It turns out that I am just her spare tire, what should I do if it is very uncomfortable?

Such a woman is not worth your memory for her for so long, and it is very likely that you still can't let go of it now because you are unwilling! You feel that in your relationship with her, you can't balance your giving and returning, and you can't make yourself feel balanced. It is undeniable that from the beginning of your crush, your sincere dedication, should not have been such a result, but the relationship is not speculated according to common sense, maybe at the beginning, she loved you, but then she found that although you are very good to her, there is no way to find fault, but there is no such feeling of loving you, sometimes love or not love is really just a momentary thing.

She doesn't know how to break up with you, mainly because there is no good reason (if she says she wants to break up because she doesn't love you anymore, you will definitely ask the reason, and she can't say the reason, what do you think will be the result?). Yes, a woman should be spoiled, but it depends on what kind of woman she is, some women will take it for granted, and some women will be grateful, and obviously, the latter should really be pampered. She can't find a reason to break up, and she doesn't want to endure the loneliness of being alone, so she hangs with you first, and at the same time is looking for her next boyfriend, which is a manifestation of human selfishness, but it is also the most honest side of human nature.

Maybe she doesn't want to hurt you like she did later, she thinks that frequent arguments will make you give up on her initiative, but she underestimates your love for her and also underestimates your endurance. At the same time, the frequent quarrels also alerted you, and you began to suffer from gains and losses, nervousness, and so, that incident became a springboard for your breakup, and you found an outlet for your anxiety in that incident, and you can finally ask questions. And she, annoyed and angry, maybe at that time, she suddenly decided to tear her face with you.

People are like this sometimes, they do something wrong but don't want others to say it, especially in front of her, even if she knows that maybe you know those things, she would rather you pretend not to know to face her than expose her to your face. She can only hide her weakness with anger. It's impossible for you to forget, but you can find something else interesting to do, distract yourself, try not to think about her, and after a long time, it will naturally feel much lighter.

These are some of my personal analyses and opinions, I hope it will be helpful to you.

Sympathize with your plight, bless you with liberation, and send you a word.

Everything that happens has a cause and effect, and it will help me!!

May you eat a trench and grow wise, and don't make the same mistakes.

Agree and thank you.

Time will ** all wounds, such a woman is not worth your efforts to her, or divide it for your sake in the future.

If you want the hat to change color in the future, just keep thinking about her.

The partner who suits you must be waiting for you somewhere.

Do what you have to do, are you living for her or for yourself? There is no right or wrong in this, and besides, you are not a spare tire, but she took advantage of you in the most painful time, using your love for her to forget the person who abandoned her in front of her. What you need now is time Time will tell, and you will feel stupid when you look back on it now

You still can't forget, do you hate it too much or love it too much? If you hate her, you should leave the past behind, be yourself, or get revenge.

To love her is to wait for her to wake up, before that, forget about the feelings, be friends, or just give up and wait for time to dilute the feelings.

I don't know if it's love or hate, it's better to leave, unstable emotions will cause a sad ending, so it's better not to meet. It's good for both parties.

All I can say is that you're not hurt deeply, and you're also a cheap and useless man.

It's not worth it for this kind of woman, let it go, the long pain is better than the short pain, you can try to forget, work hard, communicate with friends more, don't think about her deliberately, although it is difficult to forget a person, but you have to work hard to do it.

There are many brothers in the pursuit of the girl they like,Has been silently paying but can't chase,Finally, I finally found that I seemed to be used as a spare tire by this girl.,At this time, in addition to unwillingness and anger.,I want to scold the girl a few words.,But it's useless to do so.,The biggest punishment for such a person is,Become her unattainable man.。

It must be painful! If you want to be mentally mature, you need to be rational: 1, to what extent is the status of the "main tire" strong, 2, subjectively speaking, whether it is recognized as a "spare tire", that is, whether she or he knows the existence of your spare tire and the necessity of reservation!

3. How difficult is it for the spare tire to be promoted to the main tire, have you thought about it, and have you worked hard!! If you feel that you are still young and can afford to play emotionally or fight, then this is your battlefield, work hard, or fail, at least you reflect your own value!!

If you love her deeply, then strive to turn positive, if so-so, then forget it. The spare tire is painful, and the input needs to be cautious. Such a girl doesn't cherish you, and she doesn't deserve to be cherished, at least she doesn't respect you, right?!

If you like her, you can make a spare tire with peace of mind and be ready to turn positive at all times.

If my heart is unbalanced, I immediately said goodbye and left her a sentence: I'm sorry, I'm recalled!

What should I do if I find out that I am a spare tire when I am in love? It's not too late to understand.

You know that you are a spare tire, but you still like him, this kind of you can continue to like him in your heart, but don't do too intimate behavior, or an ambiguous relationship, because this will make it difficult for you to get out of it in the end.

At this time, you have to make it clear that being a spare tire is very painful, and in the end you can't get anything, you have to talk to him about it, if it's a spare tire, then you should let it go as soon as possible.

Then like her for a while, be entangled with her for a while, and wait until you can't love anymore, you can't stand it, and you break up with her again, at this time you won't regret it, because you have worked hard and fought for this relationship.

At this time, they will take the initiative to choose to refuse, the spare tire is the least valuable, and the other party does not really like themselves.

I think it's a very unworthy act. Since you think so yourself, there will be results for the two of you, she just wants to hang you.

will change themselves, strive to pursue each other, and then confess to each other, strive to get each other's hearts, and be with each other for a lifetime.

Or will give up, find another girl to start over, to replace her, and let the new relationship break off the old love.

At this time, I will talk to my friends about this so that my friends can accompany me more, and let my friends say some bad things next to me, so that I can have the courage to let go.

Then slowly learn to let go, don't be someone else's spare tire, this kind of person is not worthy of being unique at all.

If you already know that you are a spare tire, but you still like him, then you need to confess your heart to him, if he likes you too, then you can continue, if he doesn't feel good for you, then give up as soon as possible.

I suggest that you run more for your own exercise, don't always hurt yourself, the next one is actually better, there are still a lot of girls, don't always be obsessed with someone.

I will endure the pain and no longer be her spare tire, and at the same time, I will directly tell her that if she doesn't love me, don't accept my goodness.

I will choose to let go, because this will reduce the damage to myself, and I will also be able to avoid being tricked, so that I will have to better meet my own life.

At this time, I will choose to leave, I will not see each other again after I leave, I will not have this feeling of missing, and I will not be a spare tire.