What s the most chilling thing the other person can say to you when you re in a relationship?

Who were you talking to me at the time, but also from your dorm?

I was in an online relationship with him.,I first met by chance through a software.,At that time, I was chatting with my roommate when I was idle and had nothing to do.,After being together, I asked this question.,It makes me really angry and chilling.,Don't stay if it's not suitable.。

The most chilling words should be that he questions your character, thinks that you are not a good person, and there are many deficiencies in character. There are many small shortcomings in life, and what you say is still acceptable, because people can't be perfect, but when it comes to quality, it's a little hurtful.

When I fell in love with you, it was the happiest moment of my life! But when I picked up your phone and found that the chat history between me and you was all emptied by you, leaving only one message from another girl, I didn't suspect you until you said, let's be separated for a while, give you a year! At that time, this sentence was heart-wrenching!

I used to talk to a boyfriend, his family is not very good, and he didn't work his own, and slowly I found out that he still wants to get more money from me, and when I reject him, he will still say that the two of them still need to worry so much together? But every time it was his turn, he would be very stingy, so what he did made me feel cold, and his words were very sad.

When I fell in love, my boyfriend had no money, but he had to save money to get married, I saved money and cut back on food and clothing, but my boyfriend always spent money and spends money when he is with his friend, I feel very aggrieved, and later when I quarreled with him, he said that I "know money" This sentence really made me chill at the time! Sad!

Although happiness is the main thing in love, supplemented by romance, sometimes the other party's words will really chill your heart!

I remember when I first met my boyfriend, she took care of me, which was good, but after getting along for a while, his attitude towards me changed, and at the beginning he said that I was fat and cute, but one day he actually told me to let me lose **, fat and pig are right, at that time, I felt that this sentence suddenly pierced my heart, and the pain was so bad that I couldn't breathe, and he began to dislike me.

Since then, our relationship has become weaker and weaker, and the distance has become farther and farther away, and finally we broke up.

The most chilling thing my ex-boyfriend said to me was, "You did it all of your own free will." I was speechless, the feelings were mutual, he actually said such irresponsible words, a sentence that I voluntarily, made my heart cold, such words are like a time bomb and then often said, and slowly broke up.

It was a relief for me, and I have no regrets.

In fact, it is very happy and beautiful in the process of falling in love, but there are some indifferent words that will make you particularly sad.

I made a boyfriend when I was in college, I was particularly handsome and attractive, the two of them got along very sweetly, and the relationship was very good, and I remembered a boyfriend who got along for more than a year, saying that I had grown fat and ugly recently, and I didn't like me more and more, such a sentence made me very sad, and very cold, and I have been with you for more than a year, I have paid my youth and my own love, but in the end I said such things, and I felt particularly depressed in my heart.

Since my boyfriend often said this, I slowly got tired of him, and then we broke up with some conflicts.

In Lian Chong Duan shouting love, I think the most hurtful words are: "If you think so, I can't help it." I didn't say that. Most couples in love, at the beginning, are like glue, however, after a long time, there will always be some small frictions.

In love, the sentence that impressed me the most was: "If you think so, I can't help it." At that moment, all the emotions came to my heart, I felt discouraged, and suddenly I felt that everything in the past was not worth it.

No matter how sweet and warm the past was, it can't compare to the impact of that moment. You will find that the problem has not been resolved, but your feelings are starting to subside.

Therefore, I think that whether it is a couple or a couple, if there is a problem, it should be communicated in a timely manner. Negative resistance and bad language are not the answer. Of course, some people will say, how can you control anger when it comes up?

I would say that anger does not solve the problem. Sometimes a man and a woman quarrel doesn't really solve the problem, attitude is everything.

Women are sensual, and men are not completely rational in front of the women they love. As long as you still love each other, no matter how angry you are, as long as you think about the consequences, there is nothing you can't bear. If you can't stand it, as a man, you'd better explain simply, a woman who is still angry at the time will understand later how much you value her.

