What if you are betrayed by a friend or stepped through the snow by a friend who has no self esteem?

Each of us is a social animal and needs different friends at different stages of life, and the only possibility of what once is to become forgotten in the future. It may be difficult for you to accept this now, because you are an emotional person, you have really given it, but people will change, including yourself, so please don't be sad, you will have other friends, and as you get to know each other better, there will be people who will slowly become your best friends. Good luck with more friends!

Also, college is a very wonderful time in life, and I hope your life is rich and exciting! Learn to be successful!

Addendum: We make friends largely for the pleasure and satisfaction of the process, which is of course a matter for both of us, and if either of us does not aim for this purpose, or has already received this satisfaction from some other friend, it is bound to ignore the friendship between you. At this time, there is no need to envy others, but you can slowly try to establish your own social circle, and the more friends you have, the more happy and satisfied you will be, and you will not suffer from gains and losses because of the closeness or estrangement of a friend.

The ancients had a saying: The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water, in fact, it is still very reasonable, and it is recommended that you take a good taste.

Then bye-bye, such friends you have to thank them for letting you see the facts, but also remember that they have made you grow again, and you can not worry about them when you face them again, but you can't not smile, remember, please.

Of course cut off relations with her.。。 Let this kind of person not have such a good friend as you. Of course, you can't talk behind your back.

Don't talk to him for a while, and you'll be fine after a while.

If you are a good friend, it is better to ignore him, maybe he will reconcile with you in the future.

Knowing your place in his heart, you will know how to get along with him.

That's not a friend, at least a friend who can't make a deep friend.

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again...

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you, the one who loves you the most is often not your favorite, and the longest, it's not what you love the most or the one who loves you the most, no one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, he can't pretend not to love you when he loves you, and similarly, he can't pretend to love you when he doesn't love you. When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him, if you don't love him anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem, if you still love him, you should want him to live happily, you want him to be with his true love, you will never stop him, if you prevent him from getting real happiness, it means that you don't love him anymore, and if you don't love him, what right do you have to accuse him of changing his mind?

A philosopher once said, "Life itself is a blank canvas on which you can draw whatever you want; You can paint pain or perfect happiness. In fact, suffering is not an inevitable result, and happiness is not unattainable, it all depends on what attitude you use to paint your life and work.

Don't regard work as an annoying matter outside of life, but integrate work into our lives and into our hearts, then we will naturally be willing to pay, and we will feel the necessities of life with the most enthusiastic heart.

Directly shaken、Long pain is not as good as short pain。

Be grateful to the one who hurt you, because he tempered your mind; Thank you to the one who despises you, because he awakens your self-esteem; Thank you to those who deceive you, because he taught you to be self-reliant; Thank the one who stumbled over you because he fueled your wisdom.

Insolation is the best consolation.

Cuckold, then there is self-esteem! The easiest way to understand it.

What self-esteem do you have when you cuckold.

There is no one in this world who can be completely trusted, and most people have encountered similar problems, and sometimes even the best friend has to be reserved because the world lacks moral integrity. Learn to adapt to such a society. It's okay to be honest with others, but it's also important to keep your own principles appropriate.

The most important thing is to be happy yourself, and what others do will not come according to your ideas. I hope you succeed in your studies! After stepping into the society, you will find that school life is much simpler!

I was hurt by the people who studied together since I was a child, and I was dug into the corner of the business by the brother who had taken him in for a year to feed and live. In the end, these are not friends, because these people are not suitable to be friends. A lot of people don't necessarily become your friends. But don't be treated like an enemy.

Because there are no eternal friends and no eternal enemies in this world. Maybe it's only the benefit, maybe it's something where you hurt your classmate's self-esteem, or maybe he is like this, you still help him do what you help him do, maybe you don't help him do what he did now, he also thinks you've changed. Sometimes a little more understanding also gains friends.

Of course friends are mutual. If you are the only one who pays, then he is not worthy of your relationship.

