Is there a truly pure friend of the opposite sex in the world?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-13
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Yes ! But not a lot, a few are enough. I have friends like that, so many! It's all very pure, at least I don't have crooked thoughts about them When I'm in trouble, they'll help me, you can just treat them as sisters

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes It's not from childhood to adulthood.

    It's about both understanding life and understanding each other

    I didn't like each other at all.

    If you change from friends to lovers just because you look good.

    That's also your own personal problem

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Well......No, even if one of the two is pure and pure; The other side must have some ......However, many people just have a crush and think about it, and choose not to say it because they think it's impossible. Some people may also say that husband and wife can't never get tired, but friends can be forever.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Of course, there are pure boyfriends and girlfriends! I didn't grow up with him, I just met by chance in the car when I came out to work, and now my relationship with him is so good And he's almost married, haha, but he still cares about me at all Oh Isn't this kind of pure friend of the opposite sex!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    No. This is just an excuse.

    An excuse to let yourself love one more person, or be loved by one more person.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    What is purity? You should be talking about good friends of the opposite sex, so as long as you can be good friends, you will definitely feel different from others. If purity means that there is no relationship between a man and a woman, then there must be such feelings.

    But if it refers to emotional purity, I don't think there is, the opposite sex who can be good friends must be because they have a certain attraction to each other, but they are not lovers.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Yes, I have a lot of friends of the opposite sex, all of whom are very pure, at least I don't have any crooked thoughts about them

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Yes, it's just that very few people will think like this: "You are too good to me, you want to make good friends with me of the opposite sex," the feudal idea is at work, it has not disappeared, so it is difficult to make friends,

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Yes! I believe in this camaraderie. Because I have one such friend.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It's possible to play together if you have a good impression of each other.,If you don't feel it.,How can you make friends?,Simple male and female friendship probably has.,But it should be very little.。

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I believe there is, but haven't found it yet! Even my buddy tablemate once asked me to be his GF!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    There are pulls. If you have the same faith, there is no problem.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Yes I have several girls who care about me and we had a good conversation.

    Maybe it's because of my popularity

    I really see them as friends.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Yes, because it is in me.

    It's all just the human heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Unless there is no physical attraction to each other, that's still possible.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Perhaps, that person cares about him and is afraid of hurting him.

    But they just can't be together.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Is there really a pure friendship between people of the opposite sex? How do you maintain a normal relationship?

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    My answer is: no. I'm sure there will be a lot of people who will contradict me. Don't be so anxious to overturn my answer, the following words, you taste, you taste. Let's combine your own situation to see if it's true!

    We all have opposite-sex friends, but does true pure opposite-sex friendship really exist? In fact, the key to existence lies in whether the two sides can grasp this "degree" enough. Regardless of whether there is or not, in fact, there are the following situations.

    1. Men like women or women like men. (Belongs to unilateral liking).

    Second, both parties like each other. (belonging to mutual liking).

    Third, they don't like each other, they are pure friends. (I think this is rare, since it's just a friend, why should you be special about him?) )

    The question is coming, since you like it, you can't just confess.

    Yes, but 90 percent of people don't confess to their best friends of the opposite sex. Because doing so may not even be able to make friends, and from then on on the road to strangers, and it will be embarrassing to meet. Of course, this is in the event of failure.

    What's more, it's too familiar, and I'm embarrassed to start! You say yes.

    Because I don't know if you like me or not, you don't know if I like you or not. So we're careful to be friends.

    Do you also have such friends of the opposite sex, you like them, but your relationship is brother and sister, or sister and brother. It's a good relationship. This also lays a solid foundation for regular contact in the future.

    Neither of us dared to step out of the line of friends, because if we did, we would never come back, and I thought to myself that I could get along with her in such a close relationship, and I felt very satisfied.

    If you really care about it, then please don't casually go beyond the boundaries of "friends", and if you succeed, it is of course a good thing. If you fail, you will regret it for the rest of your life. Maybe it's your regret that you can't be a couple with him, but it's your happiness to be friends with him.

    The joy of being friends with them has outweighed the joy of being a couple!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    <>Yes, but very few and far between.

    The so-called "blue confidante and confidant" exists, real friends of the opposite sex, they appreciate and cherish each other, understand and pay attention to each other, encourage and help each other.

    When you are happy, you will be the first to think of the other person and tell the other person about your happiness. And the other person will be happier than you, and the other person will be excited and laugh with you.

    When you are sad, you will also be the first to think of the other person. The other party will not grieve with you, but the other party will use a unique way to encourage you and give you consideration, so that you can feel the slightest warmth in the other party's care, and unconsciously heal the wounds of your soul.

    When you hurt yourself because of your stubbornness, the other party will reprimand you loudly, and even scold you a few words, but you will never hold a grudge, and even what you experience is a kind of warm heart.

    When you know that the other party is going on a long trip, you will worry and bless the other party's itinerary from the bottom of your heart; When you know that the other person is unwell, you will sincerely feel sorry for the other person; When the other person's career is not going well, you will be sincerely anxious for the other person, and offer your meager but sincere encouragement.

    This kind of friend will not be like a lover, who will not see each other for a day, but will always pull out a trace of concern from the bottom of your heart, so as to warm your heart.

    This kind of friend, no matter how long you haven't seen you, after you see it, you will have a feeling of being the closest and closest, and it will make you have a warm warmth in your heart.

    This kind of friendship has a heart, and once you have this kind of friendship, you must cherish it.

