Do you still remember Dr. Wang Yongqiang of Peking University? After working in the United States fo

I believe that many people will study for the change of the family, after all, it is not born to get a good life, only through their own efforts, can they get the harvest, otherwise even if you are given a good life, you will not be able to keep it, that's it, there is a person who studied particularly hard, and was admitted to Peking University Ph.D., I thought he would change the fate of his family, but I didn't expect that after he graduated, he chose to work abroad, and he never returned to his home for 20 years. It was difficult for the mother to see her for the last time.

1. I have loved reading since I was a child.

At the beginning of the story, the protagonist is a young man named Wang Yongqiang, his family background has been very difficult since he was a child, but he is conscious and knows that reading can have a way out, so he loves reading very much since he was a child, even if the family background is very difficult, he has to insist on completing his studies, so he spent his childhood, and was admitted to Soochow University with the first grade in their village, and was admitted to Peking University for a doctorate in physics, so to speak, he is such an outstanding person, but he went abroad after he completed his studies, and he did not go home for 20 years, Even if his parents wanted to see him, he refused to go home.

Second, it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs.

In the end, his mother wanted to see him for the last time, so she asked netizens to help on the Internet, and finally with the help of netizens, his news finally came out, but he replied lightly, and it was difficult for the Qing official to cut off family affairs, so he disappeared from the Internet again.

In fact, there are many versions of this matter on the Internet, some people say that his parents have been squeezing him, it is said that when he was admitted to college, there was a subsidy of 5 yuan per month, but after his parents learned about it, they asked him to send all the money home, he felt nothing, so he agreed.

III. The elaboration of the two versions.

Later, when he was studying for a doctorate, he had a subsidy of 30 yuan a month, but he didn't dare to tell their family that because his family wanted money to find him, and he would let him help his relatives find some "ways", so he began to dislike his family, so he took his wife to leave China and go to Japan to work, but for some reason, he divorced his wife and went to the United States to develop alone, and went for 20 years, completely eliminating contact with his family.

Of course, this is only one version, and the other version is that he dislikes his family, thinks they are poor, and even when he gets married, he doesn't want his family to go to their wedding, but what is going on, I think few people know, after all, this is their family's family affair.

Conclusion: But he didn't even go back to his home for 20 years, and chose not to see his mother's last side, which is a point that makes people criticize, after all, he has been raised for decades, although the usual relationship may not be good, but the last side of the old man does not ask, it is indeed very inappropriate.

Later, life was very good, it took 20 years to work in the United States, and paid his good youth in exchange for the life he wanted, so later his life was very happy and reached the outlook on life he wanted.

Peking University Dr. Wang Yongqiang worked in the United States for 20 years and did not go home, and then it was very good, because he has rarely appeared recently, rarely in the public eye, and there is no relevant news reported in **, and there is no gossip disclosure, so there is no news, I wish him happiness and health.

He has since stayed in the United States to live, reluctant to come back, but more information is gone, but no matter what, his behavior is very wrong, and I hope he will realize it sooner rather than later.

Not going home for 20 years is the result of long-term family crushing and injury.

Wang Yongqiang. Repeatedly asked by his parents to drop out of school. After Wang Yongqiang was admitted to university, he relied on himself to study, and his parents asked for money without a penny.

His parents repeatedly asked Wang Yongqiang to help his family and relatives, and the requirements were far beyond Wang Yongqiang's ability. Due to the blackmail of his parents and relatives, Wang Yongqiang was forced to leave home and even go abroad, and even divorced his wife due to oppression.

It can be seen that Wang Yongqiang is a smart and strong-hearted person. In the face of his parents asking for money again and again and forcing him to help, he still studied all the way to the postdoctoral program, and even had a happy family. But Rao was like this, he couldn't bear it in the end, and had no choice but to end the marriage, and cut off the connection with his family in the decisive way of going abroad.

should have been married and had children, and had his own children, but things were ** out of his life and his life was a mess, but it was also his own mistake.

Since ancient times, there have been fathers and sons, who have regarded children as their own cash cows, never considered the situation of their children, and brewed bitter fruits!

There is still no trace of him, relatives and friends look down on him, and there are no reports about him in society.

Now I am still abroad, I don't want to fulfill the obligation of providing for the elderly, and I have no conscience.

I also don't want to be in contact with this kind of parent, there is no concern, it is a request.

Life is very happy and happy, and I am also working hard and struggling for the things I like, and I have good results, and now I am in a very good state, and my life is very nourishing.

Nowadays, he is especially an ordinary person, living an ordinary life, living a life with a subsistence allowance, and every day is very happy and simple.

