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On the road of growth, we will experience love, especially when we meet a person who loves ourselves, which is a very difficult thing, so we must know how to cherish, only in cherishing, our life will not leave regrets. The boyfriend is very good, but the in-laws are average, and such a family can be married, because you are marrying a boyfriend and not your in-laws.

One: know how to cherishA good marriage needs to be cherished, and only in cherishing can a marriage be happy。It is a special fate for two people to meet, so we must know how to cherish this fate, only in cherishing it, this fate can last for a long time.

The boyfriend is very good, but the in-laws are average, in fact, such a marriage is okay. You are married to a boyfriend, as long as your boyfriend is good, then you are happy, if your boyfriend is average, you can consider whether such a family is worth marrying, so you must know how to cherish your boyfriend's good.

2. Know how to be tolerantIf you want the family to be harmonious, both parties must know how to tolerate, and only in tolerance can the relationship be long-lasting。Everyone's temper is different, and the environment of each family is also different, when you choose a boyfriend, you have to choose to tolerate him, tolerate everything about him.

Since his family is more ordinary, as long as he is genuinely good to you and his boyfriend is good to you, then this is enough. Marriage needs to be managed by yourself, love needs to be fought for by yourself, and you are marrying a boyfriend instead of your in-laws, so you must understand the relationship between the two.

Three: know how to respect If you want your life to be complete, you must know how to respect each other, and only in the process of respect, the other party will respect you. Since you have chosen to be with your boyfriend, you must know how to respect his family, because only in this way will your boyfriend be more kind to you, and if you choose to give up because of his family, this relationship is destined to leave regrets.

Only when you know how to respect will you tolerate everything about him, and your life will be better.

A good relationship needs to be managed, and only in business will the relationship between the two parties be long-lasting.

It's worth it, after all, it's your husband who lives with you, not your mother-in-law.

I think you can get married, after all, the boyfriend is very good, and the other party's family is not bad, and there is no need to be too demanding of the man's family, after all, everyone is an ordinary person.

You can marry, as long as your boyfriend is good to you, the family relationship of your in-laws is not important, don't care too much, and don't worry about it.

If you really plan to get married, you can live separately, your boyfriend is good to you, and the relationship with your in-laws will slowly run in.

If you love him, then you won't think about breaking up. In this era, the family gap is no longer important, and everything is already an old concept from decades ago, anyway, I don't recommend that you break up for this reason.

My boyfriend and I have been together since college, and now we are both working, and his family conditions are not good, my parents are working on the construction site, while my parents have a stable income and relatively decent family conditions. But I never wanted to break up with him, because first of all he was a very good person and worthy of my trust for life. Secondly, I know his family, they are also very good, honest and generous, and they are also very warm.

My boyfriend is doing well at work and has been raising his salary, and I think he can give me a good life even if his family is not good.

So it's really not a problem that the family conditions are not good, since you think your boyfriend is very good, then he must also be a very good person, then your future must be guaranteed. If you are hesitant, you can go home with him to meet his parents, believing that if he has an excellent son, then his parents will not be very bad, what you need to examine is the character and attitude of his parents.

Of course, your concerns are also excusable, as the saying goes, poor couples mourn for a hundred days, it is difficult to make people feel secure without financial security, and then you will face many problems, such as getting married and buying a house, the man can't afford this cost, then your parents will probably not agree.

He can't change his family background, but he can change your living conditions, you still have to try to trust your boyfriend, since you think he is good, then your future will be happy.

I don't think so. Money is a thing that is sometimes important, but I think it's better to marry love than to marry money.

And isn't there a saying that a successful man must have a woman behind him who silently supports him? And your family wasn't very rich from the beginning. It is also because of the efforts of your ancestors, the efforts of your parents will have the current results, assuming that your father in your family was still relatively poor at that time, why would your mother marry your father?

It must be because of love, although love is sometimes fragile, but it can really make a person very brave.

So you shouldn't break up with your boyfriend, you should trust him, trust him and believe that he will work hard to earn money to support the family, and your parents will also want you to find someone you like to marry. And now there are a lot of couples who break up because of money, and in the end they marry people they don't like, after all, a person's energy is limited, after loving a person, how can he love another person so much, sometimes it's not easy for people to find someone who is good to them and loves them. So you have to persevere, insist on being with the people you love to be happy!

Family situations are very different, and I think there will be a big difference in many things, such as values, such as the concept of money, and so on. So in fact, sometimes I don't know if I want to be together well, because it seems that many things are different from what everyone thinks, but then I watched a lot of movies, a lot of TV, and I have experienced a very true story, I think that in fact, the family situation is important, but the most important thing is the two people in love, who are together, and it is you who are together, and it is because you decide to be together that the two families will be united, so your opinion is very important.

I have always felt that two people who love each other enough can have more strength to face all kinds of difficulties in life, because they have each other's company. Maybe when you are together, at the beginning, you have had countless disagreements and quarrels because of family circumstances, and sometimes you even wonder if you should be with him. But in the end, you find that you still love each other a little more than your family, compared to yourself, or you just want to identify the person in front of you, then it is enough, this kind of separation does not separate you, then you can still face more problems together in the future.

Not all wealthy people are like the TV series, fierce, I will also believe that there are many families, they will not care what kind of girlfriend their son has found to go home, they will only care about the person's own morality and quality, as long as there is a tutor and is suitable for life, then it doesn't matter if you are poor, because people are good, they will not be bad in the future. So I believe that as long as you persevere, you will definitely be able to change the views of both families on your relationship through your own efforts, and you can live forever.

