How to care for a loved one who has cancer?

My dad was a cancer.

Patient, it's been two years now, and he's been recovering well! So I still have a lot of experience in this area! In my opinion, if you want to really care about a cancer patient, you must not always put the word cancer on your lips, and you don't need to estimate him, just treat him as a healthy person, and don't have to treat him differently, so that he will not have such a big burden in his heart.

But in terms of diet, you must be reasonable, don't eat pickled food, eat more nutritious food! It helped him a lot in his recovery!

The wife of the manager of our company had lung cancer, the manager for her soul, no intention to work, resulting in the company's performance continued to decline, criticized by the boss, we saw that he had something on his mind, so he asked him to drink a table, he poured wine into his mouth, after a while, he drank all over the face red, all said that he spit the truth after drinking, he drank tears, while telling about his wife, we were also moved, especially sympathetic to him, the next day together to buy a flower basket to see his wife, with windmills, jokes to amuse her, she laughed, full of laughter, very sunny, not like a patient.

Be sure to spread some positive content to him.

We need to comfort her spiritually, only by letting him believe in himself, and there is hope, only then can he have a chance to live. And you can find a little bit of this ** on the Internet to show him, which is also a good concern.

When a person knows that there is not much left in their life, all the comfort is of no avail, and the only thing we can do is not to treat the other person as a sick person, and to give the other person the right to maintain a normal life.

You have time to see each other more often, so that they don't feel lonely when they are dying.

I think the language is pale at this time, so don't try to persuade them to do anything, you can have time to spend more time with them, such as taking them to play ball or fishing, etc., so that the new person with cancer can relax and spend the best time in his life.

I think that if it is a relative who has cancer, you should do everything you can to ask him to the hospital to find a doctor, give him physical nutrition, do your best, take care of him in life, buy him some nutritional supplements, I think caring for a person should be cared for from the heart and action. Regardless of the final result, at least I have done my best.

Actually, I think if we want to care for and greet a loved one who has cancer, then when we talk to them again, we should say something that they like more, which can make them happy, which is a very good greeting, because their mood is very important to them at this time.

First of all, you can encourage him to face life bravely and actively cooperate with the doctor**;

The second is to tell the patient that the illness is not terrible, and that it is necessary to have a good attitude to face and overcome the disease, and everything will be fine if the mentality is good;

In the end, I tried my best to help him, such as contacting some good hospitals, helping him make a reasonable plan, and accompanying him more.

Cancer is a very terrible disease, as a relative of the patient, I must comfort the patient mentally, let him know that the disease is not so terrible, and can tell him some stories of victory in the fight against cancer that you know, just like my uncle, who was diagnosed with cancer more than 20 years ago, and his hair fell out from chemotherapy, and his voice was speechless. Later, after **, the maintenance was relatively good, and he miraculously survived until now, and his health is still very good. I think the love of my family is a miracle.

It is very sad for a loved one to have cancer. At this time, he is not only suffering from illness physically, but also has mixed feelings in his heart, and will be very desperate, we must take care of him patiently, enlighten him as much as possible, let him be as unhappy as possible, try to meet his wishes, and let him have no regrets.

When a person has cancer, I believe that the mood must be unbearable, because cancer is incurable. Having such an illness also means that you don't have long to live. So how do we comfort such people?

So what we can do is to be by his side more, let him spend the rest of his days happily, and at the same time let him not think crankily and not have too much pressure. This may prolong its lifespan, and he will be happier on the last part of the road.

Don't talk to him about the condition, care more about how to go, give him psychological hints, no matter what, let him insist, don't be too pessimistic. Talk to him more about interesting things in life, so that he is hopeful about life and does not give up any chance to live.

Of course, it's about talking about happy topics, topics that can lift the patient's spirits. It is to comfort them, tell them that your illness is not very serious, you want to open a little, take care of yourself, eat and drink well, and your children and grandchildren will have their own children and grandchildren, so you don't have to think too much.

Then praise his family, his family, see how good your children are, anyway, just try to divert their attention, don't worry too much about their condition.

Just like my grandfather, who had cancer a few years ago, the whole family knew that he was the only one who didn't know, and then my brother was also very young, and the old man liked children more, so he was very happy to see my brother.

