My boyfriend said he had cancer and asked me to leave him!

Updated on psychology 2024-06-21
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    Contact his family and inform you of your boyfriend's current situation, and look at his family's situation to find out what's going on! It's easy for the little sister to get the facts straight.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Go to him abroad and tell him that I am willing to accompany you for the rest of your life... Provided, of course, that his cancer is real.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Cancer can be fake. He may not be with you anymore.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Landlord.. Hasn't he contacted you in a few days? Look at your description between the lines. Why does it feel so fake?。。 It's similar to the feeling of the upstairs.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    The question is actually very complex and very simple. It's not what you do, it's what you want to do. There is no right or wrong in this choice, and don't kidnap yourself with morality, and you don't need to care about the evaluation of others.

    Accompany him, maybe you are lucky, there is a better plan, and some malignant tumors can also be treated as chronic diseases. Of course, there will be economic pressure, and the richer families are fine, but the poor are really hard. Of course, maybe you may not be lucky, and you can also imagine the bad ones, I just want to tell you from the experience of a person who has come over, companionship is not so simple, it is not a gritted tooth and a stamping of feet to survive.

    But if that's what you instinctively want to do, it's just a life experience.

    As the partner of a cancer patient, although he is not married and has no identity, he has been regarded as a relative, and I can't give up. It's been three months, I've been suffering from depression, anxiety, severe insomnia, fear, he's very good at torturing me, I'm afraid in my heart that I'm strong on the surface, and I'm not afraid at all in front of my family, but I say everything, he's afraid of death, he's afraid of the future, he feels that his fate is unfair, he hasn't married or had children, he hasn't experienced many, many things...Emotions are capricious, I know that the process of ** is particularly painful, I just want to be by his side to accompany him and take care of him, even if he is gone, I can see and know, but, he is so naughty, so tormented me, I can't find him, occasionally send messages to report good news and not bad news, when it's good, I wake up every day and chat, now there is no information for a few days, I think every day, why is it not me who is sick, now I find out what cancer comes out, we are equal, he will not push me away like this anymore.

    He may want you to give up, don't want you to see him now, then in addition to giving him blessings, you can only be far away from him, don't let him find out that you know his recent situation, although he wants you to be by his side, but he doesn't want you to be with him in pain, then let him know that you are as happy as you are without him, although in fact this is not the case, but if you want him to rest assured, you must be strong.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    If it were me in this situation, I wouldn't leave him. Because I had fond memories with him, I couldn't bear to see him go alone. When a person gets cancer, he will suffer physically and mentally, and I will definitely give him the last tenderness and take care of him without abandonment.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    At this time, it depends on whether you really love him and want to be with him. Follow your heart, you must show your heart when you are separated, and then convince him and accompany him**.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I think you should be by his side as much as possible, even if it is to accompany him to the last journey of his life, I think you can be more at ease, and I don't think you should do something that you regret.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    I never thought that this would happen to me, but whenever I see these news, I also think about what I would do instead, I can't say how I did it, but I would definitely not agree to break up with him. Although cancer is terrible, I don't want to leave the person I love because of fear, although I don't know how long he has to live, then I also hope that in his limited life I will be the one who will accompany him to the end.

    I can understand breaking up with my boyfriend because he has cancer, after all, not everyone has the courage to persevere to the end, and of course he doesn't want his beloved girlfriend to be dragged down. This kind of thing happened unexpectedly, and it was not easy for a girlfriend to make decisions under the pressure of the family, even if they broke up, they had to stay by his side and take care of him in another relationship.

    I believe it would be better to have you by your side in his most difficult moments, and with your encouragement and support while battling the disease, maybe a miracle will happen? Now cancer is not an incurable disease, we must relax our mentality, even if the world is not beautiful for you, you must give back to the world with the most gentle attitude.

    If you are very entangled in whether to agree to his request to break up, it means that your heart is shaken, and I don't want you to choose to stay and take care of him because you are afraid of the world's eyes and the accusations of others, and you must follow your heart's choice. In fact, it doesn't mean much to him to break up, it's true that you still have love, the situation of both parties is very difficult, we might as well wait and see if there will be a turnaround, if you are ready to accompany him through life and death, don't let go of his hand, okay, respect your choice.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    No, as a woman, I will subconsciously think from a female point of view, if I am in love with a boy and I have cancer, I don't know what the outcome is, assuming that it will not be long, I may wish that he could accompany me for the last paragraph; Assuming that it will drag on for a long time, I may leave him, not because I don't love, but because of love. I think responsibility is one of the most important qualities of a man, and if you really love this girl, you will think about what it will mean for her later life if she agrees to marry and have children. <>

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, the death of a terminally ill lover is indeed a tragic fate, but it is not a fate that you should bear. Anyway, it's hard for me to imagine that if I were terminally ill, my family would persuade my girlfriend to marry me without telling my parents, because that would break the moral bottom line of me and my family. For you, I can only once again responsibly and sincerely advise you to break up.

    If you really can't bear to break up, my advice is to accompany you and not get married. <>

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If love doesn't ask, it will definitely accompany you to the end of the day!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Because I really love him, what he said I promised him, but after rethinking it, I don't want to try anymore, he told me to be young and find a good life, I said okay, but you know what? I won't be able to forget you for the rest of my life, and I won't be with anything anymore, Yang.

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