What should I do if the boys who like me have all developed into friends with me?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Then stay friends.

    I've always believed that whoever you meet, he's the one who should be in your life. No one comes into our lives by chance. Everyone around us who interacts with us represents something.

    Maybe it will teach us something, maybe it will help us improve the situation in front of us. I think that since they appeared and eventually developed into friends, it probably means that they are teaching you what love is and what friendship is. <>

    Your starting point is because love finally becomes only friendship, everything is destined, proving that there is fate between you, and it is more appropriate to be friends, so there is no need to feel embarrassed or depressed, if two people really have fate, then love will naturally appear, so just let it develop naturally, don't be too deliberate. Thinking about it from another angle, it's actually not bad to be friends, it's a tactful way to refuse, and it won't make both people embarrassed.

    Now, you have developed into friends, so in my opinion, if you like each other, you can have frequent sexual contact, and in the process of contact, you can feel whether the two people are suitable, and if you are suitable, you can turn friendship into love, and if it is not suitable, it will stop at the friendship interface. But if you don't like the other person from the beginning, then don't be too enthusiastic about contact, keep a proper distance, and be appropriately distancing.

    In my opinion, since you don't like it in the first place, don't touch it, don't give the other person hope. Although you are friends, you should also remember that he is a person who likes you, and frequent contact may give the other person a false impression, give him hope, and mislead others. Ordinary people are soft-hearted to people who like themselves, especially girls, and they are afraid of hurting each other if they refuse harshly, and they accept and wronged themselves, so they often refuse first and then say that they can be friends.

    Friendships mixed with one-sided love should be stopped, so in my opinion, if you don't have a good feeling, then don't get close, don't touch, don't give each other hope.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It's not a very distressing thing for the boys who like you to be developed into friends, after all, there is still a pure friend relationship between you and the boys who like you, and the suggestions for you at this time are as follows:

    The first point, others like you is just someone else's idea, but the most important thing for you now is to figure out what you think, since there are so many boys who like you have become your friends, then you have to figure out which one you like the most, after all, love is a two-way street, others like you are indeed very important, but you like others is more important, what you have to do is to understand your own mind, when you know which boy you like after some careful consideration, You should continue to develop with that boy, and your current relationship is a friend relationship, and the probability of you developing that boy into a boyfriend is very high, after all, this boy also likes you, at this time you only need to take the initiative and express your good feelings to this boy in various ways, and the boy will know that you will not refuse his pursuit, and the boy will naturally take the initiative to pursue you, and you will be able to fall in love with this boy.

    The second point, of course, there are some boys around you who like you, but you don't like them, at this time you have to keep a certain distance from them, tell them that they are really good, but you can only be friends with them, decisively refuse their pursuit, so that these boys see your determination, and will not pester you too much, after all, love is reluctant, they also know this truth, and you are not only expressing your true thoughts in your heart, It's also about maintaining the precious love between you and the guy you like.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    That should be very happy, the boys who like themselves have become their good friends, the boys around you have liked you, you must think that you are not bad, as a friend will definitely have a good relationship with you, if you are wronged, they will definitely not be convinced, for you to stand out, there is such a group of boy friends how happy it should be, as a girl I envy.

    In the past, when I was in high school, every time I saw a group of handsome guys eating with a beautiful woman, I was like that person, I could eat together, and I could see handsome guys, but it was possible to pay attention to my eating image, then I couldn't eat enough, but if I was a cheerful and outgoing girl, I could eat to my heart's content, and I could mingle with handsome guys, and I needed my own charm. It takes certain qualities to be a brother with a boy, if you are beautiful, maybe the boy will simply think that you are beautiful, but not attractive and characteristic enough, if he can become a good brother with you, he must think that you are a friend enough and righteous enough, not like other little girls, so you are highly recognized.

    Someone said this before, you are very beautiful, we may become boyfriend and girlfriend, but if you are good enough, I am reluctant to develop you into a boyfriend and girlfriend, because friends are for life, but once you become a boyfriend and girlfriend, there will be a lot of rights and wrongs in the relationship, and your relationship may deteriorate, so now many people are unwilling to turn their good friends for many years into their boyfriends or girlfriends, from friends to boyfriends and girlfriends may be simple, but from boyfriends and girlfriends to good friends, That's going to be difficult.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you don't like guys who like you, it's no problem to become friends. If you like one of them, then develop into lovers.

    In general, it is normal for a guy you don't like to develop into friends when they like you. If you reduce people to the ranks of strangers just because they like you, this is also a bit too impersonal. If you really don't like it, you can explain it and tell them that you can be friends, so that you can avoid embarrassment.

    However, even if some girls like it, they don't want to be together right away, they always want to have a process, and then let both parties understand it, so that at least they can be more sure of their own minds, and they can also see whether he and you are suitable or not. It's also a good choice to get to know and feel together. <>

    I just habitually take the initiative to develop those boys who like me into friends, because they are not my favorite type, or not my cup of tea at all, but they are very good to me, although I don't want to accept it, but sometimes it is always what I need. There are a lot of boys who chase themselves, and they have been turned into friends by themselves, because there is no desire to develop into lovers, and after a long time, you will find that you don't like what you like, and what you like but don't like you, a very magical cycle, but we still insist on finding the person we like. Love seems to be a very sacred force, he makes two people from strangers to love, the process is very beautiful, but unfortunately I haven't met it myself.

    Therefore, I want to wait quietly for my love, and those who naturally like me can only develop into friends.

    If you like each other, take your time, and if you don't like the person who likes you, just go with the flow.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Then you're very good.,It's okay.,It's estimated that there are a lot of boys who like you.,Although it's a little sad to become friends in the end.,After all, I still need to find a boyfriend.,It's all friends.,Won't you always be a single dog in the future.。

    However, if you think about it from another angle, it will be much better. Originally, someone pursued you, and if you liked him, he would definitely agree, so there was no need to develop into friends. Since you treat him as a friend, it means that you don't like him.

    Generally speaking, it's really an annoying thing to be chased by people you don't like, which is good, and there won't be such a thing after becoming a friend, how trouble-free and happy.

    Another point, if the boy finally becomes your friend, it means that he likes what you like is not thorough enough, who wants the girl they like to be friends with themselves all the time, and they still have to confess in the end. So a guy who is willing to be friends with you is not suitable to be a boyfriend.

    Love is a thing that can't be forced, sometimes it really depends on fate. If it's not your own, you won't be happy even if you get it, so it's better to be friends, so you can go a little longer.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Summary. I've had it, but I chose to ignore him because he didn't like me, so I didn't think about him. There are so many people in the world, there are many good people, find someone who likes each other.

    Does he know you like him? If you know, you have to pay attention to his personality problems.

    Know. I've had it, but I chose to ignore him because he didn't like me, so I didn't think about him. There are so many people in the world, there are many good people, find someone who likes each other.

    It's that this boy I have a good impression of has recently fallen in love with my good friend, and they are very close, this boy used to have a very good attitude towards me, and now he likes my friend, and his attitude towards me is very perfunctory.

    This friend of mine also knows that I like this guy.

    Forget it. Stay away from this boy.

    We are classmates in the same class, I sit in front of him, I want to draw a line with this boy now, but it's not like an enemy, maybe it will be a little awkward to meet, is it okay to do this.

    Yes, be an ordinary friend.

    Be open-minded and don't pay too much attention to it.

    It's not that it's not much, and it can't be played like before.,After all, what he likes is my friend, I can't say it's not awkward at all.,Should you let it go slowly.,So it's easy to be an ordinary friend.。

    Uh-huh. That's it.

    Okay, I see, thanks.

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