Because of what, you will feel that after you are an adult, you will not have youth?

Originally, youth was a matter before work.

When I go to school, I don't have to worry about money, accommodation, and food, and my parents don't have to worry about it, and I don't have to worry about it too small, everything is for myself, so it's all my own business, my own time.

After graduation, work, and marriage, you will never belong to yourself, everything is family, parents, children, life and what youth to talk about, each stage has its own tasks and missions, that's it.

Because of the stress that causes you to have no dreams, or because of the pressure you have to give up a lot of things, if you have a family, the pressure is even greater. Because of the stress that causes you to have no dreams, or because of the pressure you have to give up a lot of things, if you have a family, the pressure is even greater. Because of the stress that causes you to have no dreams, or because of the pressure you have to give up a lot of things, if you have a family, the pressure is even greater.

It depends on what kind of conditions you have, such as family conditions, if the young father in the family does not have the conditions of the mother, then what kind of youth has passed on the wheel, if there is no father in the family, you still have to bear but to raise your younger brother or sister with your mother to bear all the pressure of the family's economy and eating, drinking, and mixing, you feel that you should share, you should share, all these things are copied by yourself, and you don't realize that you have had any youth, hey!

It's because of pressure, because of responsibility, so I feel like an adult, and I won't have youth in the future. Because I have my own responsibility, it is time to take my own responsibility. There is no time left to enjoy youth.

Because when you become an adult, you will have a certain amount of pressure and responsibility, forcing you to struggle every day, and you can't be as easy as going to school, so you will feel that you will have no youth when you become an adult.

Let's live! Because when you were younger, you spent most of your time in school and playing with your classmates, or you just graduated and didn't know anything! But once you work, you will face marriage, mortgage, car loan, and parents and siblings on both sides, etc., and the pressure is huge!

Because of my work, I had to give up what I liked and do things I didn't like, which made me feel that when I became an adult, I would have no youth.

Entering adulthood means that personal social responsibility has increased, and family roles have changed, in fact, youth has not disappeared, but your vision and mentality have changed.

What youth is is ignorance and ignorance. When you become an adult, you still hope that you are ignorant and ignorant, affirming the sophistication of people, firewood, rice, oil and salt.

After experiencing more things, people are no longer simple, they have more ideas, and they naturally feel that there is not much youth, and people have become mature.

This is a problem of mentality, if the mood is gloomy, if you lack dreams and pursuits, you will lack vitality.

As you get older, your heart changes.

In adolescence, we just simply like a person, don't have to think too much about the problem, when entering the society, people will become more and more realistic, and less and less love, unwilling to pay, the heavier the rain, the less adolescent feeling.

Because people grow up, experience more, see more clearly, and have a lot of pressure, there will be no simple feeling of puberty at all, and there will be too many emotions mixed with it, so it is difficult to want this feeling again.

Because adolescence is not so stressful, you don't have to worry about money, and you still have a lot of time to squander and engage in romance. The older you get, the more stressful you become, and you have too many things to think about to earn money to support your family, and you don't have time for romance. So there is no feeling of falling in love.

Because society is too realistic, all kinds of pressure, then you don't have time to look back.

Adolescence is energetic, it is the flower season of life, and when you grow up, since you have grown up, you have seen many things downwards and opened up.

The older you get, the more you know about the world. This understanding makes me no longer have a narrow vision, only limited to one part of love, there are many other things in life that are worth investing energy and time, with the increase of knowledge and experience, my ability is stronger, and many things can be handled by myself. As you grow up, you don't depend on others for many things, you rely on yourself.

So the kind of interdependent relationship between lovers may not be so important to you.

When I was young, my adolescent vision was relatively small. If you like someone, you feel that your processor can only handle such a small thing, but when you grow up and fall in love, love can only be a part of life, and there are many things you have to deal with.

Because I am getting older and older, I think about working and making money every day, people's energy is limited, I am tired to death when I go to work every day, and the pressure of life is still very high, and it is a mortgage and a car loan, so when I am older, I don't have the feeling of love when I was in adolescence.

