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Love is a kind of unconditional acceptance, and you need to give yourself a time to understand and recognize before making a choice, rather than making a decision for yourself in a vague way. Don't always worry and be afraid, if you doubt yourself or don't believe in the other person, you can think about whether you have had some bad feelings or hurt about the opposite sex in the past or have suffered any grievances in your own upbringing. Learn more about the other person's heart, understand his character and how he behaves and behaves, and I believe that time will make you clear and understand how you should choose.
The early stage of love is very precious, slowly understand, when your heart has a sense of insecurity, fear of being hurt and fear of abandonment, it is recommended to be able to give yourself a time to take care of and adjust, instead of being confused and let yourself walk into a strange circle that even you are not willing to accept, use your youth to joke with yourself, marriage is not a game, you can joke with yourself, and the other party will also play yourself, if you don't adjust well, it is not someone else who will be hurt in the end, It is up to you to taste the bitter fruit, because no one in this world can take the responsibility behind this choice for you. Even if you will have many reasons and excuses, I believe that time will not go back, and the ups and downs are only clear to you and not understood by outsiders, you must let yourself be cautious before choosing, and don't be confused by your own impulsiveness or the favor of the other party, you can be responsible for yourself or yourself.
To love someone, you should learn to be tolerant; To love someone is to love everything about him! Don't let yourself be entangled because of the other party's problems or previous convictions in the morning, after getting to know the other party, first observe his shortcomings to see if you can accept it. Don't always expect someone like a fairy tale prince or a TV series hero to appear in real life.
Life is very realistic, and when choosing what suits you, you need to consider whether you are suitable for the other party, and whether you have a clear understanding and understanding of yourself?
Emotional problems are not a person's thing, if the parties are too pursuit of perfection, always look at the problem from their own point of view, while blaming and complaining, it is inevitable that each other's feelings will be hurt, in the relationship between the two people is estranged, the first thing is to flatten their mentality, let themselves return to reality, be able to really straighten out themselves, level their roles, don't pursue unrealistic things too much, accept yourself calmly, what else can you not pass?
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Talk about your feelings and feelings, tell him about your concerns, and let him give you a direct, down-to-earth answer. Otherwise, you can only say goodbye, who wants to live in endless worries?
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You are not confident in yourself, make yourself stronger, and make your object uneasy.
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Give him enough security.
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Tell him about your uneasiness!
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What exactly is the problem that makes you uneasy?
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There is a good saying, it is called "use people without suspicion, suspect without suspicion"! Generally refers to getting along with friends or colleagues, since you have interacted with each other, or let the other party help you do something, then don't doubt it, choose to believe him! I think it is also applicable to couples getting along, and it is the same reason!
In fact, couples get along with each other by feeling, when two people are together, his care, thoughtfulness, care, care, etc., whether he is sincere or not, you should be able to feel it. If he is genuinely interested in you, and you really love him, then trust him, don't doubt it, and don't be upset.
When a person likes you, it's not because you're good-looking, but because you give this person a feeling that many people can't give, and that feeling can't be said. Feelings are not games, and no one can afford to hurt them. A relationship not only needs to be cared for by each other, but also needs to have a firm belief in each other and cherish it together.
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The other party is too good to make you feel unconfident.
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First, go with the flow, don't deliberately look for a girlfriend, rather lack than abundance.
The second is to make yourself full, excellent, go out and make more friends, so that there is no time to be restless, every day is full and happy, and naturally there will be girls who like you, or friends will also introduce you.
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Let's go on a blind date, go home and ask your family to help find one!!
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If you have a mentality, just follow the fate.
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Others say that the IQ of a woman in love is equal to zero, don't be carried away by love, see the facts clearly, there is no grass in the world.
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What do you want him?
Money? Sex? Status?
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He may care about you, or he may not want you to share with him and delay you.
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He has more social experience than you, this is normal, nothing, as long as you can feel her love, you believe that he will give you happiness, what's the use of thinking about this!
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No way. We're in a similar situation. Life experience is there. Fooling a little girl is the same as playing. Do you know at home? Don't be with that kind of person who has no future.
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Age is not a problem, love is together.
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Because I have more experience than you, for example, I am 28 now, and it is easy to see through the mind of an 18-year-old.
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But I really know too much, I feel that I am transparent, and if I don't understand, it's not good.
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The gap between the years is a bit big Parents know.
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This kind of cross-age relationship is a bit difficult.
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It's not good to know you yet to know what you want.
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It's good that the husband is older than his wife, and the important thing is that he really loves you and loves you.
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What's uneasy? You are younger than him, only he is uneasy.
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The age gap is too big, understand that you should have rich emotional experience, and it is up to you to guess what you think.
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Because you're small, you can't get there.
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Hello dear. I believe your question now is whether you should like him rather than whether you should go on. When you chose him, you already knew his personality and temper.
You should like him as much now as you did before. Don't think about other things, give him more warmth and care, the person who is attentive is afraid of being hurt.
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Some people may be because of good popularity, as long as he still cares about you, he can still get along, if you can say goodbye on the contrary.
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Feelings that lack trust are equal to zero. You still have to go your own way.
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Leave decisively、Such feelings are meaningless、
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No, it's uneasy now, it's pain later.
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It's normal, right? But if you can't accept such a man, let it go as soon as possible. Find a down-to-earth one. Otherwise, it will only lead you to constant sadness.
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Lock his heart with personal charm.
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