At that time, grandpa and grandma lived in the village, grandpa was very energetic, he always thought that he had a bad stomach on his birthday, because he knew that during his illness, it was his birthday, and our family took him to the hotel to celebrate his birthday, in fact, it was also the last birthday.

But he didn't know, when we got to the county seat, we asked my younger brother to go over to play with my grandfather, and then the family said how cute the child was, your old man is blessed, the grandchildren and grandchildren are all older, and said that my father will enjoy happiness in the future.

Anyway, if it's like this, there is no other reason and purpose, just to make the old man happy. Let him not think about anything, not have a psychological burden, and be optimistic.

So, to greet a sick person is to say something that cares about them, even if it's a white lie, it's not an exaggeration on that occasion.

As a family member of a patient, it may be considered beneficial to hide the patient's condition from them and avoid letting them hear bad news. However, patients undergo a lot of laboratory tests when they are not feeling well, which will naturally give them a premonition of their condition. When family members hide their illness from patients, they will feel worried, suspicious, depressed, helpless, and even resentful, and feel cheated.

On the other hand, if cancer patients are not informed of the true diagnosis, they cannot make some necessary decisions for their lives and **. Therefore, family members should tell the patients the true situation, so that not only will they not harm the patients, but will enable them to face the reality and face the disease calmly.

Cancer patients usually go through several different psychological periods when facing a cancer diagnosis: the initial reaction period, the irritability period, and the adaptation period. They will have different emotional responses at different times.

As a family member, you should not feel "wronged" when venting your emotions in the face of the patient, and you should be as considerate as possible with the patient. While keeping sensitive to the patient's emotions, family members should also cope with their own emotional changes, and can communicate more with other healthy people to relieve their bad emotions.

At the same time of psychological attention, family members should also learn more about cancer and help patients correctly understand the treatability of cancer. From the perspective of the development of modern medical science and technology, many cancers are no longer terminal, and most cancer patients can survive completely or for a long time as long as they are diagnosed early and get a good comprehensive treatment. Text: Wang Huilin (Wang Huilin).

We should recognise that cancer is a chronic disease, and if there is no fear in the people around us, the patient will naturally reduce the fear. The most important thing is to make the patient feel warm, live in warmth, and have the care of relatives and friends.

How do I visit a cancer patient? When a person is seriously ill, it is inevitable to be depressed, and at this time, the support and encouragement of family members is very important. Create a warm and trusting environment that encourages patients to express their nervousness and confusion rather than deliberately suppressing their feelings.

If the patient has a knot in the past, ask the patient to open the knot, ask the patient to forgive others who have hurt him or her in the past, and actively express his or her apologies for others who have hurt him in the past. It is necessary to use practical actions to tell the patient about his unconditional love for her.

Specifically, there are two types of comforting words to say:

1. If he doesn't know that he has cancer, say what he should pay attention to, such as supplementing nutrition and maintaining it slowly, so that he can recuperate with peace of mind.

Second, if he already knows that he has cancer, you can communicate with him normally, let him treat himself as a normal person, you must treat him as a normal person, establish a correct point of view, and maintain a good attitude, which is very important for cancer. In addition, you can cite some anti-cancer stars (i.e., patients who have cancer, but have been clinical**) to set an example for him.

Wishing your relatives or family or friends or colleagues a speedy **!! Happy forever!!

See if he knows that he has cancer, if not, then say that he usually pays attention to supplementing nutrition or something, and slowly maintains it, so that he can recuperate with peace of mind.

If he already knows that he has cancer, then you can communicate with him normally, let him treat himself as a normal person, you have to treat him as a normal person, cancer is very painful, let him calm down and reduce the pain.

My grandfather's stomach cancer, my second uncle's mother's brain cancer, and my uncle's stomach cancer were all at an advanced stage when they were discovered. Alas! I hope that everyone in the world can have a good body, and the pain of cancer patients is not something that people can imagine.

Don't treat him as a patient, communicate with him with a normal attitude, try to talk about some non-sick and happy topics, and pull him into a normal person's state of mind, which is conducive to the patient's physical and mental openness. If the patient is like this for a long time, it is a good medicine. Finally, I wish your friend a cancer-free life.

