I ve loved people, but I m afraid that my current boyfriend will ask me about my past

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Of course, don't show it completely

    But love is about being honest with each other.

    You can talk to your current boyfriend about your past

    Remember to use a very calm tone、By all means。 Let him know that you have forgotten the past, even if you are not

    You don't have to deliberately tell him that you have forgotten the past, but you must let him feel in your current mood that you just want to be with him

    Of course, although your boyfriend has the right to know your past to some extent, you also have the right not to confess to him

    But since you want your current relationship to last forever, you should still be honest with each other

    Don't be afraid、Actually、Just tell him lightly、At least in a calm tone and mood、Haha。

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Everyone has privacy, just tell him that everyone has a past and hope that he will respect your past.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you ask, you will tell the previous things half-truthfully, You can't tell lies, but you can't tell the whole truth, Wise woman, it's up to you to grasp it. Remember to be considerate of your current boyfriend's feelings. It's even worse if you tell all the lies.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The love of the past, the memory is deep.

    This is very problematic because you may not know who you love.

    If you do have this problem, I want to tell you that cherish the person in front of you is the person you should love the most and can love you the most.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Since love. It's for the future together.

    Is it necessary to care about the past?

    I never ask about my GF's past.

    Because the person she loves now is me.

    If two people firmly believe that they will be together forever.

    Then your love will definitely be an eternal love song.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Do you want him to give you a future? If you wish, then give him your past!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Let's be honest with your boyfriend, I don't think he would quarrel with you like that.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Won't care about TA's past. If you mind, you can't love him with all your heart. Mind refers to taking things that make people unhappy to heart.

    When you mind a person's past, state that person's past is something that makes you unhappy. Whether these things are his fault or not, they will leave a gap in your heart, even a shadow.

    If you care a lot about the people or things he has met in the past, your heart will not be able to love him 100% anymore. In the future, when you face him, you will be very entangled and painful, and while you enjoy his kindness to you, you will also think from time to time, did he also treat others so well before? Did he treat me like the one he used to be?

    In the matter of love, I am most afraid of suspicion and crankiness.

    And there is a characteristic of human psychology, there are some things, when you don't care about it, it slowly disappears; But if there is one thing that has left a deep mark on your heart, the more you let yourself not care, the clearer it will be in your memory. So in response to this question, from the point of view of love, it is like this: if you love him, then you certainly don't mind his past; If you mind his past, you won't be able to love him anymore.

    If you mind his past, it will make him very painful to mind this, not only will it cause you a certain amount of pain, but it will also make him very painful. You don't mind his past, there will be some manifestations to a greater or lesser extent, sometimes it is an attitude of wanting to be detached, sometimes it will be asked often, and he will be sensitive to the fact that you are very concerned about those things.

    His original intention of telling you about the past is to let you see the real him, and he is not willing to hide anything from his loved ones, and he hopes that after hearing these things, you can rationally consider whether you accept his past. If you don't accept it, then don't get along anymore, the deeper and longer you love, the more painful it will be when you leave; If you can accept it, then he hopes that the past will not affect your future happiness!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    You can talk to your boyfriend, talk to him about what you really think, and I think if he really loves you, he will slowly understand you

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Such a stingy man, break up. Things will be more complicated after marriage, and such a person can't get by.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't tell him about your past, or you make up some answers that he likes, and the man asks you if you didn't want to know before, but just to see if you're a good woman, and you coax him, and boys are sometimes like children.

    You tell him that your pair of those are all copied and should not be your own, so you don't want to keep it for fear of affecting your feelings, you go and explain to him that you want to bring emotional performances, don't be like this in the future, you think that your honesty can only be exchanged for a man's seeing through and betrayal, remember, I am the one who came over, come on, cheer for happiness.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think you should tell him all about your past, sincerely wait for his reaction, if he is willing to believe you, there will be no gap between you, and you must be very happy. If he doesn't believe in you, a relationship without a sense of trust won't make much sense, it will only be a constant conflict.

    That's what I think.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    You should sit down and open your hearts and have a good talk, but if it doesn't work, it's better to divide it!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Does he tell you about his past? Do you share it with you?

    You have to ask why he cares so much about your past.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    1.It could be a personality problem, he likes to be suspicious, distrustful, and does this to everyone, 2He wants to thoroughly understand your past, and then compare it to see what is best for you, but the way is not considered.

    3.Maybe he doesn't love you enough, but if he really loves you very, very much, he won't care what you have been and what happened to you, and he won't be angry about what happened before, 4may be deliberately finding fault and finding a reason to break up.

    In fact, I want to know about her other half very much, I want to know what she likes and dislikes, I know a lot of things that happened to my current girlfriend before, but I don't say it, just know it, and at the same time try not to mention the previous things, after all, it's all in the past, after all, now the two of them are together, the relationship is very good, why do you have to turn up the original unhappy things, is the other party unhappy, uncomfortable, will you be better?Unless it's emotionless. It doesn't matter anymore.

    I hope your boyfriend is well-intentioned, wants to understand you, and doesn't want to do something that makes you unhappy, if not, then you have to think about it, whether it's worth it, if two people are always unhappy together, it's not as good.

    I wish you happiness.

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