What does the year of parents tell 30

Parents are old enough to know and keep in mind, rejoicing in their longevity and fearing their aging on the other.

Pay attention to filial piety Parents in their lifetime Children should be filial to their parents, obey their parents, and don't wait until their parents die to regret it.

Parents are single-minded to their children, who do not ask for anything in return.

It is enough for the child to have half of the parents' heart for the child.

Only when you become a parent do you really know what it means to pity the hearts of parents in the world.

1.The elders have rich experience and credible positions, and their opinions deserve reference and attention. But that doesn't mean unconditional obedience.

Because of the changes in the background and environment of the times, some of the elders' ideas may not be in line with the current reality, which requires us to judge and choose.

2.We should respect the wishes and concerns of our elders, but we also have the right to insist on our own ideas when it comes to decisions that are important to our own filial piety, especially in the choice of careers, objects and other major matters that are directly related to our own happiness, we need to make judgments based on our own actual situation. It's also a sign of growth.

3.We should actively communicate with our elders so that our elders understand our thoughts and considerations. Through mutual understanding and compromise, agreement can be reached, which is often the more desirable outcome.

If there is still no consensus on our opinions, we should also make our position clear, and then the elders will respect our choice.

4.Even if in the end our choices differ from those of our elders, we should understand the starting point of our elders' good intentions. It is likely that they insist on a certain choice out of concern and protection for us, and we need to express our gratitude, not resist or confrontation.

5.Any choice has its risks, and we must be responsible for our choices. If you choose to fail or have a problem, you should not blame your elders, but actively seek solutions and learn from your failures.

This can also reduce the burden on the elders and let them see our maturity and progress.

Therefore, as children, we should respect and value the opinions of our elders, but we do not have to listen unconditionally. It's normal to stick to yourself on some major decisions, but we need to actively communicate and reach a consensus; If we still disagree, we should express it clearly, and then have our elders respect our choices, which is the key to harmony.

Parents are the first and most important "mentors" for their children. For a long time, bit by bit, the teachings left in the heart from the words and teachings of parents are beyond words. Therefore, we can only throw away the "which" and only choose the memorable ones.

**From the Internet and nothing to do with the text.

I was more than 15 years old, and my father was in the bureau to go to the countryside.

My mother knew why I wanted to run away from home; I belong to the second child, big and small; As the saying goes: The emperor loves the eldest son, the people love the child, I feel that my father doesn't love my mother at home, I just want to go out freely?

**From the Internet and nothing to do with the text.

I was leaving home the next day. My mother told me to sleep with her and told me a story. It is to the effect that a son who read Journey to the West wanted to learn Wukong to find immortals and become enlightened, regardless of the old lady's hard work to stay and leave home, and finally found the legendary Wukong's master.

But the master told him, child, don't look for it, I'll send you two words, you go quickly: wear clothes and shoes on your back, and the gods will come from your house!

The son hurried home overnight, and when the old mother heard that her son was back, she hurriedly got up in the dark and opened the door for her son. When I entered the house and lit the lamp, I saw that the old mother was in a hurry to open the door for her son, her clothes were draped backwards and her shoes were dragged upside down. At that time, I suddenly realized what the master said, and I knelt down on my knees involuntarily?

Since then, he has settled down and started a happy life.

**From the Internet and nothing to do with the text.

In my memory, my mother's story is a lullaby from my childhood, and I remember in a daze that my mother said a sentence after telling the story: Son, you remember, only my mother loves you the most when I go all over the world!

Everyone in the world says this, and all mothers in the world say this, but when the mother is there, it is difficult for the children to understand the truth, and they always disagree with their nagging and teachings, and even have some complaints about some places. But when suddenly the parents leave and leave, there is no longer nagging, no more accusations, and when I grow up, I will inevitably be quiet in the dead of night, going through the past, and dripping it in my heart; The laughter and scolding of the parents before their deaths, every word and deed, thinking about it and studying it is all deep love!

Writing this, the text is not exhausted and flows first. Now, when I grow up, what is the truth that I deeply understand? It's not the "enlargement and wisdom" that the old people often love to hang on their lips, but the selfless and deep love of parents for their children!

**From the Internet and nothing to do with the text.

Qingshan groaned and cried, calling for his father; Bishui cries and complains about blood, and cries for mothers! Only when you grow up can you understand that only your mother is good in the world! There is a profound truth in this sentence!

Parents are really everyone's protectors, and home is really a safe haven for every child. For children, they feel that there are no boys online at all, because men will have their own parents to do and they never have to think about any problems, which is why many children have not grown up at all when their parents are still alive, and they don't understand the hardships of life at all.

When the parents are still alive, the children may not know how valuable the material is, when the parents are still alive, they may not know the hard work of earning money, and when the parents are still alive, they may not know how important the nagging of the parents is. When their parents are still alive, they may not know that their parents are everyone's most precious treasure, and for some children, they live a life of glory and wealth every day, but they simply do not know that these lives are given to them by their parents.

Once their parents are gone, they may feel these problems, because their parents are gone, their economy needs to be maintained by themselves, and at this time, they need to be angry and fight for their lives, but often many people are under the care of their parents, they simply do not have the ability to survive, and there is no guarantee of life, and more they will lose the care of a pair of parents. This is very important for everyone and the most precious for every child.

Parents, the people closest to us, are the people we are most familiar with in our lives, they don't have a strong sense of existence, but they are always with us.

When your parents are really gone, you feel unprecedented fear, fear, and feel that the most important thing in you is lost and can never be recovered.

