After the death of a loved one, what is the psychology of a person who does not cry or grieve?

In fact, such people are very cold in their hearts and don't have much affection for their relatives, so even after the death of their relatives, there is no way to make them sad.

Maybe it's because that loved one is not so important to her, and he didn't treat her well when he was alive, so she won't feel anything when she dies.

Some sadness does not have to be expressed, a person expresses emotions in different ways, some are hidden in the heart, some are shown on the face, what kind of psychology they have depends on their relationship with the deceased person.

When a loved one dies, there are no more tears, which does not prove that you are sick, but that the pain is extreme.

When the confidant leaves, the heartache and sadness are excessive, which may lead to no way to shed a tear and be able to face the loss of a loved one calmly, but it is possible that one day in the future, because of a certain scene, or even a certain sentence, a certain voice will be caused. All the emotions collapsed, and I cried happily. From this point of view, not all people are indeed able to cry in the face of their loved ones, and it is still a good thing to be able to cry when they are really able to cry, and holding their emotions in their hearts will only make people more uncomfortable.

People's emotions are never controlled by themselves, sad or happy, it is always difficult to control freely, especially sadness is not at all controllable, I have also faced the departure of relatives, when I know such bad news, the first reaction is to stay on the spot, unacceptable, but can quickly calm down, silently attend the funeral and leave, but one day later, suddenly because of someone else's words opened my heart, let me cry, that is also the first time I feltIt turns out that sadness can also be like a dead heart, without any emotional side, without any emotion on the surface, but in fact, the heart has already been surging, but there is no way to express this sadness in the way of crying.

The sadness still exists, and even becomes more and more intense, but there is no way to replace it at that time, I found that all this can only be borne silently, especially the sadness of adults is always so restrained, and caught off guard, others can cry, but they can only silently put it in their hearts, deal with all the things at hand, sadness is not only expressed with tears, and the sadness that can't be cried is the real love is greater than heart death. I hope that everyone will not understand this kind of pain, and I also hope that everyone can calmly face the departure of their loved ones, after all, it is a sickness, and death is the normal state of life.

Maybe it's because you're sad to the extreme, and you're very sad in your heart but you can't cry. In fact, it's not that you're sick, because everyone expresses their feelings differently, so don't use crying to measure your feelings for your loved ones.

This is because this kind of thing is very painful for you, it can be said that it hurts to the extreme, so you will not cry at this time, it is not that you have changed.

It may be because this incident has had too much impact on you, so it has caused you to become very dazed for a while, which is not a disease.

This shows that your family usually lacks emotional communication with each other, and may even have frequent quarrels or relative coldness due to conflicts of ideas, and are in a state of cold war. If this goes on for a long time, the emotions between each other will naturally fade, and when life and death are parting, they will naturally not be able to reveal their true feelings.

The works on TV are all flesh and blood and emotional, otherwise they would not be film and television works. Especially wonderful film and television works, which can resonate in people's hearts, let the audience enter the play, and transfer the emotions in the play to themselves, so when they see a touching plot or picture, they can't help but cry. This effect is especially pronounced for those who have emotional deficits in their lives.

Because those who lack emotional communication in life are actually the most eager for emotional communication. Because I can't get it in reality, I have to project my emotions in film and television works or ** text.

In fact, living people are more eager for emotion, because film and television works are also created by people, and it is precisely because screenwriters, directors and actors have emotional experiences or emotional desires that they can write the script with emotion, guide the plot to the heartstrings, and attract the audience to put their emotions into it through acting skills.

1.Because deep down, in fact, you don't believe that your grandfather has passed away, you believe that he is still alive and well in another world, so intellectually you don't cry.

2.In dealing with the problem of birth, old age, sickness and death, maybe you see it very openly, you understand that everyone will die one day, and they will live forever in another way, so you don't cry.

3.Crying doesn't mean anything, not crying doesn't mean anything, everyone reacts differently to the death of a loved one, so even if you cry or not, it's not very important.

4.Because I was too sad in my heart, I couldn't cry, and I suppressed my emotions in my heart.

Question, but I feel that my heart has no fluctuations When I first heard it, I was a little sad, but soon it didn't fluctuate, and the answer may be that you don't have a particularly deep affection for your family, right, question: This is my own grandfather, answer: Are you raised by your grandfather since childhood?

Question: I was brought by my grandparents before I was 6 years old, and I was my parents before I was 18, but when my grandfather died, I didn't have any heart fluctuations, so it's very strange to answer that some people's nerve cells are not so sensitive to these sad things, so this situation is normal, and it doesn't mean that you are not a filial child.

Okay, thank you.

1.First of all, it may be that you don't have a very deep affection for that person, that is, your grandfather, so you are unlikely to feel sad, but it is also possible that you don't feel very important.

