Girls were beaten away from home How should today s children be educated

Actually, it is not scary for children to rebel. The so-called rebellion is nothing more than the child wants to insist on his own opinions and opinions, and is not understood by the parents, so it is said that the child is rebellious. It is best for parents to listen patiently to their children's opinions and confides, analyze the problem with their children, see if what the child says is reasonable, and then make trade-offs.

In addition, the love and care of parents is the most important thing for children. Children with a warm and harmonious family atmosphere will have a relatively peaceful and stable personality. Therefore, parents should first care for their children gently, and help their children analyze the problems together when they encounter problems, and find ways for them to solve them.

Be calm, don't be impatient, and patiently find the cause and solve the problem; In addition, usually accompany the child more, communicate with the child more, do not put pressure on the child when encountering problems, do not criticize and blame, comfort the child in time, let the child feel the support and warmth of the parents, give him support, give him strength, let the child feel the strong spiritual support behind him, because the love of parents is the best encouragement for the child. A child who grows up in a loving environment will be a very confident, sunny and caring child, who will share his love with others in need in a timely manner, and will become a person who is beneficial to society and others. In short, no matter when, parents are the strongest spiritual support for their children!

The consequences of hitting a child and breaking the law are equally serious, and educating children mainly depends on emotion.

1. Don't panic, learn to think calmly. If the child runs away from home, the parents find the child back in various ways, remember that after the child comes back, parents must not scold, blindly scold their child, tell them that the parent is worried about them, and ask for the specific reason for leaving home, and then help the child solve the problem. Finally, patiently tell them not to do this in the future, it is not right.

2. Put it aside for a period of time to re-educate. Children in the age group of 10 to 13 years old have their own ideas. After the child comes back, the parents will first admit to the child what is wrong, and the child will listen patiently to your reasoning.

3. Understand the psychology of children's runaways. Children who run away from home generally have poor ability to resist frustration and can't stand the slightest grievance, so children with signs of running away from home should cultivate their children's ability to resist frustration from an early age, otherwise it will be too late to regret it in the future!

A girl in the third grade of primary school was beaten by her mother a few times because of study problems, and then ran away from home and did not return overnight, and her family cried and begged for help to find the girl. Thankfully, the girl was safe. Nowadays, children can't be beaten and scolded, so how can parents educate their children?

First of all, be a learning and intelligent parent, and update your educational philosophy and education methods at any time.

Many young people become parents, either believing in the stick education of the older generation, or listening to the encouragement and education of experts from all walks of life, and as a result, the children are not convinced by blind suppression and consistent praise. The moment you become a parent, or when you are preparing to become a parent, you have to start learning about education, and you can dabble in all kinds of educational theories and methods. In short, reading more books on educational methods will only benefit you and not harm, because only when you read more will you have the foundation to integrate and apply what you have learned.

It can be said that there are many ways to learn about education, you just need to find the one that suits you. The key is to be sure to update your educational philosophy from multiple channels and perspectives at any time.

Secondly, get along with the child intimately, understand the child's personality characteristics, and find the right way to educate.

First of all, I would like to remind you that there is no one type of education that is suitable for all children, and the ancients have long reminded us of the words "teaching according to their aptitude". Therefore, if we want to educate our children well, we should first understand your child, whether he is lively and outgoing or introverted and quiet, whether he is competitive or cowardly.

These personality traits manifest differently in each child, parents should raise their children themselves, and you can only understand your child's personality when you spend time with each other.

For children with strong personalities, parents can appropriately suppress and be strict; For children with weak personalities, parents should focus on encouragement and can formulate incentives to stimulate children's enterprising spirit.

For example, if you lie, for a child with a strong personality, parents can beat them up after explaining the reason, and the child will be convinced; For children with weak personalities, parents should encourage the child to tell the reason for lying and make clear demands.

Third, parents will do what they say and do what they say, so that their children will be taught by word and deed.

Parents are never easy to be, you don't want to play with your phone on the sofa by yourself, but expect your children to do their homework seriously, that's impossible. Don't make promises easily, don't say that you can't do it, promise your children that things must be done, so that children will trust their parents and be an honest person like their parents.

Parents must learn to use their brains, not rigid and rigid other people's education methods, and find the most important method for your child.

This incident also reminds usCommunication between parents and children is important and handled appropriately. Although everyone's views are different, a parent's heart that loves their children must be sincere, and they all hope to educate their children well, but they never think about their children but don't appreciate them. Today's children are very individual, especially thoughtful, and it is really not easy to educate a child well.

Whenever parents point out their child's mistakes, the child will always find many reasons to prove his innocence. At this time, parents will generally angrily call their children's behavior "quibble".In fact, this is not just a quibble, but a kind of feedback from children to their parents' education. If parents ignore their children's "quibble" feedback and forcibly beat and scold them, for a long time, the children will never give positive feedback to their mother's education again.

Without the cooperation of children, parents will inevitably have no way to educate their children.

Children are in adolescence, and it is inevitable to look at things one-sidedly. At this time, parents should be proud not to be angry and wronged with them, but how to resolve the "dead knot" between themselves and their children. Perhaps, it is not too late for this parent to understand the common characteristics of runaway teenagers before making a proper evaluation of their children.

Parents should communicate and communicate with their children more often to understand their children's psychological stateKnow what they want and what they want to do. When a child makes a mistake, parents should educate their child, and then you can try to turn irrational scolding into some methods that are rational and do not cause harm to your child. Parents should communicate with their children in a timely manner if they find that their children have psychological problemsto decompress the child's heart.

Therefore,Parents should educate their children rationally and not be too violent or unreasonable. Good communication can effectively resolve conflicts.