How humble is loving someone?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-03
6 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    In our lives, we will always meet someone we love deeply, unable to extricate ourselves, and all of them are in our heads. When you love someone, the whole of your life seems to revolve around him, the center of your life, and the driving force of your daily life.

    When we fall in love with someone, we will gradually lower our bottom line, wholeheartedly for each other, for the sake of the object, for the other party, for the other party, can be said to be humble, so humble that it is obviously their own fault that they have been wronged, so humble that they will think repeatedly in their hearts because of each other's expression or a word, for fear of making the other party angry, humble enough to think about how to talk to each other or what kind of way to make him happy every day, Humble to the point that he hasn't eaten for a day, but what he cares about is whether the other party has eaten or what he wants to eat, so humble that he forgets his favorite tastes, life preferences, and slowly regards his habits and likes as his own, so humble that he is willing to do everything for him, and so humble that he doesn't dare to make a big noise despite his ambiguity with others, for fear of losing the other party, and humbly is endlessly good to him.

    When we love someone deeply, we will unconsciously think about each other, no matter what we do, our minds are full of each other, no matter what we do, we will think of each other, and think about each other to the greatest extent. Humble love is because you are afraid and don't want to lose each other, and the humble appearance is the deep sinking of love, the more humble you are, the more you can't let go.

    The degree of humility of loving someone will make people unimaginable, it will make you feel hateful, abandon your original self, and lose your original self if you are worn out by feelings, which will make the other party look down on you more and more, so that you don't take it to heart. Humble love can never keep love, we can't humble to love, be yourself.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    It will make you lose all your principles, and those you like and you hate will change because of him. What you hold on to and what you keep will no longer exist. Those so-called dignity will also be abandoned by you.

    Because of deep love, so humble. I met him in college, maybe it's fate, he received me on the first day I entered the school, and then we joined the same association, and since then I have started my abusive relationship with him. Perhaps we will never forget how proud I once loved him so humbly.

    It was I who chased him, because it was he who helped me when I was in a strange place, when I was alone, and it was he who chatted with me and got me through that time, so I fell in love with him. I'm a person who takes action when I love, and then we are together as a matter of course. In the beginning, we were very happy, and I felt very happy every minute and every second of being with him.

    But what changed then? It's because of his hiding, every time we go on a date, the place is not in the dark stadium is the grove, and every vacation is I offer to play and then ask him out. Every time he met an acquaintance, he would shake off my hand and stay away from me.

    My ideal love shouldn't be like this. The love I want is above board rather than hiding, and the love I want should be about each other rather than unilaterally giving. Every time I asked him out, I promised to do well at first, but as soon as his friend asked him out, he would leave me to accompany his friend, and he didn't even tell me.

    I got drunk when I passed by for these things, but he was still indifferent. I don't like to drink, but I'm crazy about it. I didn't like smoking boys, but because he put up with it.

    Because I love him, so he hides our relationship, I can only grit my teeth to cover it for him, because I love him, so even if he is hot and cold to me, I still die for him. Because I love him, I trample on my dignity again and again. Later, I was tired, tired of crying, drunk, tired of making trouble, and broke up, but I still couldn't help but care about him and worry about him.

    Love can really make people humble.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    You can't think of that level, as long as you love deeply, or because your love is deep love, you will care more about the person you love in your heart, and spare no effort to give him all your love, and let yourself fall into the long river of feelings that you can't extricate yourself from without realizing it.

    I was in college, and I had a classmate in the same class, yes, and then he became my boyfriend, and we were fine, but I cared about him, or loved him to a strange degree, and I knew it wasn't right, but I was still worried that someone would take him away from me, because I was afraid of the feeling of being dumped. I've seen a lot of small stories of the same sex becoming true love, and I also believe that there is true love between the same sex, although it is difficult for me to understand, but this is the case, after I loved him for more than half a year, I began to have a terrible idea in my mind, that is, my boyfriend will not be bent, I admit, my boyfriend is a person with a good character, this is in my opinion, but there are only a few or one or two that he likes or likes him, and the likes here are very real likes between friends of the same sex. I'm starting to care about my boyfriend so much that when his roommate leans on his shoulder, I feel oh my God!

    Is there an indescribable relationship between them, so we quarreled, cold war, I said to break up, he was really helpless to me (because I said break up several times), and then he compromised and said okay. My tears flowed down, I was such a strong person, downstairs in the dormitory, I began to pray for my boyfriend not to agree, of course it's weird, I don't know how to say it, anyway, when you fall in love with someone you will know a lot of things, and you will do a lot of strange things.

    Perhaps, that is love, it can make you humble, but it also makes you proud, and this is the wonderful thing about love.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I've never been in a relationship, but I don't want to humble myself to the point of being in the dust just to love someone. Wasn't "The First Half of My Life" quite popular a while ago, and how humble are those in it.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In love, I am most afraid that one person will love another person to the dust, and you will be buried in the soil, how can people see your goodness?

    No matter how smart and capable a person is, there will be times when he loses himself in love, maybe this is also one of the magic of love, which makes countless men and women crazy and cry for it.

    Love is equal, the most taboo party has no bottom line of humility and price drop, the following three behaviors see if you are guilty?

    I forget which movie clip it is, Zhang Jiahui plays a police officer.

    His wife would give him no less than 50 ** every day, track all the bits and pieces of his life, and even calculate how many meters he would have to walk home, cross a few traffic lights, and calculate the time when he should get home. In the end, this love made him feel terrible and breathless. It's a desire to control, an insecure fear of losing.

    There is no information that you can't see, there is no ** that you can't receive, only people who don't want to reply, you said 200 "Are you there?" In the end, what was exchanged for a bleak horizontal line in the other party's circle of friends.

    Don't make yourself too cheap, don't make this affection seem too cheap, we are also other people's goddesses Male gods, don't fight anymore if you can't get through, don't chase after those who don't reply.

    Really, you believe me, those things, the other party has seen.

    Second, there is no bottom line to pay, regardless of whether you have a return or not.

    Treat the other party as the whole of his life, everything is for him, I can't wait to dig out my heart and lungs, I can't wait to give my life to the other party, as long as the other party is good, let me do anything, always pay silently without asking for anything in return, even if I make a big sacrifice and can't get the other party's recognition or even blame, I still don't care about myself.

    Even if there is no response to what you love, even if you don't return on your efforts, you lower your bottom line for the other party again and again, a typical loss of self, a typical loss of self-love.

    If you don't even love yourself anymore, who will love you? You will only make yourself very cheap, and you will push the other party farther and farther away.

    3. Crying and crying when you break up, begging the other party to come back and not leave.

    Once upon a time, there was a lovelorn girl who was bent on dying to jump into the river, but the father who was not able to pass through the water out of instinct pierced the scum to save his daughter, and then the child was rescued and the father died.

    When a person leaves you, don't make a fuss about crying and screaming without a book, freezing three feet is not a day's cold, and leaving is a slow decision. If you don't realize it in the early stage of the deterioration of this relationship, it is like a piece of bread that has been overgrown with mold, you have to throw it away and take a bite, and you will suffer in the end.

    Every relationship has a shelf life, and the deadline is over, and life is broken.

    Don't cry and fall in love, if you can't do it, you will stride away, and when you leave, you will also leave a good back, so that when the other party recalls you, you are all smiling.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    is humble enough to lick a dog, trying to please each other in every possible way.

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