2.Secondly, you may not believe in this kind of person, that is, your grandfather, who is really gone, and has gone far, far away, and you subconsciously don't want to believe it.

3.In the end, no matter what it is, there is always a death for people, so let's mourn and change. It's not something that can be changed by man, it's good to live a better life. Don't be too sad.

This is because the emotional aspect will not express much, or I will not react for a while.

It may also be a psychological defense mechanism, in order to avoid the collapse caused by being too sad, the brain shifts the pain, and makes people subconsciously "forget" things that may not be able to bear it.

I think it must be that the relationship between you and your family is not particularly good, if it is good, it must be able to be sad, if it is not good, it is not sad, the reason why we are not sad, because we are not close to ourselves, if we are close to ourselves, of course, he will be very sad. Do you approve of my analysis, dear?

In fact, the feelings between people are only when they get along, even if there is a family and blood relationship between you who are not close enough, the interaction between you is not close enough, and there is no such emotional dedication and dependence on each other, even if you are not sad, you can understand.

Maybe the relationship between you is not very good, or you have less communication with each other and are not together often, so his death may not be much of this emotion for you, or that something has changed.

may rarely be with grandpa, and the relationship is slowly relatively weak, and the habit of being together often before may be gone, or it has grown up and matured.

After experiencing more, it may slowly become like this, no matter what, as long as you cherish the moment.

The death of his family is not too sad, which shows that he does not have much affection for the deceased family member.

You're not sad right now, but when you see something that reminds you of your grandfather, you're going to cry to death.

Uh-huh. Maybe it's not that deep.

Those who don't cry or grieve after the death of their loved ones are just that they have seen through some things in the world, it's not that they don't know how to be sad and sad, it's just that they are not good at expressing themselves.

One is that they are actually very sad, but they just silently endure it and do not show it; The second is that they have no feelings for their deceased relatives, so they don't cry or grieve.

For those who say that they don't grieve or cry after the death of their loved ones, in fact, their hearts are more because they don't have a lot of contact with these relatives. And it's like a stranger, so there's no sense of grief.

I think it's a very cruel psychology, and it's also a psychology that doesn't know how to cherish, and people like this don't have a very correct outlook and don't have a very good moral character, but I think people like this are also very strong in their hearts, so we must look at it rationally.

Maybe I don't care about this situation at all, so when this kind of thing happens, I never cry or feel sad, this kind of person I feel like I have no heart and lungs.

This kind of person is very uncomfortable. People can't cry until they're particularly uncomfortable.

When my grandmother died, I couldn't cry, it felt like he was asleep, it didn't feel real at all, I also felt like a white-eyed wolf, an emotionless person.

I've been in this situation too, and the more I can't cry, the longer the sadness in my heart will last.

Because of your introverted personality, you shed a lot of tears when you're alone. The saddest time for people is silence, and the more sad they are, the more silent they become. ‍‍

Many times, the more you cry, the more sad you become, not crying for your loved ones, but crying yourself, and when you have suffered more setbacks and are older, you will understand!

I also feel this way, the day my grandfather died, I really kept thinking about why I couldn't cry, grandpa was the best for me, but there was no sadness in my heart, but after a few days, it was really sad, and I really didn't believe that grandpa was really not there at that time.

Me too, I should not have accepted the fact at first, I always felt that my grandfather was hiding, silently caring about us, and I always treated him as if he was still there.

Maybe you are such a person, the tear ducts are not developed, I have also seen such a person, the eight-year-old son died, but he couldn't cry, he must have been very sad in his heart.

Grief does not necessarily have to be expressed by crying, if you want to cry and force yourself to cry, it is to show others.

When a person is in extreme pain, he can't shed tears, I once had this experience, a family member died, but I couldn't cry, after a long time, I remembered the past, and often hid in a place where there was no one and cried secretly.

Me too, whether it's the death of a loved one, or breaking up with a man who has been in love for a long time, it's obviously very uncomfortable, but I can't cry, and I can't pretend to cry.

Little sorrow sheds tears, big sorrow sighs. There is some sadness that cannot be expressed by just tears. Isn't there such a saying?

It's called wanting to cry without tears. I couldn't cry anymore and couldn't help myself. These are words that describe uncontrollable emotions and disturbances.

Family members are our most important spiritual and emotional sustenance, and their departure is a heavy blow to us. It is difficult to accept this fact for a while, and at this time, often the psychological capacity has reached a verge of collapse, all kinds of emotions come to the heart, those beautiful memories, the moments of conflict, with the departure of the family, will become eternal, leaving only longing and those unfulfilled long-cherished wishes.

In fact, the Si people have passed away, and the survivors should work hard, cherish the people and things around them, those who are good, let him continue to be beautiful, and those who are unhappy may not be worth mentioning in a few years. I hope you will come out of your grief as soon as possible, and then you will gradually shed tears and recount those pasts.