Why do I resent the people around me? What am I going to do? 30

Actually, I often think that way.

"Disgust", as the name suggests, the feeling of opposition, of course, this explanation is more straightforward. To put it simply, it's a feeling.

This feeling arises because the feeling that someone else gives you is not the same as the feeling you insist on.

In fact, objectively speaking, it should be mainly because you feel that the behavior of the people around you is not acceptable to you, is not recognized by you, and even feels disgusted.

I often feel that the people around me are either too hypocritical, too contrived, too snobbish and too wall-dressing, and I feel a kind of disgust in my heart, because there is a big difference with my own way of thinking and acting.

I think the main reason why you feel this way is because you are not used to the way people around you behave and do things, which is normal.

If you want to live happily and relentlessly, then turn a blind eye and pretend not to see it, but I don't think you can do it, because your heart is disgusted; If you feel that you have to stick to your own ideas and ways of behaving in the world, then you are bound to offend a lot of people (and I am), and you will live in resentment all day long, and you will be yourself and suffer yourself.

In fact, I think you know what you want to be and what you should do, but you always feel that there is something in your heart that needs to be vented and recognized. Actually, it's right, but it's also not good.

Insist on being yourself, but occasionally relax, don't stretch yourself too tight, the world is always like this, otherwise why set off a few people? Right?

So, brother, let's open some! Don't be bitter about yourself.

I want the majority to obey the minority. Difficult... You're going to have to get used to it. No one has to adapt slowly to no one in a single place... Maybe they're all wrong, but now there are a lot of people with a herd mentality ...

Think about it yourself, why do you hate him (her), what makes you hate it, is it him (her), or your problem,,, this has to be dealt with, society is no better than home... Family members can understand you, and others, will not understand this Yang, except (confidant, friend, brother and the like).

There are many reasons for this, it may be that you are in a bad mood, you don't like anything, or you can't stand the shortcomings of someone around you, or you have changed, you have new ideas and worldviews, and you start to have differences around you, as the so-called "the Tao is different, do not conspire with each other".

Do you resent everyone around you, or just one or two people? If it's everyone, then it's a psychiatrist. If it's just one or two people, that's normal, then continue to be disgusted. You can't like all the people in the world.

Try to see their strengths, magnify their strengths and narrow down their weaknesses, and give it a try.

Do you just hate the people around you?,Isn't it hated by everyone but yourself.。 When you're upset, you hate others. If it's a girl, most of the reasons may be that your relatives are coming, at this time the girl will be irritable Yuan Qi withered, I can't wait to see strangers who want to beat them, maybe a little habit of the people around you will want to be angry at it if you look uncomfortable, at this time or stay away from others, talk less, if you are at work, the orange hole is farther away from the leader, otherwise you will quarrel and be expelled.

In our lives, there will be times when we are in a bad mood, and when we are serious, we tend to lose our senses, we will mess around, be unreasonable, look at anything unpleasant, and feel that the world owes you, at this time we will hurt the people around us, and the most likely to hurt are the people closest to us. No one owes us, there is no need to suffer your grievances, we have to control it at this moment, always remind ourselves that it is our own problem, it has nothing to do with others, and it will be gone when we go out to relax.

Disgusted with this habit of others, you don't need to emphasize it, otherwise it will be invisibly amplified in your heart, adding pressure to you, you have to try to change violently, try to accept, in the case that no one says that you have no problem, you also have to adapt to this environment, after all, except for your parents, no one will understand and tolerate your willfulness.

Maybe you and the people around you have different personalities, values, or beliefs and aspirations. Regardless of what you think, whether they are old and do what they do is true to them. You are easily influenced by your surroundings, and their behavior keeps you from watching, digging, and settling your mind.

In fact, disgust with others is not your hobby, and the things you don't like are not necessarily your narrow-mindedness, people are always stupid and bored, you say that you often do this, so don't have too much burden of thoughts, learn to reduce stress and learn to face life positively is the most important thing.

It depends on who it is, if the people around you are people you like, you won't be annoying. Like me, if I go back to school, there are generally no annoying people around me, because everyone is the same age, and there is generally no generation gap except for the different personalities of Xi Qianxian. So whether I like him or not, I don't hate them, unless a few people are very sassy, very draggy, very selfish and vicious.

Don't talk about you, I believe that many people will also feel like this, such as when the eldest aunt comes, there is a stomachache and unstoppable blood flood, coupled with the influence of hormones in the body, people will be very irritable. There is already a pain in the grip, and there are still people holding ice cream Duan Qiao Ling dangling in front of you, will you hate him super much, not only hate it, but also want to poke ice cream in his face.

Friends, you can try to be less concerned about the age of the chain early meaning of her what you think of the shortcomings, scatter a little more to see the others. Don't be anxious, the surrounding environment is unsatisfactory and you have to maintain a good mood is not a call that can be completed all at once.

Summary. If the very important person in your life, he is more disgusted with you now, then the most important thing you need to do now is not to follow him to explain anything to him, but to give him some time to think about why you have become like this, the more you entangle him at this time, then he will feel that the more he hates you, the more disgusted he will be, so it is also a particularly good way to give two people some space to calm down.

Hello. If the very important person in your life, he is more disgusted with you now, then the most important thing you need to do now is not to follow him to explain anything to him, but to give him some time to think about why you have become like this, the more you entangle him at this time, then he will feel that the more he hates you, the more disgusted he will be, so it is also a particularly good way to give two people some space to calm down.

What if a female classmate hates you?

Find a chance to make it clear to your face! Be solemn and apologetic, and tell her. Secondly, find out if she is angry with you because of this incident, and before you make it clear to her, use a small note to probe the "firepower". Believe in yourself.

But this female classmate who hates you rejects you so much, ignores you and hates you so much, can your relationship go back to the past?

It's hard to go back to the way things were, but you can still give it a try.

It's really uncomfortable for people around you to hate someone, but this feeling may not be the actual situation. First of all, such feelings may be caused by an individual's inferiority complex, being too nervous or unconfident in front of others, resulting in a bad impression on others. This is the time to think about your own problems and solve them.

Secondly, this feeling may also be due to problems in interpersonal relationships with the people around you, and you need to think about the behavior characteristics of the other party and your own behavior, and find and solve the problem from it.

If it is because of personal low self-esteem, you can gradually adapt to the social environment, enhance self-confidence, and overcome inner tension by participating in more social activities. In addition, you can pay more attention to the topics or things that people around you are interested in, understand their hobbies and needs, take the initiative to communicate with them, and you can also improve your ability and self-confidence by cultivating hobbies, participating in interest groups, expanding social circles, etc., so as to gain the respect and recognition of others.

If it is a violent collision because there is a problem in the interpersonal relationship between the individual and the people around him, he needs to first identify his own problem and find a strategy to improve it. If it is a problem of poor communication, you can use social tools or offline meetings to relax your mind, communicate, resolve conflicts, and enhance relationships. If it is a matter of cooperation, you can make more efforts and contributions to the matter according to your own situation and ability, and actively integrate into the team.

If interpersonal conflicts are caused by personal factors such as personality and hobbies, it is necessary to respect the different opinions of others, and try to explore the common points and interests of mutual acceptance, expand common topics and circles of interest, and enhance interpersonal relationships.

In short, if you feel that everyone around you hates you, you need to conduct more self-examination and improvement, sublimate your ability and self-cultivation, and actively participate in the interaction with others, so as to slowly win the respect and recognition of others. <>