You can tell him (her) that cancer is not so terrible, there are many people who have cancer, but they still survive, for example, Li Xuejian has suffered from nasopharyngeal cancer for 11 years, and Luo Jiaying has also suffered from liver cancer for 7 years, but you see that they are alive and well now, you should not be overly afraid of cancer, you must correct it"Cancer must be **", because the current data shows that one-third of patients are scared to death, one-third are cured, and only one-third are really dying of disease. So let him or her not be overly afraid. Now there are three thirds of cancer:

One third of cancers can be prevented, one third of cancers can be a**, and one third of cancers can be passed**, improving quality of life and even prolonging life. You can encourage him (she) as long as he (she) has a good attitude, chooses the right way, and develops reasonable eating habits, there is a great possibility**, and there is a great possibility to achieve the requirements of prolonging life, and finally, I wish him (her) a speed**.

It is a good thing to comfort and encourage patients, you can tell some successful examples, today's medical level is so developed, and it is still very promising to have a positive attitude.

When greeting the patient, you can say more greetings, comfort, and encouragement, which can make the patient more comfortable and keep the patient happy. Specifically, you can say the following:

1. Say some words of greeting.

When you first go to see a patient, you should say some greetings, and when you enter the door, you can say: I heard that you are sick, come and see how you are doing, do you feel better now?

2. You can say something comforting.

Comforting the patient can make the patient feel better, and never make it worse for the patient. You can comfort the patient, recuperate, and remember the doctor's instructions, so that the disease will get better quickly.

3. You can say something encouraging.

The most worrying thing for sick people is that it will affect their work and life, and they should encourage each other at this time. Tell the other party that only with good health can you have a good life and good energy to work, so the most important thing at the moment is to take care of your body.

4. Tell me something new outdoors

Patients will inevitably be in a bad mood when they are in the ward for a long time, so you can share some new things outdoors for patients to listen to, and share some recent news to keep patients happy.

5. Be tactful in tone.

When communicating with patients, be sure to pay attention to your tone and do not mention things that make them sensitive, so that you can have a better conversation.

When the countdown of life has appeared in front of me, I will also choose to live my day wonderfully. First, the face of illness, physical pain and other malfunctions will. Let us suffer.

When cancer does not negate our dreams. Many times we are frustrated. Panic is the fear of cancer and uncertainty about the future.

But when we recognize cancer, we learn to look at it rationally and accept it. Nothing seems to be so scary anymore. Like many patients, the author felt helpless in the early stages of his diagnosis.

Scared, but he quickly adjusted himself and decided to plunge into this ongoing battle. In **, she always keeps her sanity and the doctor's **suitable plan for herself**, and faces it positively, in fact, cancer is not terrible, what is terrible is that we lose confidence because of it, no matter what? Remember, we can still chase our dreams as we did before.

Second. In the face of life, even if we are sick, we must continue to live, and maybe we can continue to live the way we used to live. Or maybe you have to give up the past for the sake of illness and make a huge change in your existing lifestyle.

The author of the book was once a professional elite. But since his diagnosis, he has learned to let go, put down his work, let go of his professional dreams, and return to life, a dish of firewood, rice, oil and salt can become a topic that he talks about. It is true that illness will break the original trajectory of our lives, but no matter what, life will continue to live with its resentment and the injustice of fate.

It's better to adjust your mood and live a happy life. Thirdly, in the face of the family, in the face of cancer, we have no way to get the family out of the fear of losing us and cannot take it away, they face cancer, the feeling of helplessness but we can do something for them, just like this author, in the last four years of her life, she calmly discussed with her husband, and the words of the second wife, he asked his brothers and sisters to take care of his parents. And prepare for the child's further education.

As a wife, daughter and mother, the author did not forget her duty, and she chose to face it with a smile. Faced with the loss of his own family after death, he gave them enough thought. Fourth.

In the face of death, in the face of pure death, the author said that I longed for death to make me full of what I lacked in this life. Everyone's life will end, and for most cancer patients, they just know in advance how their life will end. Fear or not, it's okay to see it as a happy ending.