As I said, women sometimes don't care about time itself, but about how they treat themselves after an argument. It was fate that two people could come together. If this is not a matter of principle and irreconcilability, do not be hostile to each other.

No matter how angry you are, you should leave three points of leeway.

This is not a sign of weakness, but leaves room for your future. Sometimes what you say when you're angry really hurts. People may remember it for years or even longer, and some will even go their separate ways.

Therefore, for yourself and others, it is best to think about three seconds before exiting the wild and not leave yourself with regrets.

You're so old, you won't go to the doctor by yourself? This sentence is very hurtful, because when one party is sick, they all hope that the other party will accompany them to see a doctor. I didn't say it, I'm not such an indifferent and ruthless girl.

I think the most hurtful sentence in Nian Han's love should be to break up, because this sentence contains a lot of meanings, and it can also make a person feel that you don't love him, and it will cause a great blow to a person Huiyin, I have said this.

In love, I think the most hurtful sentence of the collapse of the sedan chair is that you are not as good as others. I've said this too, because when the sail stall is angry, the mood is not empty.

I think the cruelest sentence is, let's break up, our character is not suitable. I didn't say that.

1.You're so good, but I don't deserve to be so good.

The most scummy time for a man is to say that you are excellent when they break up, but I don't deserve to be so good with you. Men who say such things have never thought about it, because they have made it up for this reason. Hold you up and pretend you're hurt.

If you don't think you deserve it in the first place, then why do you take the initiative to pursue it without points in your heart? Now that you are obviously in love with each other, you still have to pretend to be sanctimonious and say things that I am not worthy. If you don't like it, please admit it generously, such a reason, it is better to cut two people in two.

It's like when I like you, I don't need anyone to break up now, and I don't need any reason. This can also make a woman feel that she has loved after all, rather than hurting a person, and her heart has been tormented. He said this to make up his mind to break up, and it also gave people the feeling that he had loved himself, and then the woman didn't know how to cherish such a man is the most scumbag.

He doesn't even have the bravery and responsibility of a man, he doesn't deserve to be called a man. If you don't have a 1/10,000 plan, don't start and wait until the end to hurt the girl.

2.It's my own business, and I don't have to worry about you.

People who like you are willing to ask about your affairs, otherwise no one wants to meddle in your affairs. Women want to know what you're going through because they're worried that you care about you, and they're willing to help you to the best of their ability. Just like your lover, who wants to care if he doesn't really love you.

Maybe today's unsatisfactory work will make you a little upset, and at this time, women will be a little impatient when they ask you. Then without hesitation, he blurted out a sentence, can you please not meddle in my business. You think it's just a casual remark, but in other people's hearts, all her enthusiasm has been extinguished.

Over time, even if I love you again, I don't want to ask you more. This is the man himself who does not know how to cherish, and finally makes the woman save enough and leave disappointed.

3.How did I know you?

Sometimes when two people quarrel and quarrel, they can't talk about it, sometimes it's really unintentional, but a sentence can make the fact that it can be reversed out of control. Because I know you, this sentence is a denial of your whole person, a denial of your own eyes, and a negation of all the love between the two of you. It's as if the two of you met and got to know each other, it's like a joke, because I met you, and what I am doing now.

Everyone knows that men are more impulsive, and the words they say in a hurry are often not just brains, just trying to be quick for a while, which makes women even more hurt. Once a woman has decided to leave, she will not look back.

When a man is in love, he says that he has less and less feelings for himself and is unhappy with him, which will make him even more chilling, even more chilling than saying that he broke up.

I don't feel anything about you anymore. You may still be in love when you break up, but if you don't feel it, it's really impossible, and you won't love you anymore.

Whatever, it's okay, uh-huh, such perfunctory words are unbearable.

A man saying "I have never loved you" is more chilling than "breaking up", your efforts are only a false feeling, and all the good memories he gives you are just a lie.

When you are in love, if a man says that it is about your, this kind of talk is more chilling than breaking up.