After Wang Yongqiang refused, the Wang family also contacted their in-laws themselves, which made Wang Yongqiang very embarrassed, which also became a key factor in the divorce of their husband and wife. Perhaps, these are the main reasons why he "fled" from his family.

Later, after his mother's death, his unfilial attitude was questioned by netizens, but he himself did not have any explanation.

Wang Yongqiang is not a tool to pay, he is a person with flesh and blood and emotion, and who can know his suffering and helplessness.

Later, there was no news about him on TV or on the Internet, so no one knows how he is doing now.

Only he should be able to see his scars, probably because he also has his own troubles.

In fact, everyone has their own scars, it may be that Fengli has this kind of mental damage to himself, and there is a great pain in his heart, and the psychological pain is irreparable by Hongji, so he refused to see his parents for 20 years.

Everyone's life has its own helplessness and sadness, we don't know what Wang Yongqiang's life is like, I have no right to disguise Wang with Wang, and I am not qualified to criticize or define it casually.

Wang Yongqiang, who was born in 1969, has an older brother and a sister at home, but he is not the most favored child in the family. Over the years, Wang Yongqiang's parents have exploited him, causing him great physical and mental damage. The elder brother suffered from polio, and life was naturally very difficult, and the elder sister was also struggling to support her family after getting married, and it was difficult to help her mother's family.

The burden of life fell on Wang Yongqiang, but fortunately, Wang Yongqiang was smarter, although he was born poor, he was the first in every exam. But the good grades did not seem to make his parents happy, and they repeatedly said that they wanted Wang Yongqiang to drop out of school to work, hoping that he would earn money to support his family as soon as possible. Wang Yongqiang finally resisted the pressure, saved money every day, walked for several hours in the mountains, and went all the way to high school.

I finally got to college, and my life began to gradually improve, and the university at that time had a monthly subsidy of four yuan. Wang Yongqiang's family asked him to send the money back, and in desperation, Wang Yongqiang had no choice but to agree. When he finished graduate school, the subsidy rose to 72 yuan, this time Wang Yongqiang wanted to save some money for himself, so he didn't choose to send it back, but after his parents knew, what he gained was not understanding, but ruthless abuse.

What's even more helpless is that the family seems to think that they can do anything if they study, not only let Wang Yongqiang arrange his brother's work, but also let him go to acquaintances to intercede, just so that the children of relatives can enter the ideal university with low scores. In trivial matters, Wang Yongqiang collapsed, but he still insisted on staying with his parents. Wang Yongqiang later became a postdoctoral fellow at Peking University and married the professor's daughter, but his family did not support the marriage of the two because it cost money to get married.

In addition, the parents also believe that Wang Yongqiang's subsidy to the family is too small. But at that time, his monthly salary of 120 had already been given to his family by dozens. Later, Wang Yongqiang and his wife went to Japan, but the family asked the whole family to follow, and in desperation, Wang Yongqiang could only promise to send money to his family every year.

In the end, the marriage ended without a problem, and Wang Yongqiang fled to the United States alone after the divorce.

Since then, Wang Yongqiang has never been in contact with his family, although all kinds of accusations and abuses are overwhelming, Wang Yongqiang only said the word "do not disturb", and when a friend asked about it, he could only say that "it is difficult for a clean official to decide family affairs". Maybe Wang Yongqiang left his parents who were about to face death behind, which is indeed unfilial, but how can the unreasonable demands of his parents for so many years be unconditionally satisfied? At the end of the day, the relationship between parents and children, like any other relationship in the world, requires mutual respect and understanding to sustain.

I don't know what everyone thinks about this?

That's because he has been working hard for work, and he doesn't have time to meet his parents, and when he gets the news that his parents have cancer, he is also afraid that the blow will be too great, so he chooses not to meet.

Because he is a very stubborn group of people who always remember the past, he will not miss the old feelings and will be more cold-blooded.

It was because his parents treated him very badly when he was a child, and he did not do what a parent should do, which caused a big shadow on his childhood.

It was because his parents were overly demanding, cut off his finances after he went to college, and wanted him to drop out of school to work to support the family, and his parents refused to miss the school subsidy and wanted to share a piece of the pie with him, so he couldn't stand it anymore, and he never contacted his family after he went abroad.

Because there is an unsolvable knot between Wang Yongqiang and his parents, what it is, only the person concerned knows, since his parents are unwilling to mention the past, what right do we bystanders have to question others, he has disappeared for 20 years, and there may be money for the family to support the elderly, let's worry less!