How do you choose between the people you love and the people who love you?

Loving is hard, but there is one thing that is even harder than love, and that is being loved.

To be loved is first and foremost to be placed in a useless situation. When a person loves you wholeheartedly, or you feel a person's passionate love, and feel the ubiquitous scorching airflow, it is like a hot ball of charcoal being rested in the chest, and shaking you from the inside all the time, melting you, stirring your heart, unable to think, and even asking yourself if you also like each other, so you only feel paralyzed, feel powerless, and feel "completely annihilated".

The difficulty is that in fact, you are no longer the baby in the eyes of the people who love you. When you are extremely vulnerable because you are loved, you still have to stand up and face the world as always before. The difficulty is also how to bear this kind of love on the beloved, how to afford it and be worthy of this love.

In this sense, I don't even dare to say that being loved is a blessing. Maybe it means heavier than ever. The loved one is inadvertently added to more than just a responsibility.

The one who loves you, who recognizes you from the crowd and treats you deliberately, actually re-injects a layer of meaning into your life, adds a new weight, and you have to carry it with you all the time, and cultivate it all the time; For the sake of the person who loves you, you must not slack off or be numb. A beloved woman must no longer be unkempt, and a mature man who is loved spiritually has to grind his soul again and again to give it a more graceful sheen. And when I say the heaviness of the burden, I also refer to how you carry the person who loves you with you, and support the other person with an already fragile heart.

In a sense, love is a crazy dangerous behavior, the kind of desperate giving and demanding, and therefore causing the brain to be emotionally tilted, you are the closest person to this danger, you have the responsibility to help this unfortunate person, you have the obligation to adjust the other person to comfort the other person, and even to create a balance to restore it to its place. Even if you may not love the other person or can't love each other, you have to put that responsibility on yourself. Maybe you end up doing nothing, and you remain silent throughout, but this silence should also be a message from you, a wordless communication caused by you, a gratitude and reward expressed by you.

In short, in your eyes there should be another pair of eyes of those who love you; You are no less than taking on the love of one person as you are taking on the world.

I've enjoyed being loved before, but being loved really doesn't have the right to choose whether to love or not, I just know why I can only text to know about him, **to see his person, to call** to hear his voice, why bother with love separated by two places? I couldn't get close to the distance, so I chose to give up.

From now on, I will choose the person I love, because it is a beauty, at least I love him, and everything I do for him is beautiful.

I will choose the person I love, and after being together for a period of time, I will slowly fade my feelings for the person I love, and I will fall in love with each other like the person who loves me.

It hurts to give up the hearts of people who love you? That means you don't have feelings for him! Maybe you've already liked him, right?!

If the person you love doesn't love you, then it's useless for you to wait, isn't it? It will only end up hurting yourself and hurting the person who loves you! If it's me, I'll choose to love me!

The people I love, those who love me, are gone from me in the end.

The person I love finds the person he loves, and the person who loves me can't stand it because I love someone else, so he leaves.

So I'm going to find someone who I love and who loves me at the same time.

I'm sure you do too!!

Love is hard to come by, let's all wait quietly!!

See what you think!

It varies from person to person, and if you want to live your life, find someone who loves you.

If you want to find a lover, find the person you love.

Some people say that if you are in love, you should find someone you like, and if you get married, you should find someone who likes you, all of them are one-sided, lovers don't like what they have to love, and how can they live their lives if they don't like it? !

Catch the paper ball Catch whoever chooses.