At the age of 31, I lost my career and love at the same time, what should I do?

What time is it now? 31 years old is still very young, don't be discouraged, the top priority now is to sort out your emotions, work priority to think, after all, you are a person with work experience, find out what career you can do, contact more friends, and discuss with your family more, this is very important, family will show you the direction when you are most confused, maybe they will reprimand you, but you must believe in your relatives, because they are the people who love you the most and will never leave.

As for emotions, you have to believe that you will live better, and then you have to show your ex, you can live better without him, and you will not be used to it for a while when there is suddenly one less person holding your hand around you, but believe in time, everything will slowly fade with time......

Pluck up the courage to start over, you can!

I'm 24 years old. LOVE LOOKING ...

Let's do it.

As long as you're willing to start over, it's never too late.

Slump and regroup depending on which one you prefer.

Choose one of the two is not difficult to say that it is not easy to say that it is not simple.

If love and career are lost together, then you can only start over; First of all, think about why this situation occurs, if it is your own reason, first correct your attitude, find out the reason, work hard to correct it, and start again; If it's not your own problem, then sadness for what you have lost is inevitable, you can't stay behind those who abandon me, you have to look at it in time, start a new life, bread will be there, love will come again, and now the loss just proves that your own defects and fate is not enough.

I think this is the most frustrating, the most painful, the most irritable time. But there are always ups and downs in life, and it is impossible to have a smooth journey. You will be stronger and more mature after going through it.

There is always a man who stumbles and rises there. Not afraid of pain. Think about this life, joys, sorrows, sorrows, life and death, if you haven't experienced it, is it still called life?

People always want to be happy, but can they experience happiness without sadness? There is no loss that there is gain. It's all about each other.

If you lose your job and look for it, you're not the only one who is unemployed. The person you love is gone, that's because you have no fate. The person you love hasn't shown up yet.

A loss may turn out to be a gain! Good luck.

Love and career were lost at the same time??? It's love coming after, right? I mean, you left when he knew that your career was a failure, if that's the case, friend, believe me, it's not love, because the relationship maintained by money is not worthy of love, if that's the case, what I can tell you is, remember that you bought a lesson with your career, which is that people who value money more than feelings are not qualified to talk about the word love at all, so don't be sad because you lose, you have to pick yourself up and put your career on the right track, as for "love", forget about it Choose a new person who is worthy of the word love.

People have to face a lot of problems every day, from the most basic oil, salt, firewood, rice, birth, old age, sickness and death, to education, employment, and interpersonal relationships. Everything, even experts can only deal with one aspect of the problem, let alone us ordinary people? Learn to let go of your baggage and live an ordinary and happy life.

Don't think too much, the most important thing is to be happy every day, your depressed and troubled days are the same, and your happy and happy days are the same. Whether you are happy or not does not depend on life itself, but only in your mood. You are in a good mood, even if you are poor, you can live happily and happily.

Even if you have hundreds of millions of family fortunes, the first three and the last four are surrounded by bodyguards. Will you be happy? You have to be on guard all the time for your own life, will you be happy?

The bustling surface can't hide the fear inside. It's right to try to find the happy factor in your own life, and don't get old and compare yourself to others. Everyone has their own strengths and weaknesses.

If you compare your weaknesses to those of others, you will feel that you have failed. But if you often compare your strengths with the weaknesses of others, you will be able to find your self-confidence and live happily. Whether people are happy or not in life does not depend on the amount of material, but on whether their mentality is in the right position.

Sometimes, to live is to wait for the unexpected happiness. For example, love, such as children, such as. In short, as long as you live, there is hope.

There must be hope for people to live. It's easy to die, it's hard to live, and it's even harder to live well and live wonderfully. But if it's difficult, won't it live?

Go for it. Don't be pessimistic and change your destiny with your mind and hands. You have to go your own way.

The vast majority of human destiny is determined by God, and that is because you have no right to choose your birth, and your birth makes your destiny destined to be different. But there are also a small part of the decision made by the people themselves, that is, to change their own destiny through their own efforts. According to incomplete statistics:

2% of people have completely changed their destiny 28% of people can change their destiny 70% of people can't change their destiny Seven points of human destiny are predestined, and three points are man-made. If you work hard and go in the right direction, and with a little luck, you can change your destiny.

I'm going to break down, my career and love are pretty much all I'm going to go for a break, I'm going to go out for a week or so, and I'm going to travel to forget everything for a while.

Of course, the ancient saying that if the man who is thirty and stands up to the man at this time loses the two, he does have more ideas, and some people may not be able to bear and face it. But everything must face the problems, find out what may be caused by their own mistakes, then immediately correct and summarize the factors of failure, let him become a witness of success, set his own position, and find the ideal him and his own tomorrow to meet the challenge.

It doesn't matter, what hurts and suffers more than you has ......But being strong is what makes you victorious.

Think about your parents and get ready to go.

It's easy to go astray at this time.

I'm still young, so I can find another one!

What do you want to do, it's going to get better.

Hello, the season in which each flower blooms is different.

So there's really no need to be discouraged, you can do that.

I suggest you read a book, "The World Without Complaining," and embrace the world with your sunny side, and you will find that the world is also warm and sunny.