To be honest, as a person who has come over, there are many factors that affect the quality of marriage, and feelings are not the most important. In fact, we have to understand what we want, whether we want feelings or think that other things are more important, and only when we think about all this can everything be meaningful. If you don't know your heart, that is, your self-knowledge is not clear, and entering a marriage relationship with a person in a daze is actually irresponsible to each other, and secondly, if you have a clear self-analysis, then seriously consider whether this person is suitable for you.

If suitable, it is possible to enter into marriage. If it is not suitable, then weigh it yourself, whether your feelings can support you to resist all the resistance of reality, and if you can, this is also okay. However, if you decide, you have to move forward.

Many people, in the face of the family circumstances of both parties and various reasons, always take external reasons to talk about things, although there are various arguments that the family environment is the right family and so on. But in fact, the spiritual right is the most important thing, and only when the spirit is right can you face all the worldly obstacles and the tests of life together.

Otherwise, it is a rematch of the family environment, and without this foundation, the same marriage will have many problems. Because life is really a test for people, you will face many, many problems, without a mature mind, how to face it?

There is also a very important thing is the maturity of the individual's mind, which is very important, the mind is immature, how do you face all kinds of problems in life? Marriage is also a huge training ground, feelings are one thing, after the emotional lull period, what is needed is each other's mature minds.

Of course, the spiritual match is more important than the family match, and it can also be achieved through one's own continuous study and cultivation. Therefore, if at present, whether you and your boyfriend can be in the spirit of the door to the door and achieve the same frequency, it should be an important criterion and reference for you to make a choice. If you can, then you can go on boldly.

If not, your current relationship is just a continuation of your or the other party's tolerance or tolerance, then as the relationship deepens, there may be more and more contradictions and run-ins to face next.

So what is the experience of being a spiritual door-to-door pair? First of all, you can be your true self in front of the other person, and you can completely relax without any disguise, and you don't need to wear any mask to cater and please. Secondly, two people appreciate each other, understand and understand each other.

In other words, in addition to exchanging some gossip and trivial things in life, two people can also communicate with each other on deeper spiritual content and topics, and both people can feel relaxed, safe and happy during the exchange. You can speak your mind freely without any pandering and flattery. I don't know that I want to say a certain word, but I am worried that the other party will be unhappy, and I will press the words into my stomach.

If you can achieve the above spirit, then go forward boldly. Anyway, the worst outcome is nothing more than a breakup. But at least, I have cherished and worked hard. Regrets.

Don't talk about true love, it makes sense that the ancestors have passed down the right match.

But what we mean by the right pair is the consistency of the three views.

That is to say, families that are also businessmen are prone to have similar three views.

The same salaryman is prone to have similar three views.

Because the world seen is different.

So whether you want to break up or not depends on the difference between your family backgrounds.

The first is that boys have a good family background, and girls have a bad family background.

So, is this what it's like to marry into a wealthy family? This combination has a good harvest of families, and some people end up with a bamboo basket for nothing.

It's up to the two of them to run it.

My boss is married into the rich second generation, and he is running quite well. I've also seen my boss's mother, who is the kind of person with a lot of temperament, and I've also seen her mother-in-law, who is also the same kind of person. Although my boss's family is not very rich, but the tutor is very good, although the two families are much different in wealth, but the spiritual level is very similar.

In this way, you can live a good life.

Second, it is that the girls have a good family background and the boys have a bad family background.

This one, hehehe. I always feel that the bloody plot is nothing more than that.

However, in fact, I have lived a good life. If she is an only child, she may inherit the family business.

As long as the mind is right, as long as you don't really want to be at home, I don't think there's any need to choose to break up.

It is not easy for two people to meet each other, whether they break up or not is a small matter, whether they can reach the hand, and grow old with their son is the most important.

Looking at people and looking at the details, what really determines whether you can go to the end is not the gap in family background.

It is the transmission of character, outlook on life, values, and worldview.

And your new family is also passing on your family's outlook on life, values and worldview to your children. It is also something that deserves to be passed on.

A good boyfriend is not a reason why you choose not to break up, and a big difference in your family background is not a reason for you to choose to break up, after all, the strengths of two people are a lifelong thing, and what you have to consider is whether your relationship can last for a long time.

If you can, don't break up, and if you're not sure in your heart, break up as soon as possible.

It is difficult for girls to be rational in the face of feelings, and it is often this indecision that makes us often passive in love.

My cousin happened to encounter such a problem, her boyfriend and her are high school classmates, and they have been talking for four or five years, but her boyfriend is a child of a divorced family, and his family background is not very good, anyway, his parents are not able to buy him a house, and he will have to rely on himself to get married and have children in the future.

My cousin's family is well-off, and her parents have already bought her a house and a car, but this is a conditional gift, that is, she must find a boyfriend who her parents approve.

My cousin is very entangled, her parents have made it clear that they do not approve of her dating her current boyfriend, because he is from an average family and is a divorced family, and they find this kind of family environment more complicated. I can also understand this, who doesn't want their daughter to live happily.

On the one hand, it is a boyfriend who has been dating for four or five years, and on the other hand, it is my parents, and it is very painful to choose.

I don't know how to choose the right one, but I know that when things can't be solved by emotion, we have to analyze them rationally.

I asked my cousin two questions, and I had the answers.

I said how much do you rate your love for your boyfriend? She said 85 points.

So how much do you think your boyfriend's love for you can score? She blurted out 80 points.

So her boyfriend didn't love her that much, at least not enough for her to abandon everything to be with him.

Back to the topic, you said that your boyfriend is very good, how good is he to you, can this degree of goodness give you enough confidence to cross the gap between your family background, or even the hindrance of your parents?

If you can, then continue to be together, if you are not sure in your heart, don't gamble, after all, youth is gone.