Why do so many people just lack perseverance and perseverance?

In my opinion, people are inert, perseverance is really not easy, long-term insistence on one thing, will also exhaust energy, after all, everyone's energy is limited. However, in my opinion, those who didn't make it to the end were dispensable to him because they didn't pay attention to that matter, so even if he gave up, he wouldn't lose anything! If that event is crucial to him, I'm sure he'll take all the perseverance to get the hang out!

I feel that it may be that they are not confident, they don't believe in their own strength, and they always feel that they can't do well.

In addition, some people are unwilling to endure hardships, and if they want to succeed in anything, they have to go through an ordeal, and some people are psychologically and physically unbearable, so they can't persevere to the end.

In real life, there are indeed many people who lack perseverance and perseverance, and I think it is mainly because of the following factors:

1. I have no direction, and when I am doing something, I feel very lost, but I don't know what kind of work I should do.

2. My perseverance is not firm enough, when I decide to do something, many people are enthusiastic for three minutes, so it will also cause a lack of perseverance and persistence.

Persistence is easy to say, but the most boring thing is that when you insist, you know that the goal is there, but the road to climb this step by step is very difficult, to make an analogy, that is, you know that the mountain peak is 6000 meters, and you have to climb this 6000 meters It is very difficult to work hard step by step, which is why many people give up halfway. Many things don't need to fight for talent at all, that is, sweat and hard work, but only a small group of people are really successful. This part of the people is the part of the people who really have perseverance or intelligence.

There are two reasons.

The first point: most of them have been pampered since childhood, and they have always been well protected by their families, and they have not suffered much, and they have not had much experience facing difficulties. When a lot of things come suddenly, it is inevitable to feel scared and at a loss.

The second point: they don't have a clear goal. Without a goal, there is no direction, there is no motivation, and every day is a mess because there is nothing that can make them persist in working hard to achieve it.

Because the process of perseverance is very hard, and at the same time, there is a lack of perseverance since childhood. Everything is a three-minute heat. Ambition at the whim, lack of stamina when the blood recedes.

Pressure makes it difficult for people to control themselves, there are actually a lot of reasons when doing a thing, pressure will hinder us from persisting in completing a thing to a large extent, so to cultivate perseverance, we must throw the "pressure" out of the clouds, so people who can hold on and have strong perseverance are often a small number of people, in fact, I like to do things alone, when a person is doing a thing, the less distractions, the stronger the motivation, the more fun at different stages, the stronger his perseverance, the longer he persists.

Because it's really hard to persevere, and the process is quite painful, especially when you can't see a little hope, what do you say to rely on to persevere? Let's not talk about those more ambitious goals, just take ** as an example, it's really not easy, if you don't have a strong enough belief, it is estimated that becoming thin will have nothing to do with you.

Regardless of any circle, it has a 28 law, someone must be at the bottom, if everyone has perseverance and persistence, then the world will become uncontested, take today's society, 20 percent of the people, control 80 percent of the money, this group of people is the strongest in the crowd, it is because of this can reflect their sense of difference and nobility, they have competitiveness.

In a school, there are thousands of students, and on the surface everyone is a student, but if there are two or three hundred good students with competitiveness, it is very good, if they are all the same, it means that the school has no room for improvement.

This is a very normal phenomenon, if everyone has perseverance and perseverance, then everyone will become an accomplished person. I think there are many reasons why people lack perseverance and persistence, and the environment they are in, their current mentality has a lot to do with it, I think the biggest reason is that there is no pressure, it is caused by being in a very comfortable environment, when you have a lot of pressure, pressure pushes you to a dead end, you will be Jedi**.

In life, the main reason why many people lack perseverance and perseverance is because of their parents' love for them.

I especially don't approve of the kind of pampering that Chinese parents have for their children, thinking that everything must pave the way for their children, and I don't want their children to suffer hardships, I understand the feelings of every parent very well, but I think that children who do not experience setbacks will not grow up.

