Now my heart hurts, because I want to forget someone I love

Updated on psychology 2024-06-25
19 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I'm just like you, I've been breaking up with my boyfriend for 5 years for three months, and my heart is really hurting, and I wash my face with tears every day. But now that I've figured it out, instead of thinking about someone who doesn't love you anymore, it's better to accept someone who loves you and start a new relationship. Forgetting can't be done, even if you forget him, you won't forget the sweet memories you have together, the more you want to forget, the more you can't forget, so don't deliberately forget, I believe, time is really the best medicine.

    Participate in more meaningful activities, enrich your life, try to accept the next relationship, you will find that in fact, the person you love is not perfect, why hang yourself on a tree, losing you is his loss, you have to live better than before, let him regret it. We're all girls, so we really have to be nice to ourselves! Come on!

    You will definitely live a better and happier life!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    The best thing you can do if you don't want to hurt so much is to stop thinking about it.

    If you don't think about it, it won't hurt.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Why do you have to forget, if you really can't forget it, stay in your heart, treat it with a normal heart, and after a long time, when you think of him, you are the same as ordinary friends, it means that you really forgot! The more you push yourself, the more you hurt yourself. There is no need.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Hurry up and find another one.

    Or go and do math.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Cry a lot, or hide in the bathroom and cry. That's what I always do. Crying in the mirror. Cry.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There's nothing you can do, only time to dilute everything or try to do what you love.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Fall in love with another person and desperately think about his shortcomings!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Why does it hurt heartache.

    Because I love him, it hurts and I feel sad. Even if you know that you can't be together, you still care, maybe it's your love for him, or maybe it's a subconscious in your heart, you think he's still your boyfriend (girl) friend. You can't come out of this shadow, maybe it's because you don't plan to come out, you are immersed in your own sadness every day, you don't want to do things, you are very negative.

    But think about it, would they be happy if they knew what you were like now? They may also be very sad and don't want you to be so negative, which is something that everyone doesn't want to see. Pain is certain, but do you want all the people who care about you to be hurt with you?

    If you have become a thing of the past, you have to learn to let go, not to forget them, but to bury them in your heart, and you have to work harder to live, so that you will be happy. Face life with your heart, face unsatisfactory things, come on, believe in you, you must be happy!

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If the person you love has just left you, at this time you can be immersed in the pain of falling out of love, you can be more and more heartbroken, you can not think about tea and dinner, you can complain, you can be melancholy. But after the sadness, no matter how much depression and melancholy you have, you have to learn to draw a full stop, and then pick yourself up again.

    There is really no need to be so entangled in a lost relationship, because people will inevitably be hurt emotionally in their lives, but what we have to learn is how to get ourselves out of the pain quickly. Then live your own wonderful life.

    And you have to understand that falling out of love is also a kind of growth, and you can self-reflect in the emotions of failure, learn from it, become more mature, and know how to protect yourself. Since no matter how frustrated you are, it is better to learn to redefine yourself and start a new life.

    I read such a passage in a **: "We are both moved and sad, afraid that this deep affection will not be able to withstand several cold and summer times in the world, nor can it cross the vast sea of life, and it will not be able to cross until eternity." But what does it matter if it's not eternal?

    You loved me so much, I just want you to be happy. ”

    Yes, the rest of life is long, although we can't go all the way to eternity, but what does it matter, after all, we once loved each other so much, so, for the rest of your life, I only hope that you can be happy. This is the best interpretation of the last relationship.

    There is a good saying, there is nothing that you can't let go, only the mood that you can't let go. Indeed, the reason why we are obsessed with many things is not because of how difficult it is to let go, but because you feel that this matter makes you unhappy and uncomfortable, so you can't let go. For example, if you are deceived, you have nowhere to vent many grievances in your heart, and for example, you are sarcastic, and you can't talk about it because you have resentment in your heart.

    So as long as you let go of the unpleasant mood, everything will pass.