In the red dust of people coming and going, there are always unexpected encounters, walking into dreams and hearts, making the lovesickness stronger and stronger, and making the concern lush; Passers-by who come and go, there is always the distress of having to say goodbye, and they come and go in a hurry, so that the memories are locked in the eyebrows, and the tears are moistened in the eyes.

The conditions are enough, there will naturally be love, the current girls are more realistic, it is not enough to have ideals and pursuits, but also to take action and make certain achievements to come out, do not see the rabbit and do not scatter the eagle, and the vast majority of girls for married life are comfortable, comfortable and comfortable, so it is still practical to take action, and it is the right topic to work hard to find a little family foundation, nothing, who wants to live with you. In addition, I would like to give you a suggestion, try to find a girl from the south (south of the Yellow River), so that you can save more effort after marriage.

To be active Oh Love, too, is to be fought for!

No way! That's an exaggeration!

It's already like this, can it be worse? No, so things can only go in a good direction. You need to calm down, have a good talk with your boyfriend, if it really comes to an end, then you have to start again, believe that everything is not as bad as you imagined, there will be someone who is willing to be good to you waiting for you on the road ahead.

It's not about your boyfriend, just from the fact that you're three months pregnant and you're already thirty years old, you can still bear to let you have a baby, he's really not good. Believe in yourself, you will find a better one, and there will be a job, as long as you cheer up.

No matter how things develop, it is very important for a woman not to lose her self-confidence, because I think a woman with self-confidence will still be as sunny as when she was young, and a little more confidence in herself will definitely win a lot of opportunities for herself.

Don't let the present difficulties make you wasted. Bless you.

Let go, you are such a good girl, there must be someone who loves you more and is more suitable for you It was at that time that it would be the turn of such a field So turn around I am very sympathetic to you Life is like a bet, you lose, but it is not complete

Poor, this kind of man who is unwilling to take responsibility and only knows how to escape should break up, in fact, there are many good men in the world who are too narrow if they are measured only by income, and if you look lower, you will see many good men. You say you're good, so it's not a problem to find a job, and if you're optimistic, there's nothing to worry about.

Confidence is more precious than **, if you lose faith, you will lose everything, I think you should know how to do it!!

Think more about good things, and your heart will become beautiful. Things will go well, too. Bless you.

Thirty is the first time to pick yourself up.

Looking at your written test results, it can be seen that your ability will definitely not be bad, don't be discouraged, believe in yourself, I think it may be that your interview skills are not mature enough, it is recommended that you read more books about interviews, analyze where you lost to others, conduct a self-analysis and dissection, find your weaknesses and strengths, and then continue to improve. Almost everyone will encounter the same situation as you, but I think that men must first start a business and then start a family, if as your parents said, really go to work in the workshop, then you can only stay there for the rest of your life, anyone can do technical work, almost fast, I hope you first sort out your own thinking, know what you want, and then act, men are forty or a flower, don't worry, you are still young. Of course, we also have to take into account our parents, parents just want to see you start a family and settle down, and they are at ease, but love needs fate, and you can't force it to come, if you meet the right one, you can be together, don't refuse because of your career, career and love are not contradictory.

Hope it helps.

You have a lot of work to do, why do you have to compete with yourself, get independent first and then talk about love, even if you start from the most basic work, it is better than the current state of life.

Do you have any skills or specialties, life is like this, there is no way, you can only be strong, unyielding, and believe that you have the ability to ,...

Don't hang yourself from a tree, quickly sort out and analyze, and make unremitting efforts towards your strengths.

How can you say you're wasting your time? Are you wondering what you live for? You're scared because you haven't figured out what you really care about.

I think that people live because they want to get along with the people around them. In other words, it is for happiness, and a lot of happiness can only be produced under the affirmation of others, so we work hard to get something, but once you understand that you can't be recognized by everyone, and the most important thing is to be with the people you care about and care about you, I think you should understand that living is to enjoy the time of living, not to think about how to make the last few decades of my life more comfortable, how to enjoy, it depends on everyone's different outlook on life, I think it's about treating those who care about you and you and live every day together. No matter what, time has not been wasted, so if it is, how can it be considered not wasted?

Set goals without them.

If there is no business, we will strive to create a career.

It's all 30 people, and it's still chaotic, and I don't explain my name.

30 years old, in today's society, if you don't work hard in your 20s, 30 years old is nothing, but it's not too late, settle down, work hard, love will come sooner or later.

Love is earned on your own, and waiting for the rabbit will not work now.

It's useless for others to say that you don't have a plan or action for yourself Who said that it has a role Don't say that as long as you're happy When you're over thirty years old What are you thinking about Do you still have the energy and physical strength Look at it yourself Don't think what I say is ugly Words from the bottom of my heart.

Chaos Chaos Pinyin:

hùnhùndùn

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Confused, blurry, indistinguishable.

As long as people live happily.

Some things must make sense, don't think about it.

I'm 20 years old, and it's also the age when I have no career and no love, and I shake hands before others say that I stand in 30, so 30 years old should be the time when a person starts a family and starts a business.

At this time, you have to have a clear goal, chaos should not be.

My goal is to go to graduate school, and since I have this goal, I have found the direction of my whole person, so how important it is to say that the goal is for a person.

Love is casual, don't just find someone to marry just because you are old, it's a lifelong thing. I believe that Yue Lao will not forget you. o( o haha.

In the end, I found out that you were a 0-point bounty