It is this long-term development of educational concepts that leads many young people to think that they have to rely on their parents for everything, and lack perseverance and persistence.

It is very difficult to insist on doing one thing, even if it is a trivial thing, one is to do one thing repeatedly, which makes people become numb and unwilling to do it; The second is that there is no hope, such as**, everyone knows that reasonable exercise can**, but when you persist for a few months, you find that there is no effect, you have no motivation to persevere.

Doing a thing is easier said than done, an ordinary habit takes 21 days, and now many people can only hold on to two or three days, which is three minutes of heat, the most important thing is that they have no interests and hobbies, they don't like a certain thing, so they can rarely stick to it, plus the love of parents for their children in the society is more spoiled, resulting in a lack of exercise for children.

People are good and bad work to seek advantages and avoid disadvantages, perseverance and persistence need perseverance, and the most lacking thing for ordinary people is this kind of thing, because it is too hard, and there is no effect in a short time, once frustrated, it is easy to give up, in fact, most people are like this, so successful talents are the minority.

It is very difficult to do something with long-term persistence, because human beings are born with inertia, and inertia is not something that you can overcome by talking about it, which requires your strong heart to overcome it, and constantly challenge yourself to achieve the most perfect state, so a person who can insist on doing the same thing every day must be a very powerful person!

There is a saying: "Love Wu and Wu and Wu!" No matter what you do, you need to like it and be interested!

If you do something you don't like or are not interested in, you will definitely not have much motivation and even disgust. How much motivation and perseverance do you say you will have to do something you don't like? Will you be able to hold on?

After graduating from university, when we come out of society to look for a job, many times we are looking for a job that we don't like, but to support ourselves first for employment.

I think you have a lot of perseverance to do something, and in addition to liking it and being interested in it, you have to do it as your own thing.

Because more and more people have not endured much hardship since childhood, when they grow up, when they deal with problems, they will find that many things cannot be faced by themselves, and they will encounter many, many difficulties on the road of perseverance.

People with perseverance are considered scary because they are usually able to stick to their goals and put in the effort to achieve them. This perseverance usually leads them to achieve a lot of success in life and work, and they do not give up easily when faced with challenges and difficulties.

For those who don't have perseverance, it can be scary to see what people with perseverance have achieved. They may feel jealous and frustrated because their lack of perseverance makes it difficult for them to achieve their goals.

Also, people with perseverance usually go through some difficulties and challenges, which may make them cold or determined in some ways. This may make them seem a little scary, as they may be desperate to pursue their goals, or even appear unscrupulous to others.

However, this perseverance can also bring many benefits to making skin dry. People with perseverance are generally more confident and self-disciplined, and they are also more likely to succeed in life. Therefore, as scary as it may feel like a book holder with perseverance, they are also very worthy of respect and learning.

Because they will indulge in some kind of desire.

Strong willpower can be admirable, but it can also feel terrible at times, they may overpursue some kind of desire, lose their reason and self-restraint, and let their brother Zaochunpei indulge in it, unable to extricate himself.

In addition, some people push themselves too themselves at work, study, or exercise, which can lead to physical and mental exhaustion and even various health problems, so although willpower is a valuable quality, it also needs to be mastered and used in moderation.

People with perseverance are not scary, on the contrary, they tend to be more successful.

People with perseverance usually have strong beliefs and long-term endurance, are able to persevere in the pursuit of goals in the face of difficulties and challenges, and are willing to put in the effort and sacrifice to achieve it. This quality is often one of the most important factors in success, because it is only through perseverance that results can be achieved. Therefore, people with perseverance should be seen as a group of people worthy of respect and encouragement, not as "terrible" objects.

Although people with perseverance often face difficulties and challenges, they are usually able to learn from their experiences and lessons and constantly improve their abilities and standards. At the same time, they are able to make a positive impact on those around them and become the mainstay of society in addition to achieving their goals. Therefore, if we have the excellent quality of perseverance, we should cherish it and carry it forward unremittingly.