Should the married woman s family be a dime?

Marriage is a major life event for both families. I don't think a woman should be left alone. There should still be some investment.

Marriage is the union of two families, never a one-sided payment, no matter the man and the woman should not be a dime, your friends and you said this, may have something to do with your local area, but should not be regarded as a standard, maybe both parties need image engineering, then discuss, the man gives money, make a look, and then return the newcomer or what, after all, the gift money, only the two families know, others do not know.

There is a local custom in a place, we are here where the man pays the bride price, and the woman's family marries, and the more the marriage, the more face the woman has, but the kind of woman's family that does not pull out a dime will be looked down upon.

Marriage is a matter between men and women, not to say which party's problem and responsibility, your own idea is right, the woman should also contribute a part of the money, and your friend's statement is very extreme, unreasonable, and even a kind of money worship, and your money in the past, the house and car can be said to be your premarital property, completely your own private property, and the man has nothing to do with it, and both men and women get married, the mother's family must also hope that the woman will marry in the past, and live without worry, So it's okay to marry a little more, if everything has to be out of the man's hands? That will inevitably cause contradictions between the two parties, and marrying in the past will also be criticized by others.

In fact, no matter how much money the man gives, or how much the woman marries, as long as two people truly love each other, it is the most important thing to live happily together after marriage, and don't care too much about other people's opinions.

There's no need to focus too much on what other people think. Marriage is a matter for two families, everyone discusses it, and everyone is happy to accept it. A hundred kinds of people have a hundred ideas, even if the renminbi is still disliked, just be happy.

Marriage between a man and a woman. In general, men and women. The responsibility is heavier.

In addition to the house car, tens of thousands of dowries are required. You find that girls are not that important. There are conditions to buy something for the girl.

Family difficulties are really a dime. The man also can't have an opinion. This is the old principle left by the ancestors.

Today's young people don't want to change him. Especially in rural areas, it is even more difficult to manage. This is an ironclad truth that no one can reverse.

The woman will prepare more dowry if the conditions are good, and if the conditions are not good, she will prepare according to the conditions, and she will not say that she will not pull out a dime, after all, she hopes that her daughter will live happily.

No, marriage is a matter of two families, and it is very appropriate to contribute some money, after all, the two families will be in-laws in the future, and it will be good to see each other after leaving a line in everything.

No. Your friend is not right.

Your marriage is a matter for the two of you, and there is no need for friends to follow suit.

How much bride price and dowry the man and the woman give is their own business, and they are happy to choose what they choose. It's more or less a mind.

As long as the two of you are good, don't care what other people think.

Should it be a dime? Married to the woman's family.

It depends on how the woman's parents do it, or how they think about it. When a smart mother's child gets married, she will marry something, and her money-greedy parents will not give her anything.

I don't agree with this idea. Marriage is a matter of two people. If the woman doesn't pay a penny when she gets married, it will become a talking point when the man and the woman quarrel in the future.

In fact, marriage is a matter for two families, and the two families should discuss it, for the purpose, not one party's business.

Marriage is a matter of two families, it is a happy event, there are more conditions, and if there are no conditions, do your best, don't make you unhappy and angry.

Depending on the customs, the number of weddings held will also vary. Generally speaking, most weddings are held with one wedding reception, so the only one must be arranged properly. In this way, the cost of holding a wedding banquet is also very large, so it is recommended that two people bear the cost of the wedding banquet together.

The exact distribution is still negotiated between the men and women.

It's okay to pull a dime, as long as you don't ask the man's family on this basis.

When getting married, if the woman's family is very poor, or if there is any special reason for not pulling out a dime, you should learn to understand.

Marriage is a good thing, don't turn into a bad thing, so communication is the best way to solve problems.

I don't know where your wife's hometown is, some local customs are like this, you marry a wife, as long as you two really love each other, why do you care about that little thing. They have given you all the beautiful girls who have been raised for many years, and it is not the greatest gift to you, don't complain, you are still young, and you should rely on yourself to create a happy life.

Marriage is a matter of two people, so why care about money. Besides, in my opinion, if you marry someone else's daughter into your family, you should pay more money.

That's usually the case.

People have given you such a big daughter, you still need money, what do you like? Is it people or money?

You are really not satisfied, my family has a 350w house, 50w decoration, and a car of 300,000.

My girlfriend's family didn't pay a penny, and she disliked me to buy a Xiaoice box, and the refrigerator was 500L for 6000+ RMB.

Your girlfriend wants to give it to me, I'm happy to die.

How much ability you have, how much you can do Don't let your parents or yourself go into debt for the sake of getting married How much luxury the wedding is for others to see Only you know if your two of you will live well or not in the future Isn't it? It is recommended to be tougher, notarization is done, no matter how good the marriage is, it is also your mother's family, you are marrying a daughter-in-law, not a car, is it? Wedding banquet look at some posture The scale should be not small A wine can help you bear more than half of the wedding banquet Decoration can be lightly packed Because the decoration team makes you money is nothing more than paint and faucets If you have time and energy, it is recommended to shop by yourself Shopping will be much better and cheaper than the decoration team to give and save money.

Other women's families have pulled out more than yours, so your family will not pull out a dime.

It's just a dime on your own, just forget it.

I've seen shamelessness, I've never seen shameless like you, I'm all crying out for that girl. It's a pity that a flower is gone.

I can pay the full amount, so rich, in which city?

You can't be too cowardly, or you'll have to let your damn mother-in-law toss to death after marriage. In short, if you let your mother-in-law fiddle with the rest of your life, just play it. Alas, my mother-in-law made a mistake.

Since it is not easy to come together, you will definitely have to manage your married life well in the future, I didn't say it.

