Unsatisfactory work, life? How to deal with unsatisfactory work today?

It's normal, you're still young, and there are still a lot of opportunities. To look at problems, we must look at them from the perspective of development. 20 years ago, we always thought that 10,000 yuan households could have no worries about food and clothing for a lifetime, and our ideal at that time was 10,000 yuan, but what was the result?

When we finally raised 10,000 yuan, we found that the world is much faster than our pace, everything is still beyond the reach of the pursuit of endless, the main obstacle to our development is our own, is the desire to do the trouble, you must adjust your own desires, otherwise you will be very tired, until tired to death. There can't be too many comparisons in life, the so-called people are more than people, more than dead people, why be so serious, Huang Kangjing, the boss of LVGEM Group, was still a mason at your age, much worse than you, at that time he was also very confused like you, and he would not know that a few years later, he would be a vast building, and Mr. Shi of Giant Group was worse than you before he was listed in the United States....

Hello brother, it is normal for you to be in this situation, which is a common problem faced by Chinese college students. I think you should correct the mentality of college students now, in the words of the country's leaders, they are not elites, just ordinary labor, but they have an advantage over most of the non-university labor force, and there are many college students who cannot correct their mentality, they are so ambitious and fragile in their hearts, they are impetuous and reckless, so that many people still have nothing to achieve after many years. I am also a college student, and I have had the same period of confusion as you.

Just graduated, don't expect to make much money, the most important thing is to accumulate social and work experience for your future development, you have to know which direction and which industry you want to develop in the future, there are many opportunities in the society, but it is also very realistic, the opportunity is to grasp the strength, and the strength is based on the accumulation and training of the years after you graduate.

As for the question of girlfriends, you don't have to worry, although girls are more realistic now, they have been like this since ancient times. Girls actually pay more attention to the sense of security that men give her and if she is with you, the evaluation of the expected happiness value in the future, please keep in mind that the biggest charm of men is not in appearance or money, but in whether you have enough dedication and can continue to work hard for it. Be a down-to-earth, goal-oriented, responsible, generous and thrifty, hard-working man, and one day a good girl will come to the door by herself.

Just out of school, I really can't do anything, let alone have a college diploma.

Besides, what to do, it's not up to you to say it, you still want others to recognize you and let you do it.

College graduates often ignore this and only think about what they want to do and what they can do. I don't want to think about whether others are willing to let you do it, whether they are willing to give you the opportunity to do it.

Therefore, college graduates really have to mix in the society for a period of time and think more about the problem of "being a man", because today's society is not a person who can achieve a career alone, and the resources are in the hands of the "seniors" who have worked hard in the society for many years, so you must first have a good relationship with the seniors, get recognition, support and help, and even pity and sympathy, so that you can make some achievements, or you can succeed more easily.

This is a little experience I have gained from summing up my career for more than ten years for your reference.

Normal very. That's the reality, think about it from another angle, and I wish you happiness.

Hehe, don't be discouraged and believe that you will be fine.

Find a psychiatrist! The mentality is not good!!

Adjust your mentality, brother! Seize social.

I never had any money left on my payroll card.

The work is the same, but the division of labor is different, but the salary is different, and there is no satisfaction or dissatisfaction.

First, the nature of the work, there is no distinction between high and low, and there is no right or wrong, so there is no satisfaction and dissatisfaction.

The second is the issue of salary, there is a distinction between high and low, which is caused by human factors. If you are not satisfied with the salary, you can solve it by the compensation manager.

Third, as far as the work itself is concerned, there is only satisfaction and dissatisfaction with the work. If you work hard, you will be satisfied; If you don't work hard, your satisfaction will definitely be low.

Fourth, in the work, there are managers and personnel engaged in specific affairs, and the division of labor is different, which is determined by personal ability. Some people are suitable for management, while others are suitable for specific work, and there is no need to be tired of others. Most of the people who love to hate are because their ideological understanding has not improved, they have not changed, and they have not kept pace with the times.

Therefore, as far as individuals are concerned, they have always been satisfied with their work, but their efforts are not enough, their achievements are not high, and they still need to continue to work hard and do a good job in order to live up to their youth.

First, clarify the "meaning of your first job".

Whether the company or position has the ability to "significantly" mention the high personal value of the bend.

Although it is only a screw of the company, can it allow you to be brave in the post trial and error, so that your logical thinking, business processing and other abilities can be significantly improved in effective working hours.

