BF is sick, should I go see him?

Updated on society 2024-06-07
53 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    No, since he's your boyfriend, you should care about him in front of his parents, and if you think it's going to be embarrassing, you can say that you're best friends in front of his parents, and if you think he's going to see you, he'll look at you, so you're caring about him, and sometimes girls take the initiative, and boys will like you more, so don't be cranky.

    Wouldn't it be just right for you to take this opportunity to see your boyfriend and let them meet you, but before you go, be prepared to go, haha

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Looks like you're still a student.,Shame on you...

    Of course, it depends on how old you are, if it belongs to after graduating from high school, your worries are completely unnecessary, in fact, it's nothing, as long as you open your heart, relax, and be natural, even if his parents think that you have nothing, maybe on the contrary, they are secretly happy;

    Of course, if you are still in the early stage of high school, you need to pay attention to the way and method, because the parents of the average family do not approve of this situation at this stage, and it is a good choice to ask a few classmates or friends to go together!!

    Answer question adds: I can't see your information, I thought you were still very young at first, since you are 23 years old and still worry about something, rest assured to go, at this age, your parents will never be very opposed to such a thing (I have experience), maybe you can also take this opportunity to let his parents know you

    Your worries only come from your first time, but everything has a first time, believe me, as long as you love him

    I'm sure you'll come here again when you go to his house for the first time, so be sure to let me know when the time comes

    If you really don't feel at ease, ask a friend to come with you (it must be a woman).

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It's best not to go, it's too sudden, but you can call a few more ** greetings, and if you especially want to go, you have to bring a friend with you, so that his family won't feel strange

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Go, or he will think that you don't care about him, and his parents will also make a bad impression of you!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I think you should go and see him. This is just the right time for his parents to know you and think you are a good girl.

    Second, if you go to see your boyfriend, he will be very happy to see you and will feel that you care about her.

    Maybe the illness will be cured soon.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Go, but first hit ** to ask the best time to go and then go, don't make it too abrupt.

    Maybe you've captured the hearts of your boyfriend's parents

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    The other party's parents will think that you are a very good-hearted girl, so feel free to go.

    Before you go, call his landline, and it will basically be picked up by his family.

    Say hello to his family first, ask him about his condition, and then go.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Dizzy! Are you in a relationship with your boyfriend or with his family?

    If you're in a relationship with his family, then don't go.

    If you're in a relationship with your boyfriend, then you should go for it.

    What are you afraid of? Isn't it sooner or later? If you are dizzy, you should take the initiative to let the other party's home at least have a good impression of you.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Bringing a few more people with you to see him as classmates or colleagues will not arouse the suspicion of his parents.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What a cute girl.

    Say hello.

    Call to his house, preferably his parents get **.

    In this way, his parents also know your mind, and they are not abrupt, and he also understands your mind.

    It's getting late, so don't go out alone.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You're stupid! Of course I'm going!

    And you have to perform well.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    You're going to visit the sick.

    It's not that you're going to get engaged, what are you afraid of?

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Such men generally have an inferiority complex caused by some reason, and then reflect the people and things in the outside world through projection, and the behavioral characteristics reflected are extremely strong desire to control, suspicious, and selfish. Truth be told, marrying such a man will be a pain for the rest of your life. Originally, people are equal to each other, and only when each has their own living space and a certain degree of freedom is a healthy interpersonal relationship.

    I don't know if you know his relationship with his family and ordinary friends, and it shouldn't be very healthy. Although it is said that persuasion and divorce are not discouraged, but that refers to marriage, since you are not married yet, I advise you to think clearly. It will be endless pain for you to go ahead with such a marriage.

    Psychologically, he has a certain personality disorder.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    In a word, I can't be happy. You start arguing now, what will you do after you get married, will the quarrel be even worse? Will he get worse after marriage?

    Will he not let you be like this, not let you be like that, and make trouble outside? I think it's better to break up, such a man is not worth your life with him. Although it was good to you, however, you have said that he has been many times, why doesn't he change it?

    Break up and forget it. When will it be the end? I can't even imagine what will happen to you when you get married.

    After a breakup, the pain is only temporary, and you will slowly forget about him. After all, long pain is better than short pain, you say?

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think it's a reason to be good.

    And it's not just what you say to be really good to you.

    Insecurity is not a reason either.

    When two people are together, if they don't even have a minimum of trust. That's all.

    Don't cover up your shortcomings and lie to yourself.

    One word. Cut the Gordian knot.. If you want to make yourself really happy.

    Be strong. Protect yourself. Don't be weak.

    I wish you happiness .

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    My former boyfriends were like this, in fact, they were insecure in their own hearts, worried about this today, worried about that tomorrow, and there was no happiness together like this!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    A typical manifestation of possessiveness and lack of confidence in oneself, if the mild one is fine, the severe one makes people want to kill the girl.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's clear that your boyfriend is a very controlling person who is very afraid of losing you, so he takes steps to "protect" you regardless of your thoughts. It's true that he loves you.,But if you love too much, there will be problems.,With the current situation, I don't think it's necessary for the two of you to get along again.,Don't you feel tired?,I see you playing these I have a headache.。。 Not to mention that you are experiencing it for yourself, and it is not necessarily a bad thing to break up with him, you can go and find happiness again, and he can learn from it.

    I'm not very old, and the problem of marriage is also far away for me, but you will definitely not be happy after marriage if you continue like this, if you really love him, you can both go to a psychiatrist together and make a final effort.

