The relationship between parents is a bit stiff, often quarrels, and the family atmosphere is tense,

First of all, the relationship between husband and wife is not difficult to solve, your mother's nagging is also for your father's good, your father pays attention to himself, and his mother will say a little less, and it is not that he will not say nothing. As for fighting, it's right for you to stop it, I don't believe that dad will do it to his own children. If your dad beats your mom, you can help your mom do it, of course, this practice is not very favorable.

The quarrel was fine the next day, which shows that their relationship is still very good, and they are definitely not willing to hit someone. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship: This problem, which has plagued Chinese families for more than ten years, is becoming increasingly prominent.

It's the same in my family, my mother has a particularly bad influence on my mother-in-law, first of all, the two women are of different ages, and their thoughts and ways of doing things are also different, and the husband is the most difficult to get caught in it. Of course, if the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is to be good, both parties must make efforts. The daughter-in-law should listen to her mother-in-law's teachings, and the mother-in-law's mistakes should also be pointed out.

You want your mother-in-law and mother to face up to their own seniority and position, and not to be unforgiving. LET THEM LEARN TO BE PROUD ...

You are a child, and you can't interfere in the affairs of adults!

However, you can tell your grandparents about the quarrel and let them take care of your parents! (Parents still have to listen to what they say!) ）

As long as one of the parents is willing to learn how to do a good relationship, the relationship between husband and wife will improve.

Let them shift their goals, and you find something for them to do

There are libraries in many places, so I think all we have to do is go to the library and study. Because the relationship between parents is not good, it must have left a deep psychological shadow on himself. Only by studying hard can we resolve the harm caused to us by our original family.

It is suggested that we should work hard to improve ourselves, so that we can move out of the house and live our own lives after graduation. At the same time, we can regulate the relationship between our parents, who have lived for so many years and must have feelings.

Many people go to the same school after their parents quarrel, so we can also go to the same school to play, so that we can escape from the influence of the family atmosphere. It is recommended that we be polite when we go to play with our classmates so that we can maintain friendship. If your classmates' parents are at home, it's a good idea to bring some fruit to show your friendliness.

When you go to play with your classmates, you can release your bad emotions appropriately, but be careful not to have a particularly big impact on the lives of others.

The influence of the family on a person is particularly great, and if the parents are always quarrelling, then the child's psychological state will not be particularly stable. Therefore, it is suggested that we should make full use of the time to improve ourselves, so that after graduation, we can find a job that satisfies us, and we can live on our own. Parents can also reassure us that we must make ourselves strong so that we can escape the influence of our original family.

At this time, you can sit down with your parents and have a good chat, confide in them, and tell them that their parents' quarrel has seriously affected their lives, and hope that they can think more about themselves.

When parents want to quarrel, you can go to the corridor to sit and play with your mobile phone, and you can also go to a friend's house to study with your friends, which can relieve your emotions.

You can try to reconcile, and if you have reconciled to no avail, ask your relatives for help. If you really can't change it, just ignore it Focus on more valuable things, otherwise it will affect your physical and mental health for a long time, and it is their fault that they quarrel, and you should not be allowed to bear it, you are not wrong, you just did your best.

When your parents quarrel, you should actively persuade them, or when they quarrel, you should break them down and let them all calm down, you should reflect on why they quarreled and help them solve the problem.

If in a family, parents are always quarrelling, it does have a great impact on the children, if you are currently an adult, if you have the financial ability, it is recommended that you can also move out to live, it is good to be quiet alone.

You must adjust your state, don't have a serious impact on yourself because of your parents' situation, you must open your mind, you can read, you can exercise, and you must communicate with your parents more.

You can go to your friends, or go out to relax, don't see your parents, you can divert your attention and do what you want to do.

You should have a good talk with your parents, after all, parental quarrels can also affect children, you can tell your parents what you think, and you can also let your parents avoid you when they quarrel.

1. Personality flaws. If the home is like a battlefield, parents will often break out in front of their children into fierce quarrels, even abuse, fights, children growing up in such a family have low self-esteem, some sensitive, some are irritable, in short, will make the child's character flawed.

2. Influence the concept of love and marriage. People who have witnessed and experienced long-term quarrels with their parents will lose confidence in love and marriage, find it difficult to develop a sense of dependence on other people, and even distort their view of love. Because of the fear of quarreling, afraid of a quarrel like a shrew hysteria, so it will be very patient, even if it is about to drive itself crazy, never say a word; I am afraid that after getting married, I will also live this life of arguing every day, so I resist this pattern of life.

