Why can people only share suffering, but not happiness?

In the face of interests, people are reluctant to share their suffering, and only in times of difficulty do they hope that someone will share their suffering, which is actually a weakness of human nature, and this weakness sacrifices human nature and righteous morality! Accept the reality! Don't be discouraged by this, at the beginning of man, nature is good.

When faced with the goal of survival, the goal is clear, everyone works together, yearns for one place, and strives to one place, the purpose is to change the face of life.

But life has a new look, and people's hearts are also arousing desires. After being truly famous, the mentality between men and women is different.

There is also an unfair distribution of power and money, and the wife in the eyes of a man just needs to live in peace, and don't care too much.

In fact, we must be able to share the joys and sorrows, otherwise no matter who loses whom, there will always be regrets and scars in the end.

Life is more understanding of the mentality that has changed its appearance, and more tolerant of the other party's temporary loss of self, and life can still be happy and happy.

Come to think of it, there should be many such cases in life. It's that these two people worked very hard when they first started to struggle together, but the conditions were slightly better.

Why can't we be together? Unless it's because the mind is not calm.

1. We can only share the suffering, not the happiness, which means that we can bear it together when we have difficulties, but we can't enjoy it together when we live a good life and are blessed. Because the pressure from the outside world is too great, whether a person shares weal and woe requires practice and time to test, and it is not easy to see.

2. People who pay attention to status cannot be happy, people who are willing to calculate cannot be happy, and people who get carried away cannot be happy. Because they like to be held up by others, to be served by others, to be surrounded by others. This kind of person can't see it when he suffers together, and only when he can enjoy the status of the same person, will he jump out and show his ugly face.

Particularly calculating, often weighing who is suitable and who is not. When everyone suffers together and others suffer more than they do, they don't complain. Of course they also suffer, but they are all the easiest sufferings.

When they suffer, they weigh in their hearts, and when they see others suffering, their hearts are balanced.

"It is easy to share hardships and hardships" means: it is easy to bear disasters and sufferings together, but it is difficult to enjoy joy and happiness together. **Yu idiom "同甘共bitter (tónggāngòngkǔ)".

"Sharing joys and sorrows" is also omitted as "sharing joys and sorrows", which is a metaphor for the deep feelings between people. It is mostly used for cadres to the masses, superiors to subordinates, etc. From "Warring States Policy: Yan Ce I": "King Yan hanged himself and asked for life, and shared his joys and sorrows with the people. ”

synonyms: solidarity, solidarity, happiness.

Antonyms: different dreams in the same bed, centrifugal detachment, deceitful self.

Usage: as a predicate, a predicate, an adverbial.

Example sentences: 1. Ming Li Changqi's "Words of Cutting the Lantern: The Biography of Luan Luan": "The husband ploughs in the front, the wife works in the back, shares weal and woe, and respects each other like guests." ”

2, Li Guowen's "Spring in Winter": "Especially a wife who shares weal and woe and has experienced sorrows, can she not pity what the old man has left, should it be said that there are not many years?" ”

3, "Five Dynasties Shi Pinghua, Tang History, Volume II": "Yanzhang attacked Yang Liucheng with 100,000 infantry troops, Li Zhou tried his best to refuse, and shared weal and woe with his soldiers, so he could win the hearts of the army, and he did not go to death. ”