    In short, I wish you happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    It can't be said that he is a man with a strong desire to control, it can only be said that he is a man with extremely low self-esteem, he is afraid of losing you, and his lack of confidence in himself has evolved into a strong control over you, he is a poor person, but you are even more pitiful to you, there is no need to give up your happiness for this kind of person, it is recommended that you go to a psychiatrist before you ask for separation, people with extreme low self-esteem are a little paranoid in their hearts, and they can do unexpected things.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    He has psychological problems, don't think he can change, if you still want to be happy, don't have anything to do with him, and draw a line with him while you still have time.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Kick him! This kind of man is not worthy of a woman!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If he was already an AIDS patient when he was with you, and he had such close contact, the chance of being infected is quite high, at least above 96%. You better go to the hospital for a check-up first, maybe you haven't been infected? Good luck!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Have you had any minor inflammations lately? For example, laryngitis, respiratory infections or nephritis?

    If there is, it is very dangerous, and there is a 3-month window period for AIDS, so it is not OK to be okay after checking it now.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    This kind of question is no joke, go check it out, there is no point in discussing the odds.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Landlord, you should go to the CDC for testing. There is little point in discussing the probability of getting sick here. For related questions, consult a doctor at the CDC and good luck.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Hey, you didn't save La. This kind of man you also do with him. People with AIDS are usually not good birds"...You don't even have a disease now.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There are three routes of transmission.

    Sexual contact, blood, mother-to-child transmission.

    Hurry up to the hospital for a check-up.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Are you still asking here? Let's go check it out.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Not a neuropathy. It's because I care about you too much, and your love scales are greatly inclined to you. You are the dominant side, he is not worried about you, he thinks you will not want him.

    At this time, you have to ask yourself whether you still love him or not, and if you do, you have to get along equally; If you don't love, let go early, so as not to lose both in the future.

    Suggestion: You can get to know her better, understand his habits, understand what he thinks, and put yourself in his shoes, so that you can have a harmonious relationship. If you don't have that heart, it means that you don't love him, and you don't love him in your heart, then you can worship him.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    He should be a good person, but judging from these performances, it seems that he is not very mature, acts like a child, and is very dependent on you, and may not have a clear development goal and direction for the future, and is always unprepared for things like buying a house and getting married. This shouldn't be considered a mental abnormality, nor should it be considered a neuropathy. If there is a problem, it may be that there is some lag in psychological development or some obstacles, and it may be better in the future.

    If this is the reason, it is useless for you to force him, it will make him overwhelmed or even collapsed, you should give him more understanding, encouragement and help.

    If he really has obvious problems in his work, career, and daily life, you can go to psychological counseling.

    Of course, you can also choose to break up.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    I can tell he loves you! But it's a little childish, right? How old is he?

    Don't push him like that...These questions can actually be frankly told to him, sometimes a man is very stupid, he will not understand what you are trying to achieve by doing this, he thinks more simply that you don't want him, kick him out, and he really wants to live with you! If you love him, just wait....This kind of thing can't be forced.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    You're not in your right mind! If you want to find a house that you can buy yourself, you can only find someone over 40 years old. Having said that, the house that the parents bought only shows that the parents have money.

    You can't rely on your parents for the rest of your life. If he is really incompetent, even if his parents give him 3 sets and 4 houses, he can't afford to support a family! Don't you understand this? Stupidity.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Oh, no, he's the reason he cares about you too much.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    It's not a neurosis, he's just wiggling to get angry and change his strategy when he sees that it doesn't work for you. If the hard one doesn't work, the soft one will come.

    Or maybe he's already a little convinced.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Discord in temperament is divided. It's a pity that there is another ...... in the worldSorrowful! --This benevolent brother is right, he may not have the heart to marry you, he just uses you to vent.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Everybody says you're neurotic and not you're bf ... Are you embarrassed to post a post like "Is BF a neuropath"? I don't feel ashamed???

    Said bf neurosis, but I didn't expect everyone to say that you were neurotic.。。 Ha ha.. Shame and shame at home.

    Think about it for yourself.

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    I don't think you're wrong, he's just another problem. He wants to use a fierce baba to calm you and make you listen to his girl in the future What's wrong with thinking about yourself in the future? I can't even afford to buy a house when I get married, why marry him. Stay where it's cool

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    You are too realistic, he is too weak and incompetent, and he is thick-skinned.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    Nothing abnormal, he made a concession like this! But you don't feel it. If it's often like this, forget it!

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    The child has a temper and is obviously psychologically immature.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    I think your boyfriend is normal, and it couldn't be more normal.

    I think it's you who has a neuropathy, and you're terminally ill. In which psychiatric hospital was it released???

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    This kind of man is not mentally abnormal, it is you who are abnormal.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    You feel ...... yourselfDiscord in temperament is divided. It's a pity that there is another ...... in the worldSorrowful!

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    You should reflect! Very incompetent woman!!

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    ,I am sick. I've never seen a woman like this.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    As long as it's what you said, it's good to be intimate, dear, husband, nickname, it's okay, pay attention to rest, and take care of it

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    Hey, hurry up if it's okay, what's the man's illness, he's so weak, and I'm still waiting for you to wash, the house is waiting for you to clean up, and the meal is waiting for you to cook, do you want me to do it?

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    Nature is the best, the more sick you are, the more you should treat him as usual, so that he can keep his mood comfortable, and it is best to joke as usual, and a good mood is also a good auxiliary medicine.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Don't worry, it'll get better soon.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    He wants you to bring up the breakup. Presumably he had the heart to break up, but he didn't want to bring it up himself. That's why I'm looking for faults and stuff like that.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    It's interesting to have a boyfriend.

    He's joking, just to get your attention.

    You should know how to be funny.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    This kind of man is separated from him, he has a bad temper. There is a tendency to domestic violence.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    I guess something didn't go my way.

    You should calm down and talk to him.

    Let's see what's going on.

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