When you like someone in adolescence, you simply like it, and you don't think about so many conditional material limitations. Liu just likes it purely by instinct. So the liking at that time was the most innocent.

And the more you grow up in love, there are too many factors for everyone to consider, family conditions, material foundation, car and house, and it depends on each other's parents, so many conditions are less and less like the feeling of love in childhood.

Flowers have a red sun, and people are no longer young. The love relationship will tend to develop smoothly in the later stage.

Probably because you poured all the beautiful love reverie into the person you loved before, you no longer dare to like someone easily, but then you meet someone who is beautiful and likes, but you can't find the feeling of meeting her again. When you have seriously liked a person but not in the end, you will find it difficult for yourself to fall in love with another person, in short, the kind of love that does not die, you dare not give the second one, in the relationship, the word disappointment, is really too heavy. In the adult world, I no longer dare to give my feelings easily.

The more I grow up, the more I feel that I used to work hard for the so-called love is very distressing, and when I look back, I have paid so much and only myself in the end, so loving myself more and more has become an increasingly important thing after experiencing love. The sense of security is also given to oneself.

You drink more boiled water is also tasteless, you can adjust your own life, not necessarily only the existence of love in life, in fact, what to do for a long time, are the same, you have to adapt to each initial feeling and later realization, love is not often good, anyway, take a step to see a step.

Over time, people have changed, and everything you have experienced growing up has changed you. Just like you college students will think high school students are naïve, and high school students think junior high school students are naïve. Slowly, I feel that the most important thing in life is not love, and there are more important things than love.

In a sentence I once read, the more I grow up, the more I know what love is, and the more I experience, the more I know what I really want, not just love, a person's life is not only for love, maybe it is more materialistic, but I think this is also a sign of growth.

Because you have to start thinking about whether she will pay the monthly rent with you, how you will live after you buy her gifts every month, whether your salary will be enough for her to spend, whether you will be abandoned. In fact, to put it bluntly, that is, I dare not love. Probably because I was hurt too much when I was young.

As I get older, I find it harder and harder to feel like my heart, and yesterday I met a guy introduced by a good friend, and I didn't feel anything after meeting, but we still talked for a long time. I didn't talk much to people who didn't feel it before.,Basically, the other party doesn't speak.,I don't speak.,Now maybe I'm growing.,I feel that even if I don't like the object of the blind date.,You have to maintain basic politeness.,Try to make this meeting as less embarrassing.。 It is a strong sense of self-protection.

The more I grow up, the more open I feel, the more insecure I feel, and I am no longer afraid of anything when I was young.

Brother, you are fascinated, let me tell you what youth is, in fact, to put it bluntly, youth is the present, the reason why you feel that you have not been young is because you have not grasped the present. Just like you now, you always live in sighing, in fact, people have youth in their lives, and you now also have green socks to spring, but you use your beautiful youth to lament the lost past, so you can't experience youth. If you cheer up now and keep it forever, then your pure youth will be with you all the time, and youth will accompany you for a lifetime.

Youth is full of vitality and hope, try to fight for your future! Try to make more friends to enrich your life, you can repeat the lead filial piety if you don't study well, I think I have a hail boy in junior high school who goes over the wall every night to go out to the Internet, his grades are very bad, he is awakened after going to high school, he reads books all day long, and works very hard, we are a key high school, and his Huai manuscript grades climbed to the upper middle level, which is very good. I made up my mind, so what I decided to do would have a good result.

You have to find a goal or motivation for you to strive for him, so that you can feel youthful. Youth is not something to be waited for.

Only Gao Fushuai and Bai Fumei have youth.

Treat it jb youth and enjoy every day of your life.

Isn't life like this, love is just a giant wave of life, you have to restrain this giant wave perfectly, then even if you succeed in this life1 3 know? The people we have to face are first of all our parents and our friends, and finally our family, that is, the tacit cooperation between two people, the most difficult is with love, and then the second difficulty is family affection, the third difficulty is friends, friends get along a little better, especially love, family conflicts, three views are not correct for a long time.

