Why are there many couples who can endure hardship but not sweetness?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
9 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    When some people get married, they hope that their marriage can grow old with the people they love for a long time, but how many people can realize this dream, after marriage, there will be all kinds of trivial things to quarrel with, and the heavy ones even make trouble to the end of divorce, so that people not only reflect on the two states in the current marriage, one is that they can experience suffering together, but they can't experience happiness, and the other state is that they can only share happiness but not share suffering. What kind of marital status do you prefer? What do you think is the reason why husbands and wives can only experience hardships and cannot be happy together?

    Let's talk!

    One. The current society is too impetuous.

    Generally, when couples experience hardships together, they are just married, or in the early years, when they were not so impetuous, why is there such a big change now? I think it's because the pace of modern society is too fast, and people's hearts have begun to become impetuous, and the past is nothing, and the freshness of reality is the most important.

    Two. It doesn't matter if it's a man or a woman, when you have money, you become bad.

    When they are suffering, both people hope that one day they can become rich and their lives can be better, but after having money, whether it is a man or a woman, they may do things that are irresponsible to the family, betray the family, and hurt the family, so why can't they be good when they are happy? Isn't it the best outcome to experience suffering and enjoy happiness together?

    Three. I hope you can cherish the person who accompanied you to endure hardships

    I think that people who can only share the joys and sorrows, I can't accept it, I think two people living together must support each other and care for each other, if this person can only accompany you to enjoy happiness together, can not accompany you to suffer together, it may not be true to you, but the person who has been with you to endure hardships is really good for you. So I hope you can calm down and see, who is the best for you? Be sure to cherish the person who is willing to accompany you through hardships.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Because suffering can make husband and wife more united, and sweetness can create estrangement between husband and wife, there are many couples who can withstand suffering but can't stand sweetness.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Because after they live well, they have a lot of ideas, and there will be great changes in their hearts, and they will be separated.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Yes, because of sweetness, many couples feel that it is very unreal, and there is no suffering, but the two will be suspicious of each other.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    This is because there are many people who can only share the bitterness, not sweetness, and this kind of relationship makes many people feel very regretful, and there are many people who are very floating after the quality of life is good.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Two people go through the hardships together, but after having money, the man will become bad, so sometimes the husband and wife can't go to the end.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Because after the sweetness of the husband and wife, they demand more and more from each other, their desires are amplified, they hope that each other can give them the best things, but they forget the promises they made to each other in times of suffering, and finally choose to separate.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Today's society is too impetuous, people's hearts have begun to become impetuous, the past is no longer touched, the freshness of reality is the most important, whether it is a man or a woman, it is easy to become bad with money, and may be irresponsible to the family and betray the family.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because people only have no choice when they are in the most difficult time, and when they have money, they will forget the person who accompanied them.

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