, figure things out, see what to do in the future, and impress them with my sincerity, I believe I will forgive you.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    Do you still have yourself, losing everything? I don't think so, I used to think so, but I'm a girl, but if you lose a friendship, it's not really a friendship, right? It's the same with love, if you haven't met the right person, rest assured, God has closed a door for you, and he will always open a window for you.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Tell yourself that you still have yourself. Be strong and give you courage.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Let go of everything and do what you want to do, such as traveling, sports, etc., and make new friends.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Wash your heart and face. Re-enter the new world. When you see the world in a different light.

    You will find that you still have a lot of things. Man. It should hold on.

    Don't fall down. The sky fell. Hold on too.

    Who called you a man? Crying. Never mind.

    Wipe away tears. You find a lot of things.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Let's go on a trip. Travel without a destination.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    Be open because you are a man. Remember: if you're not brave, no one will be strong for you.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Find someone who loves him. And with her, only love is eternal.

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