3. Self-loathing and lack of self-confidence. Some parents will say every day that I am not divorced for you (the child), but I don't know how much harm such words will cause to a child, he will think that your quarrels are all because of him, and always think that he is a wrong existence. Most parents who are prone to quarrels also lack tolerance and patience for their children, and some will even use their children as a punching bag, beating and scolding and belittling at will, which will not only cause children to lack self-confidence and optimism, but also produce a sense of self-loathing.

4. Subconscious repetition of imitation. The irritable emotions that parents show in front of their children, or even big fights, will be imitated by children. The original family is subtly shaping the child's personality and influencing his behavior, and subconsciously learning to be emotionally uncontrollable and quarrel with others.

Even if I think about it all the time, I will never become that kind of person, but before I know it, I have learned to get along with my parents.

5. Causing tearing pain in the child's heart. Some couples don't quarrel and prefer to solve problems by fighting a cold war and dealing with it indifferently. However, this cold family atmosphere is even more lethal to children.

Children are very sensitive, parents do not talk to each other, children are actually afraid. Some children will get attention and love by getting into trouble, and they will keep getting into trouble. There are also children who get sick or injured just to let their parents come to see them.

Summary. 1. If the son makes a mistake, he needs to admit the mistake to his mother in time and ask for his mother's forgiveness.

2. Respect your mother, listen to your mother's advice, and communicate with your mother calmly.

3. Mothers need to respect their son and communicate with him calmly.

4. As a mother, you should listen to your son's words more, listen patiently, and don't interrupt him.

5. Mothers should empathize, look at problems from the perspective of their children, and understand their children's hearts.

What should I do if my son's relationship with his parents is stiff?

1. If the son makes a mistake, he needs to admit the mistake to his mother in time and ask for his mother's forgiveness. 2. Respect your mother, listen to your mother's advice, and communicate with your mother calmly. 3. Mothers need to respect their son and communicate with him calmly.

4. As a mother, you should listen to your son's words more, listen patiently, and don't interrupt him. 5. Mothers should empathize, look at problems from the perspective of their children, and understand their children's hearts.

6. Be tolerant of children, guide children when they make mistakes, and don't insult children.

In fact, parents always quarrel, and if you want to change your opinion, it mainly depends on whether your parents are aware of it. If you are not aware of the impact of junior high school on you, it is more difficult to rely on children alone. At least that's what I think.

As long as the husband and wife live together, they will quarrel, get angry or even fight, at this time, the children and anyone else should not be involved, the more involved it will be, the more chaotic it will be, on the contrary, let them calm down and reconcile again, so at this time the children should not be afraid, just be yourself.

Ask parents for a family meeting! At the meeting, I suggested to my parents: Ask them if you have a conflict between the two of you, can you solve the problem by arguing often?

Why can't you just sit down and have a good chat! Isn't the problem solved through communication? The writers are always noisy!

Noisy! Noisy!! Lose your feelings!

You are the head of the family! We should be taught by good examples! It's time for this situation to end!

My suggestion is a bit premature, but I'll say it anyway. If the parents do not agree with each other, persuade them to divorce. It's good for each other, when you're older, you know who's a passerby. Life is short, it's better to live for yourself.

It is also possible that if you persuade them like this, they will be fine in the future, and they will talk about you together.

When we were growing up, we had a beautiful misconception about marriage, thinking that a happy marriage would not quarrel. In fact, no matter how good a marriage is, there will be quarrels, and for the quarrel between parents, don't associate it with yourself, it seems that because of yourself, your parents are not doing well. Or always want to have the mentality of a savior, hoping to make the family more happy through their own efforts, which is often the source of our suffering.

Oh, and first of all? Right? The children should come first to persuade them, and then what? The best thing is to engage in one activity and one activity, and to engage in an activity, it must be fair and just, and there must be nothing between men and women, and the principle of fairness and justice should be used to regulate their relationship.

As the saying goes, prescribe the right medicine. You have to figure out what the reason for the parent's quarrel is, and then start to solve the problem fundamentally.

If it's menopause, it's useless to regulate. Let them argue.

Rest assured, their relationship isn't as bad as you think.