My husband and I were about to get married, but my mom didn t agree

This still has to think more about marriage or divorce Now many people have constant contradictions after marriage Many problems boil down to money in the end, both of you should try to calm down and talk, see how much each other can afford to take out, say a number that can be accepted by both sides, and the rest of you are not afraid of hard loans or something to slowly pay back, after all, marriage is not a family thing, and the house is not cheap, you are talking about marrying and not selling yourself, you don't need to count on others! If you really can't talk about it, you will divide it, give it up, don't drag it out, you will really drag you to the age of 30, and when you want to put forward any conditions, people will ignore you, and you can't get into the rest of your life because of a few years of affection, then you will be stupid.

Isn't that a problem? Money is a problem you have to solve, otherwise how can your relationship be good? Don't stop talking about such things because you're shy, don't think that you won't mention it if you say you're afraid of your husband, this is a problem you must face in the future, otherwise you will have a very hard time in the future?

Don't ask or interject, you just don't know, if he asks you to get married, you will get married, if you don't take it, wait, don't touch this money. Maybe it's going to put your feelings into it.

If you don't have a house, just wait, unless you're willing to rent a room with him and see the landlord's face running around for three days to change houses.

Forget it, maybe your mom is right! If your husband really loves you, how can he not care about your feelings? The person he knows best to live with him for the rest of his life is you!

In today's society, buying a house before marriage is a very real problem, if your husband doesn't want to mention it now, the root cause should be that he is not financially strong enough. Besides, as you said, the family doesn't want to mention the issue of money now, I think you must deal with this matter before you get married, if you don't deal with it now, it will be even more difficult to deal with it in the future. Remember that getting married is no longer just like when the two of you are in love, and as soon as you get married, all aspects of financial problems will come out immediately.

I don't want my son to get married early??? His family's head was slapped with bricks, right? Delusion!!! Don't be cowardly, always listen to him, you have to have some ideas of your own.

Breaking up with your boyfriend directly is the most correct decision, because your boyfriend has been in a relationship with you for three years, but he is unwilling to get married, which means that the two of you have no future at all.

You should be glad that you found out what your boyfriend really thinks in advance. At this time, what you should do is to stop the loss in time. Exit the relationship immediately. Otherwise, there will be even more suffering.

I think you should have a good talk with your boyfriend to see what he really thinks in his heart, and if he really doesn't want to get married, and you can't accept it, you should break up with him.

My mother, I didn't finish reading the second grade, relying on Shuxinshan to read "Family", I am very literate, which I admire, for me, maybe I can even forget pinyin in two years.

I, a left-behind child, my parents will only come back during the Chinese New Year, brought up by my grandparents, I have been wild since I was a child, I cut my flat head, and I can't tell whether I am a man or a woman when I go out

This is my mother, this kind of me, but it is incredibly consistent in some concepts.

For example, they all love to read, love cats, love dogs, love animals, love those who once spoke ill of us and then turned to goodness, love the world.

I'm honored to be like my mom.

When I was in junior high school, my mother generously told me, it's okay for you to fall in love, but you have to follow the rules, don't mess around, thank my mother, so that I didn't go down the road of "how is the girl who had an abortion at the age of 18 now".

When I was told by my boyfriend that I was going to break up because my father thought I was short, I said, what's wrong with being short, you have a good personality and good looks, and I still dislike him as an only child, thank you mom, let me not feel inferior.

When I said, Mom, I don't want to get married, tell me, it's okay not to get married, but you still have to find someone to talk to, life is so long, find it slowly, thank you Mom, let me know that marriage is not just Chaitan Yu Rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar tea.

Oh, in that small village on the 28th line, what worries me is my simple and lovely mother.

Thank you, Mom, if I really can't get married in my life, I hope you believe that I can give myself happiness.