When choosing a job, don't simply look at the working environment, handsome guys and beauties, snacks, afternoon tea, ......These do not ensure that your abilities and values will be enhanced. What you need to see is whether the company's development and status in the industry, whether it has advanced technology, whether the products produced are bullish, and whether your boss is ......This is the highest weight that determines whether you will become a capable person in the future.

The above can help you understand your shortcomings and advantages in the workplace, find the direction of the workplace, and help you choose the most suitable path for yourself.

Find the person you want to be in 10 years at work.

Specifically, we get along with colleagues and leaders for a long time in our work, and basically we will also observe their work content, development path, mental outlook, etc., find the advantages of these people, and be happy to learn from them, hoping to become such a talent one day. But if in this job, you find that the way and logic of the colleagues and leaders around you are not what you want, you will feel pain and not feel the value and charm brought by the work.

Secondly, what is the importance of the first job? How long does it take?

Is the first job important? It takes "time" to measure.

If your first job only lasts 1-3 months and does not have a huge impact on your future career development and life, then the job is less important.

If your first job lasts 3-5 years and you find that the industry is not promising or unsuitable, then your career development will be affected. Because the classmates who were on the same starting line with you at that time had already started to develop in the industry or position, but you returned to a new starting point, re-entered a new industry or looked for a job. Therefore, what you lose in this life is not the 3-5 years, but the starting line of career development.

You say that you just want to compare yourself vertically, and you can improve more than your original self, and this kind of thinking is really fine. But the reality is that we see that most of the job seekers who don't get their first job after college are not looking for a good job, resulting in frequent job hopping or unemployed job seekers at home. Moreover, according to the values of most of the elders, girls and boys must passively enter the life stage of blind dates, marriage and childbirth after graduating from college or in their 20s, and take on the responsibility of the family.

There is an old saying that "men are afraid of entering the wrong industry, and women are afraid of marrying the wrong man". Therefore, for ordinary people, the importance of the first job and the impact of how long it takes to do the first job are self-evident.

Finally, if you want to outperform your peers in your first job? These are good habits to develop!

1. Do things well from the beginning to the end, and develop closed-loop thinking.

Judging whether a newcomer in the workplace has potential is not to see whether he is smart enough, nor whether he works hard, but whether he has a good habit of starting and finishing well.

Every professional Qingkai will have such a moment, give yourself a little space, find something you like to do, and let your emotions be released. Deal with your emotions first, and then go back to deal with the problem.

I will elaborate on the following aspects.

1. Choose a job that suits you.

First of all, we adjust from the mental consciousness, why do you want to work? Who do you work for and how do you choose a job? What is the ultimate goal of the job?

1.Why do you want to work? Human beings have been destined from the day they were born, and in order to survive, they must first meet their own physiological needs, and there will be no pie in the sky, and there is no free lunch.

God created a brain and limbs for you to achieve self-reliance through the external search of your body.

2.Who are you working for? The answer is simple, don't say big things: why do humans contribute, etc., in fact, one is to work for one's own life, and the other is to work for one's family. It is to satisfy the desires of oneself and one's family, help the old and the young, and live a happy family life.

3.What is the ultimate goal of the job? It is the ultimate goal you want to achieve or achieve under the premise of satisfying your own desires and needs.

It's not advisable to be ambitious, and choose your goals in a down-to-earth manner. During this period, you may accumulate a lot, or you may wait for the right time, and once the conditions are right, you will achieve your goals.

4.How to choose a job? According to your own psychological quality and practice, choose the right position for yourself, now the range of job options is very free, it is best to choose a professional counterpart, familiar with the post, you want to do and I let you do is a completely different concept.

Try to avoid small horses and carts when choosing jobs, and learn to pull big horses and cars.

2. How to adjust your mentality. Society is a very powerful biomagnetic field, which has been formed by countless social changes from ancient times to the present, and is a group magnetic field composed of people and things of different ages.

As soon as you enter this society, you will immediately feel the difference in society, and your magnetic field is insignificant in society.

This requires you to make adjustments mentally to adapt to the society, to adapt to the working environment, and to integrate yourself into the society, rather than the working environment to adapt to you.

In conclusion, my experience of working for 45 years can be summarized as follows: one-third of my life time is spent on work, one-third on rest, and one-third on family life. In fact, one-third of the quality of working time determines the quality of your life time in the future.

How to make good use of working hours is the key to our life, as the saying goes: the sun rises and falls every day, 365 days a year, spring, summer, autumn and winter four seasons repeat.

Work is repeated day after day, and there must be unsatisfactory aspects, as you must learn to face the repetitive work with a happy attitude. Find fun from the work day after day, easy work, and happy life, so that you can feel happy in your daily work.