    Such as Eason Chan and Miriam Yeung

    Some people turn around and miss the key and it is a lifetime. But it's not necessarily bad, if two people are together, maybe it's not suitable to separate, isn't it a pity? Such friendships are more to be cherished for a lifetime. Friends are for life, but lovers are not necessarily.

    But where it is in the past, where it is not obtained, it is always the most right.

    Another example is Leslie Cheung and Anita Mui

    It is enough to have a confidant in life

    It is difficult to have a friendship between my brother and Aunt Mei in the current entertainment industry that transcends love. Their friendship is very real, and it has nothing to do with interests, men and women, or appearance. Maybe they really walked into each other's hearts and saw the truest hearts.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Summary. Hello! The opposite sex has pure friendship. kissed, the two looked good, there was no attraction to each other, no heartbeat. Very plain friendship between men and women. Like an older brother.

    Hello! The opposite sex has pure friendship. kissed, the two looked good, there was no attraction to each other, no heartbeat. Very plain friendship between men and women. Like an older brother.

    For example, if two people have the same hobbies, they can become good friends.

    At work, to become a good partner, in fact, to make it clear, the two of them didn't like each other's looks.

    The opposite sex said that he didn't have a favorite right now.

    I don't talk about ambiguity with each other, and I don't talk about feelings. Don't complain.

    That's true.

    The opposite sex did not meet the one he liked.

    Why do you like to know each other for a few days for a long time?

    If you have a crush on the opposite sex, you can say, I think, you're okay. There should be people who like you.

    If you have a crush on the opposite sex, you can say, I think, you're okay. There should be people who like you.

    Kiss, do you believe fate, the eye edge is good, and I like it for a long time after knowing each other for a few days.

    For example, a boy who likes handsomeness likes it from the first glance.

    If the two have an interactive chat and intersection, they will like it more. Will be a friend sincerely. Maybe fall in love.

    If it's a handsome guy or a pretty woman, it doesn't feel the same. There is no more pure friendship. 

    The main thing is to see who is with whom, and who has a fate with whom.

    Why do some people say that there is no pure friendship between people of the opposite sex?

    Kiss, you know, everyone's living environment is different and their thoughts are different. In the rotten circle, they all think that there is no pure friendship between men and women.

    Think about it, a person of the opposite sex is very good to him, but his appearance is really ugly. Ask him for help with anything, he is willing.

    Himself to him, call brother. You say, "Is this friendship pure?"

    A person has no attraction to a person, no physiological impulse, and has worked as a partner for more than ten years, such a friendship is sincere and pure.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Summary. Hello kiss, whether the opposite sex has pure friendship, pure friendship between the opposite sex naturally still exists, but it is very few, the vast majority of opposite-sex friendship can persist is more difficult, if two people do not have one side like each other, basically the character of the male and female will not have a good friendship, of course, if the two people are very similar in temperament there will still be pure friendship.

    Kiss! Hello, a rubber blessing, a rolling warmth, a touch. Have a grateful heart.

    Life is full of touching! Your question has been received, it will take a little time to type, please be patient and do not end the consultation. You can also take this time to provide more useful information so that I can answer for you.

    Hello kiss, whether the opposite sex has pure friendship, pure friendship between the opposite sex naturally still exists, but it is very few, most of the simple number of opposite-sex friendships can stick to it is more difficult, if two people do not have one side like each other, basically the character of the male and female students will not be very resistant to good friendship, of course, if the two people are very similar in temperament, there will still be a friendship with Yu Chun.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Is there really no absolute pure friendship between people of the opposite sex? Of course there is, is it possible that colleagues of the opposite sex in a unit are messing around? So there is pure friendship between the opposite sex, those who say that there is no pure friendship between the opposite sex, first of all, they have crooked thoughts, so they have such thoughts, and I will say my personal thoughts on this issue below, just for reference.

    Thought 1: Pure friendship between men and women Pure friendship between men and women must exist, because we have been in contact with the opposite sex since childhood, from primary school, middle school, high school to work after college, we contact the opposite sex There are hundreds of people, there are good friends, there are ordinary friends, there are never talking, but no matter what it is, there are some pure friendship.

    Therefore, there are many kinds of pure friendship between men and women, and it is not that there is no pure friendship, when both sides are pure in thought, those two people are pure friendship.

    Thought 2: Pure friendship has deteriorated? There are some friendships of the opposite sex that seem to be pure friendships, but they deteriorate over time, and what is the reason for these deteriorating friendships?

    In fact, many people don't have crooked thoughts when they get along, but they have crooked thoughts over time, and at this time pure friendship begins to deteriorate.

    When your pure friendship deteriorates, it depends on who crosses this red line first, as long as one party does not hold on to the red line, this pure friendship really ceases to exist.

    Thought 3: Are there many types of pure friendship? It's like this, some people say I like her, is this pure friendship? If you don't have a crooked mind, you just like it, and you don't act out of line, that's pure friendship, so there are many kinds of pure friendship.

    No matter how many kinds of pure friendship there are, as long as both parties do not have crooked thoughts, this is your friendship, when both parties have their own lives, and can still greet each other normally, isn't this pure friendship?

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Of course, there is no absolutely pure friendship, men and women must love each other to play together, but they dare not admit each other.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Of course not, there is also a very pure friendship between the opposite sex, but this kind of friendship is very rare.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    I don't think so, if there is, it may be that the other party didn't let you see his feelings for you, and the opposite sex can't be very good friends.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    No, because I think there is some ambiguity in friendship between people of the opposite sex, and it won't be good to you if the other party doesn't have what they want.

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