What do you think about friends who are always late?

Friends who are often late actually reflect that you are not all the way to the road. In the past, I used to have friends who were often late and didn't care, but now I am gradually not friends, in fact, the concept of time does not coincide, and it may not be compatible with other aspects.

If it's just an ordinary friend, I really can't bear it, after all, everyone's time is limited, and we must respect each other, but a very good friend, I will really be very protective, because I know that he is procrastinating, in order to deal with his tardiness, I usually choose to go out half an hour later than him.

I have a friend who is always late, she is not the kind of person who procrastinates, but every time she says a good time, she always does not see her, and she has not changed many times, and then every time I go out with her, or have something to agree on a time, I will leave about 30 minutes late, or longer, and when I leave, I will call her to say that I am almost there, so that I have hardly waited for her, and I usually arrive to her.

Every time I go out to play, I have to be at least half an hour later than the agreed time, and every time for various reasons, if the appointment time is early, she will say too early, and I am currently waiting for her, so I am a person who is never late for two minutes late and is particularly uncomfortable, and I will be so tolerant of others, thanks to this best friend.

I have a friend who too. Living in the same building and making an appointment to have breakfast together, she will definitely be a few minutes late. Not much, three or five minutes.

The first time I waited patiently, and the second time I texted her just after the agreed time: You're late again, I'll go first. The third time, she asked me to come along, and I told her that we might not be able to arrange time together, so let's eat separately.

Almost every time I was late, at least half an hour, more than an hour and a half, sometimes I arrived at my destination, she hadn't left home yet, I had to go shopping by myself first, and after an hour of shopping, she appeared...Actually, sometimes it's quite annoying, and the patience gradually wears off...

An experimental team, the other three people are a dormitory, every time I arrive at the appointed time, but they are a dormitory, as long as one person has something to do, the last time it was almost 1 hour later than the agreed time, this time it was late again, I slept at 2:00 yesterday, and got up at 7:30 today, although I was very sleepy, but in order to abide by the agreement, I got up, how could they be like this, this time it seems that I am going to be late for 1 hour, and I can not come over at the agreed time every time in the future, I'm 1 hour late every time, but you're sleeping, has anyone considered my feelings!

You have to say it, because it makes you uncomfortable, doesn't it? If you are a good friend and care about your feelings, why is this still the case? I've also met such a friend, and now I'd rather go out alone than ask her out, which affects my mood.

It's good to get used to it, every time you ask such a friend, you will choose to go a little late, and he will be late anyway.

I'm sorry, the person who is always late is not in my range of friends at all, I will exclude him.

When your friend is always late, you should either accept her tardiness or don't ask her out!

1) You say your friend is always late, and I think your friend is that kind of character and is not intentionally targeted.

"Personality Color" also said that the behavior of people in the world is ever-changing, but there are indeed traces of character to follow.

If a person is always late, then she is more likely to be a lively type of personality.

This kind of person is lively and cheerful, loves to be lively, likes interpersonal communication, and has no pressure to get along.

However, it is true that there will be problems of frequent tardiness and poor time concept.

(2) You will pay attention to and care about this matter, which means that your personality is perfect.

You care about the perfection of things and want everything to be in order, step by step, and follow the principles.

However, it is easy to think too much, be suspicious, and be not good at expressing dissatisfaction.

So:

1) Friends are this kind of character, not deliberately targeting you, deliberately late, don't think too much.

2) If you can't accept it, be sure to tell your friend, although most of the time she will be late next time (because she has a big heart and thinks it's okay).

3) It is difficult to change others, but it is easy to change yourself.

In summary:

1) If you have a business relationship with your friends, I suggest that you do business and express your views directly, if you can't change it, don't make an appointment in the future, delay things, and also affect your mood.

2) If you are a friend in life, accept a certain range of tardiness from your own point of view, such as being late for less than 10 minutes, or, urge your friend more before going out, ask her more if she has gone out, and if both of you go out at the same time, the tardiness rate will drop a lot.

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It depends on whether you are late, you have nothing to say when you are late, and you can't let a table of people wait for you. After all, it's your own reason to blame anyone, and you should take the initiative to apologize and punish yourself with 3 cups, so as to show your bearing and respect for others.

If it is temporary, it depends on whether the friend is sincere, and if you are sincere, you will immediately ask the waiter to add a few more dishes, and immediately tell you the reason, avoid the estrangement between you, and also give you face in front of a table of people. Then you should also respond enthusiastically immediately, saying that you are sorry that you are late, make up a glass by yourself, and integrate into the wine table as soon as possible.

If he doesn't make any moves, but says that you are here, it is obviously insincere, either to repay the favor you invited him to eat before, or to care about you at all, you can completely refuse to do this, and immediately say that I have already eaten, and there is an urgent matter to deal with. He naturally knows that you are angry, and you can't hold your face on the table.

In fact, we often encounter this situation, most of them are still well-intentioned, harmoniously resolve embarrassment, after all, most of the reason is due to their own tardiness, and you don't have a reason to blame others for not waiting for you, if you only invite you alone, then it's another matter.

I thought I had a relationship with such a person before I did the leaky stove, and I called you after eating half of it, we are partners in the company, and he used the company's money to invite some people to eat, and only after eating half of the meal did he call me to eat, I thought that everyone was in a hurry to go early before they started, but when I arrived at the scene, I was dumbfounded, I was the last to be called, in fact, I had already eaten half of it before beating me**, the purpose was to use the company's money to entertain. At that time, he was forced to be a partner who did not tear his face, although he didn't eat much, but he still sat on it to give him some face, and later it turned out that this person was really not a good person, and finally dispersed, this experience told me that the face should not be able to bear such a thing, the character is there, sooner or later there will still be a fight, and even because of this, you will have to inch in, laugh at you stupid. So in the face of such a scene, I was late and punished myself for 3 cups, and others had other purposes, so they directly responded with actions and expressions, and they didn't have to endure it.