Clause.

1. You should have a good talk with your girlfriend (fiancée). Present your views and positions.

Clause. Second, if your family is so wealthy that you don't care about these things, I think it's understandable that your fiancée also knows about this situation.

Third: If your family is not rich enough to this extent, and your fiancée always forces you or indirectly forces you, then you can just get rid of her.

Secretly ask if the person you want to marry is a Shanghai woman!

Clause. Fourth, if he continues to claim property, you can go directly to them, bypass your marriage partner, and ask her mother how much money she will sell her daughter to you.

Communicate with your wife first and ask her to understand that you are not your mother-in-law's ATM, and that the days belong to the two of you. Some things just need to be made clear. Please also be generous in moderation, because of your connivance, save some money in your hands, don't be hollowed out, I'm afraid that in the end there will not even be a wife left.

It's an established fact, let's live a good life, have a sweet mouth, and please others. Honor your mother-in-law with good words, and what health products to buy are not as good as good words and beautiful clothes. It's up to you. Find another one and still face the same problem.

If there is no problem with the home, there is no problem with the person, then it may repay you later.

Seeing people's hearts over time and watching their changes may be a test.

Maybe it's brought to the rich second generation, hehe.

Character is not good... After getting married. It's not easy either.

Now all men are like this.

If you have a good relationship, why bother with these external things.

The most basic guarantee of happiness.

It is a stable income and a stable home.

I'm the same age as your girlfriend, but I'm not as lucky as her version.

It can only be said that their family is too realistic.

The feudal mentality is too serious.

My mom was like that too.

The key depends on her attitude.

After all, the road ahead is still for you to go on together.

You still live the days together.

I wish you all a speedy reconciliation!

Go on happily!

Reading between the lines of your word bai.

Du, you are very disrespectful to his parents, zhi said that his father didn't even dare to let go of a fart, is this the attitude that a future son-in-law should have?

And what's wrong with the demolition? The house bought by real gold ** is a house, and the house demolished is not a house? There's something wrong with your perception.

Also, you said that your girlfriend is very good, and it is not her idea to ask for a house. In that case, why can't you be considerate of your girlfriend? You know how hard she is caught between her mom and you?

It's a good decision to postpone your marriage, don't quarrel with your girlfriend anymore, she's a nice girl, and you should be glad you met. You said that you really bought a house, and the bride didn't know if it would be her. Suffice it to say that if it weren't for her, you'd lose a piece of treasure.

Actually, girls' mothers are the same, me.

When I bought a house, my mother didn't give money, and my family didn't pay for it, and the house we bought didn't have to be a share of the family.

Money. Look at what your girlfriend thinks, now the man's family pays to buy a house, the woman buys electricity, your mother-in-law has no money, she may want to give her little money to her daughter as a dowry, and her daughter as private money, don't care too much, girls' mothers are like that, who wants to pay to buy a house. Pity the hearts of parents all over the world, your mother-in-law will not bring money to the coffin.

Don't worry too much. Your family is not without money, right, if you want to find a wife, you have to buy a house for others, you have to have a place to squat! Other people's daughters are the hearts and souls of their parents, who will send their children to you to endure hardships, and you don't know that living with your parents is very inconvenient.

I've read it... It's too realistic, alas, marriage is really not a matter of 2 people, it is a version of the family's business. Such a mother-in-law.

To put it mildly, I advise you to give up, you are only 28 and still young, and the man is 30, and when you have money, you are afraid that you will not be able to marry a better one? If you insist, you will be very tired in the future, really If your girlfriend really loves you and is reluctant to you, she won't care so much, what's wrong with not having a house! Wait, can't you?

She should share the ups and downs with you, if you can't even get through this, then how can you solve more serious things when you get married in the future?

Think twice, alas, bless you.

The problem is, you can find du

One, isn't it also this zhi virtue? Or more.

DAO plus extravagance and waste! Edition.

If you are not in a hurry to get married, just wait two years and then get married when you have a house. Now it's a woman's urgency, and a man's isn't in a hurry, isn't it? It is difficult for a woman to marry when she is older, but a man does not have such troubles, the older he gets, the more assets he has, and the more women he has.

After two years, there will be absolutely nothing to ask for at your girlfriend's house. After all, your roles have been reversed.

So I don't think you need to get married too early. It's never too late to talk about laying the foundation of your career, and when you have a lot of money, you don't need to look at their faces at all, do you?

There is no such thing as a perfect love marriage.

Love is only happy when one party is humble and humble.

There is no question of who is right and who is wrong.

In the final analysis, it is because the family is not rich, if they are all rich, who will fight for this money?

It's not a big problem, the two families can discuss it well and they can reconcile, but there is a potential problem, after all, the two families will leave a pimple in their hearts, and the road ahead is estimated to be bumpy.

Although you are her friend, it is better for people to make their own decisions about this matter, or let them talk about it themselves.

Individuals go to work in their own homes, don't talk to two families.

I look down on you a little bit when you ask questions! Is marriage built on money? If yes, you should go to a rich man, but then again, the man is really deductible?

How's your friend? It's average, otherwise how can you fall in love with such a man.

Your friend made it himself, it's too ugly, I'm afraid no one wants it? I found this family. Marriage depends on how the person is not based on the net worth and career, the family is so that his son is no better, your friend is afraid that he has been deceived, now don't tell me about the teachers and graduate students in the university, I am also in college, the teachers in my university are kind on the surface, and they are indifferent and stingy in their bones, and the more Chinese people read, the more they don't understand the world, and they are selfish, I have seen through this, of course, there are really good ones, but I am afraid that your friends have not yet met.