There is a suggestion, don't believe what some people say: "There is no trustworthy person in this world", because no matter what, how barren, in the end there is still yourself, but don't look at friends too seriously, not to say that you don't really want friends, but don't pay too much attention to your friends' words and deeds, attitude, I have personal experience, we may be like you for 1 year, but I insist on what I should do, try to pay sincerely, do what I want, but I can't think of you to do it others will think you are hypocritical, So follow your heart, and our situation has improved a lot now.

If you want to be a man, you must be yourself first, and if you do it yourself, it is not your own problem, but his problem, and you can't deny yourself because of others

There are often such people! I also love to make friends! But he is often betrayed by his friends! It's not your fault! It's that they're not good! There's no need to do anything for them! Smile and laugh and pass!

I'm a girl, and I'm saying the following from your standpoint: Similarly, what would I do if it were me?

First, you really have some self-inflicted feelings, you don't feel angry, you think about yourself do you feel this way?It's really wrong for you to come behind his back,!!Because you don't have a minimum of respect!

As the saying goes, if you are sorry for others, you will get pain if you bring harm to your boyfriend, which is what you expected!

But then again, it's good that you're hiding from your boyfriend that you care about him, that I can understand you and don't want him to get hurt. But the result is the same, the truth is known to him, and he will only be more sad!I even hate you, so go back to your unit and make trouble!

Don't blame him, this sentence should be said to you by your boyfriend, because you are now not qualified in the eyes of others

The second is to deal with the aftermath, if you do this, you have to have the courage to take it, like your boyfriend to talk about it, you are wrong, and there is no reason to copy something like you, or blame you for the harm you gave me. Then I broke up with him calmly and told him not to make trouble, and it was over between you and me. You don't have to think about what happened to him, this kind of love will not be stable, if you are with him again, do you feel guaranteed that you have enough self-confidence and self-esteem to be by his side again?

And I don't dare to guarantee that in the future, if the two of you quarrel, will he use this to humiliate you, if it is something you can bear? If yes, then you say yes

On the company's side, you still have to hold on for a while, and there are a lot of such things now, the main thing is to work hard! Be sure to work hard! Overcome yourself, overcome yourself, and don't quit if things don't get out of control and you can't stay.

For that colleague of yours, I think you should let it go first, if time proves that he is the person you are looking for and you are with him, without full love and confidence, it is better not to try it easily, that will only make you become someone else's after-dinner gossip.

The third is your view of love, you are now affected by this incident, you feel so tired and sad, and you feel that love in life is very unsmooth and tired. I believe that after this paragraph you will be fine. The main thing is to have faith in yourself!

Everything has a cause and effect, don't complain, think about why this happens all the time, and find out why. I have experienced so much love, have you gained anything from it?

Feelings can't be forced, fate arrives, and naturally everything is good

It's okay, don't be sad, believe in yourself, there's nothing you can't get through, life goes on, you have to live every day happily, get some sleep, tomorrow is a good day, isn't it?

I hope my opinion can help you too!

I really don't know if I should scold you, maybe you haven't woken up yet.

First of all, the cause of this is entirely because of you... You don't have any grievances, although your ex-boyfriend is a little impulsive.

But isn't this a change from love to hate?

You've hurt that ex-boyfriend's heart.,I advise you to choose neither.。。。 Unless you and that colleague are really in love with each other and have the potential to grow.

Go out and take a break by yourself.

Think carefully about what you put ... Isn't that wrong?

And then start living again, don't be like that. Valuing one's own feelings is the most respectful of oneself.

Don't resent your boyfriend, because you still have to eat your own bitter fruit.

My words may be a bit heavy, but I hope you don't do that in the future...

Finally, I wish you ,,。 Hehe, it's kind of ironic.

You deceived other people's feelings, brought hurt to others, and got some pain, which is also inevitable, but your boyfriend is too ruthless, if you were brave and confessed, you wouldn't be like this, a little self-inflicted, you should talk about your feelings and thoughts now, once it ends, don't affect you in the future, you should apologize to your boyfriend and colleagues, just because you hesitated, hurt 2 people, cherish other people's feelings, don't repeat the mistakes of the past, come on.