    Therefore, friends, maybe you still have a lot of regrets and regrets for the last relationship, at this time you have the right to fall into sadness, but don't keep drowning in the past, but learn to get rid of negative emotions, try to wipe away tears, let go of the painful emotional baggage, smile and bless him, and smile to face your future.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you can easily forget a loved one. Then I don't think you love her enough. Only people who have loved deeply and want to forget someone they once loved will feel pain.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    A period of love and dedication with heart, of course, is a very sad thing, only truly love each other, forgetting each other is a very difficult time, regardless of the passage of time, the years of waste, the wound in the heart is always difficult to heal, that kind of pain and that taste only you can understand.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    The person you love has left a mark on your heart, and all you think about is him, so it's not so easy to forget.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Although it is said that time can dilute everything.

    If you still love him, you can't forget it.

    If you don't love him anymore, you will naturally forget.

    If you want to forget someone, maybe it's not as simple as that.

    If you want to forget someone, you don't want to forget them.

    If you deliberately want to forget, then only regretting the mountain and agreeing to it will not really be possible, right?

    If you want to forget someone, they may have hurt you, or for some other reason.

    You have to find the reason that makes you sad, or you want to forget, if you really want to forget someone, you have to learn to let go of something, let your mind go, instead of thinking about it constantly, maybe, you think about it occasionally, but it's also inevitable, right?

    Time will make you forget it.

    If you really love him, you have to spend your life forgetting.

    If you don't want to forget, hide your love deep in your heart.

    I hope the landlord can be happy!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    The best way to forget: Forgetting is a deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    "Turn away with a turn, forget with a lifetime... "This is Sanmao's words, if it is really hard to forget, it is your true love, if it can be redeemed or don't give up, forget it for a lifetime, the price is too great.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Hello landlord! The Maple Wither team will be happy to answer your questions!

    Friend; If he doesn't love you, please don't lose confidence, because it's not that you're not good, but that he doesn't know how to let you be sincere to him;

    If they don't love you, or if you break up. Love will still leave a trace in the heart; Therefore, love is beautiful, hate is ugly, we don't need to hate someone, we are still very good friends after a breakup, we should bless each other, care for each other, and be considerate of each other!

    Therefore, there is no one who is right or wrong in the relationship between the two sides, only who does not know how to cherish whom, that is, who does not know how to cherish love.

    If they don't love you, they lose a person who loves them, and you lose a person who doesn't love you, but you get a chance to live and love again! Therefore, let go of people who don't belong to you in order to find someone who truly knows how to love you! People who know how to be considerate of you!

    People who know how to take care of you! So giving up is another pursuit!

    Feelings are the attitudes of two people, and they are not something that can be decided by one person; Therefore, love is not absolutely eternal for anyone, but only that there is this hope for each other; You love him deeply at this time, maybe he may be separated later because of discord, and in the same way, he is just a little earlier than you, so when he doesn't love you, you have to know how to give up and don't complain!

    The red dust is faint, life is like smoke, all the dust is destined in the dark, whether it is joy or sorrow, it is to be walked through, to be experienced, we must understand; I'm lucky; Lost, my life; Frankly over the shirt or, negotiate to accept;

    Life is like a dream, a dream is like life, only know how to cherish, tolerate, understand, humble... can truly have a tranquility, a plainness, a true feeling, and can accommodate a smile covered with dust and frost. It will also make your beautiful love eternal...

    May those who love you love you more; The person you love understands you better!

    I sincerely wish you all the best! Good luck! Career success! Happiness and joy!

    I hope mine satisfies you! Thank you!

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    First of all, I'm not sure if you really don't have a chance at all, if you still have a chance, then go hard, if there is no hope at all, forgetting is the best way, in fact, it's hard to forget a person, but if you think about it from another angle, there is a kind of called letting go, loving him doesn't have to be with him, it can also be a blessing. Fate is wonderful, let go a little, your other half has already been arranged by fate.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future.

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Unforgettable love will not forget, just put him deeply.

    Bury it in your heart, you have a good memory, and you will not regret it in life

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