What do you do when you keep thinking about leaving a city?

If I insist on leaving one city, I must find a job in another city that I like, so that I can have a basis for life.

When you have always had the idea of leaving a city, it means that you have had painful memories in this city, or have been hurt, since you have always wanted to leave the city, then pack your luggage, pack your mood and start again, go to a longing place to live, to be yourself, the tree moves the dead and the people live, life is about tossing and struggling, come on.

When a person has the idea of leaving the city, it is generally because he has been disheartened with the city, and the city has brought him bad memories, so it will cause him to want to leave the city, so a person must have made up his mind to leave a city.

When you want to leave a city, you must have found a city that suits you better. Otherwise, you won't easily leave the city you know well. Because it takes courage to leave a familiar city. In another city, everything has to start all over again.

Maybe it's because the city doesn't give you a sense of belonging, you don't find your partner in the city, or you have too many sad and sad memories, so you may have the idea of leaving this place and starting over in another place.

If you really want to leave a city all the time, it means that the city has nothing to remember about you. You may already have a better goal in mind, so try to leave and choose a new life.

When you want to leave the city, it may be your new life, but you have to have a plan so that you don't get too passive when you get out.

It depends on whether this is the city where I was born.

If it was the city where I was born, I would have to stay here.

If it was a city other than my hometown, I would have left decisively.

Don't dwell on it, anyway, you're single, and you can go if you want.

The reason to leave that city is to leave that person.

When I grew up, I knew how hurtful love was, before I experienced love, I felt that love was sweet in addition to sweetness, but I was too naïve. Especially when I fell in love with someone I shouldn't love, that person once comforted me and gave me love, but it wasn't mine after all.

We've been through all parts of the city, and I'm so sick that I can't bear to walk through them by myself. I used to think about waiting until I graduated from college and leaving, and then never coming to this city for the rest of my life, never thinking of that person for the rest of my life.

I don't know why someone like me who is insecure and has no sense of belonging can fall madly in love with someone who can't be together at all, I've never coveted anyone's love, but only this time I don't want to go, I don't want to leave, and I even try to give up everything I have to keep that person.

But I was wrong, people who don't love me won't appreciate my good intentions, my sadness, my sadness. All my concessions seemed to the man to be futile, even a drag.

The person who can make me give up my love is still the one who doesn't love me after all, now I don't realize that there are too many societies, and I still have the courage to talk about love, but that person is different, whether it is the experience of being a child or the current life, it is destined to be a mistake between us that will never be mentioned.

But people can't forget their first love, they can't forget the person they liked for the first time, no matter what that person does to me now, I will endure it silently, silently calm myself, and there is still a year, leave this city, leave this person.

Beijing is the capital of the great motherland, a place that people all over the country yearn for, perhaps a Beijing hukou has made us struggle for countless years and dreamed of it. But most of us were not born and raised here, and we are still more nostalgic for our ancestral hometown, where there are good memories of our happy childhood, childhood partners, classmates and comrades-in-arms, parents and fellow villagers. Therefore, every time there is a small holiday during the New Year, everyone rushes out of Beijing to return to their hometown, and Beijing is much quieter, which is an emotion.

As I get older, I want to go home and see more.

It was around the end of 2015 that my girlfriend and I had a breakup, and it was very serious. My girlfriend, who had been talking for more than a year, suddenly said that she was going to break up, and I was very confused and powerless at that time. My girlfriend was fine a few days ago, but suddenly after a few days, her attitude began to change drastically, and it slowly became more and more serious.

During the period before the breakup, every time I saw her stiff dead face, I was irritable, and I didn't keep it, and finally I said that I would be separated for a while and be quiet with each other. During this period of time, I sometimes think about what I left my hometown to work and struggle for, no one hurts when I suffer, no one loves me when I am sad, and I can't be stable emotionally, so I don't want to stay in this city for a moment, I want to quit my job and leave this sad city, and return to my hometown to work and live. At the time of the breakup, basically after a few days, I will have the idea that I don't want to stay in this city in the future, if I break up, there is really no need to stay here anymore, I can see the memories everywhere I go, and it is also a torment for myself.

From the moment I first came to this city, I really wanted to go back, I didn't want to stay here, I wanted to leave. The city I came to is a small border town, except for its proximity to Russia, it has no major features. Maybe it still has a lot of characteristics, there are a lot of good places, but I don't like it, so I always feel that everything is bad.