Is this hard to understand? In a nutshell: we've all grown up!

Expansion is: I have experienced a lot, I have rich experience, and I have also experienced a lot of experience with the growth of age, I have been beaten by society, and I have seen the sinister nature of people's hearts, so I am no longer as simple as when I was a child, I believe that the world is true, good and beautiful, and everyone is a good person; In order to avoid meaningless harm to ourselves, we have set up a psychological protective wall in our subconscious against everyone except ourselves, including our parents;

People in adolescence are very simple and don't think too much. As long as two people are happy together. When you become an adult, you will think too much and be more realistic. Therefore, after adulthood, all the prerequisites for falling in love must be met materially. will make friends.

When you are an adolescent, you are usually still in school, and at that time, your parents are sheltering you from the wind and rain. You don't have to take on anything. Falling in love with each other is simply love, and of course you will find it beautiful.

However, after adulthood, everything needs to be done by itself. At this time, the love consideration is after starting a family in the future. What to take to feed a family, these are all pressures.

Even if you can feed your family. What do you want to do, live each day well? These are all stressful, so the relationship in adulthood is very difficult.

Loving someone is hard to say. You have to think about everything.

To put it simply, love belongs to youth, mutual respect and mutual assistance belong to adulthood, companionship belongs to the elderly, love as long as the body and mind are healthy, mutual help needs physical and mental health and material foundation, as long as the companionship is physically and mentally healthy, welcome, I wish you health.

Objectively speaking, this is a common problem for most people, there is a kind of pride in people's bones, and fresh people have fresh feelings, but this does not mean that parents can completely control their children. As for why this is so, for example, if you draw a large and a small circle on the ground, the area of the circle is small, the connotation is small, its circumference is also small, and the contact with the outside world is also small, on the contrary, the greater the connotation and knowledge, the more unknown the contact, with the rapid development of China's education industry, the quality of the next generation is generally improved, the deeper the connotation, the deeper the cognition of their own cognition, the deeper the contact with the unknown world, so the conceited may be much lower than the parents, when the cognition is different, the contradiction arises, and the solidified thinking of decades makes many low-educated parents not want to be motivated, At the same time, this kind of parents will have a sense of superiority and despise your thoughts even more because they are older than you, which will lead to disagreement and lack of knowledge, which leads to forced obedience to satisfy their vanity and so-called pride. This kind of person is not worthy of your anger for this, how to solve it, simple, you look at him from the perspective of pity, the frog at the bottom of the well does not know the outside world but still knows how it is, and this kind of parent can't even recognize himself, it is not as good as the frog at the bottom of the well, pitiful, pitiful.

Adults feel that they are very experienced in "wandering the rivers and lakes", they will start to be proud, they will feel that they are doing everything right, coupled with their own prejudices, they always think that we children are too young and don't understand anything, and they have to educate us. For example, if you don't do what you should have done today, your parents will think that you are "lazy", but we have some reasons to fail to do this well, but if you explain palely, they will only think that you are talking back, not admitting, lying, then this will be angry, from scolding you to beating you, then if you don't speak, then they will definitely admit this "fact" and say it more hard, and they will turn over old accounts, say how you are, and finally embarrass both parties, and we can only hide in the room secretly, lock the door, hug the pillow and cry, basically no one knows. So, forget it, adults are so virtuous, sometimes they lose their temper unreasonably, and sometimes they keep saying "this is good for you" They always feel that children are the same as them, their hearts are not so fragile, and they feel that there is nothing to cry about, this is because they always think about the problem from their own point of view, and never know how much your words hurt our children's hearts!

Otherwise, how can there be so many depressed people in this world! Remember, the girl who jumped off the building was forced by her parents to play the piano! But that father died for her, and I don't know what to say, and maybe we kids will never understand.