You will understand the fact that the person who loves you the most in this world is gone, will never be by your side, will never be there for you, will never be in your life, no matter how much you call her, how much you miss her, she will not appear. When you go home, there will never be that familiar figure waiting to greet you on the side of the road, let alone a hot meal waiting for you to eat, and that familiar and loving face will only remain in your memory, and cannot be reproduced.

At this time, you will regret why you didn't give them more care and care when they were there, running around every day, busy earning money, saying that it was to be filial to your parents and give them a better life, and you neglected the most important and easiest thing to do, which is to spend more time with them and participate in their lives.

Therefore, there are some things that we should hurry up to do when we can still do them, don't wait until we lose them to regret them, and only then do we know how to cherish them after we lose them, so that it will be too late.

Look before you leap.

Honest and helpful.

This sentence has been echoing in my ears since I was a child, and it was not until I left my hometown and left my parents' side that I realized the necessity of this sentence. This is the standard of being an honest and kind person, only you are willing to help others, and when you are in trouble, others will lend a helping hand. Now I am surrounded by people like this, and I can say that I am a group of like-minded and energetic young people.

Study hard and make progress every day.

As soon as I heard this, I really wanted to escape, wouldn't I be stupid if I studied every day? Because my parents were farmers who had never entered the study, at that time, they were very eager to study, because of the relatively poor family background, which stifled their original dreams, perhaps because of this, my parents were eager for me to study hard and realize their dreams that they did not achieve. But with the continuous development of today's society, more and more things are eliminated, but knowledge will not be, and learning is endless.

Study hard and make progress every day, only in this way will you not be eliminated by the world.

I still remember when I was out of the house, my father said to me such a sentence, endure the calm for a while, take a step back and open the sky, remember when I first entered the job, maybe at that time I didn't know anything and was not taboo, I liked to go on a rampage, and because I offended many people because of my recklessness, I also stumbled a little, and then I felt that what my father said was quite reasonable, and gradually my style of doing things was softer, and the edges and corners were deliberately erased by myself. So my peace of mind makes my current self quite useful!

My father also once told me that money is a good thing, but money is not omnipotent, maybe I have not suffered from lack of money, I have always thought that money is not omnipotent, in my own life, there has always been a more positive view of money, I want to earn what I want, I don't have to deliberately let others buy it for me, so I have not been detoured because of money, until now I am quite grateful to my father for saying such a sentence to me!

After going to university, there are many platforms and opportunities for us to show ourselves, I have been learning dance since I was a child, I have a very good foundation, when I was in school before, there was very little entertainment time, everyone was immersed in learning every day, but I remembered what my mother said, I have been insisting on learning dance, improve my ability, and now I finally have the opportunity to show myself, performing dance in front of people is something that makes me very happy, and it also makes me a lot more confident.

The reason why I was able to persevere was inseparable from what my mother said.

We all know a truth that "parents are children's enlightenment teachers", from childhood to adulthood, parents' words and deeds all imperceptibly affect us, our three views are often influenced by parents, how a child's self-cultivation has a lot to do with parents.

When I was a child, my parents told me not to use other people as your own mirror. Everyone is unique in this world, they have their own strengths and weaknesses, sometimes we feel that we are worthless because we have not seen our own shining points, feel that we are inferior to others, and compare our own shortcomings with the strengths of others, so we naturally do not believe in ourselves.

Because my parents used to tell me this, when I felt inferior and discouraged, I would remember what my parents told me, which made me more courageous to take the next road.

In addition to this sentence, my parents also told me, "You have to cherish everything you have now." It is true that we are always pursuing what we want, often ignoring what we have, whether it is a person, a thing, or something completely imaginary, but their existence is something that we need to cherish, and not regret it when we lose it.

You can have average academic performance, but you must have good character. Some people say that now there are a lot of "high-scoring and low-quality" people in our country, and "quality" here certainly refers to quality. Since I was a child, my parents have taught me that I must be a person with good quality, and until now, I have never forgotten my original intention and feel that what my parents said is very reasonable.

Be a humble person, I remember that there was an exam in elementary school, I took a double subject 100, I can't wait to let everyone know, so I immediately hit ** to tell my grandparents, as a result, I didn't play well in the second exam, when my grandparents asked me again, I was embarrassed and didn't know how to say, and finally my mother said: "This is the price of your immodesty, remember to be humble in the future." This quote has benefited me a lot to this day.

You can't forget your roots, now there are many people who don't remember what they used to be after they soar, there are many people on the Internet who praise Zhao Liying, because she always remembers her hometown and relatives after she becomes popular, and she also uses her own strength to repay the society, my mother said that you must not forget your roots, no matter how powerful you become in the future, how much you have achieved, you must not forget your roots, this sentence is really correct when I think about it now.

In my memory, the most common thing my mother said to me was "If you want to be noble in front of others, you must suffer later", although this sentence sounds quite vulgar, but after I entered the society, I found that this sentence is not wrong at all.

Once, a few of us had a party in a food stall, and the most discussed thing that day was which high school we were going to go to, and San'er didn't say a word that day, just a person who was drinking stuffy, and then he got drunk while drinking, and told us about the bitterness in his heart. I remember that day was the last time we drank together.

After graduating from junior high school, we parted ways with San'er, and we heard from the people there that he wanted to go out to work, and his family didn't want him to go out at first, but then he insisted, and his family could only let him go.

Ten years after graduation, we had a meeting, I was most impressed at the party that day should be San'er, his appearance has not changed much, but it looks a lot more developed, and when we finally shook hands with each other and said goodbye, I accidentally touched San'er's palm, at that time I was sad all of a sudden, as his palm touched to give people the feeling that there are countless cocoons, and it is particularly rough. I know that he must have suffered a lot over the years, and he really fulfilled what my mother often said.