Is it so easy for a man to abandon a relationship?

Do you understand his purpose? Really like? Tell you that it is very feeling to really like it, in fact, I think that feelings are feelings, feelings of both sides, I don't know what I am talking about?

It's not an unforgettable love, because it's too easy to get, and maybe it's not the desired result.

Men only love once, once in a lifetime, I know, although even not men

Still send? Got water in your brain?

Girl. Just cry...

There are several ways for a man to let go of a relationship. First, try to get along with other women. There is a premise here, that is, you yourself are good enough to be favored by other women, in this case, you can try to contact the other person, and you don't have to agree immediately, after all, you have just been injured in the previous relationship, and it is very difficult to enter the next relationship immediately, and you don't treat the other party as a substitute, you have to look at the other party with a new eye, if the other party has some shortcomings that you can't accept, then you don't force it, but if each other is very suitable, You might as well try to accept it.

Second, find a way to make Bury God himself better and better. After two people are separated, you will also reflect on why you failed in your previous relationship, and you can also find your own shortcomings, which may be difficult to accept at first, but you can only avoid repeating the mistakes by strengthening your weak parts. And in the process, you will get better and more confident, which will also help you start your next relationship again.

Third, divert attention. It's easy, and if you have any hobbies, such as hiking, you can ask a few friends to go out with you when you're upset. In the process, you will not only let go of your body and mind, but also talk to friends by the way.

And as a friend, they will also give you appropriate advice to help you come out of the shadow of broken love. Of course, if you don't have friends to talk to, you can also choose to play games at home, or watch some favorite movies and TV series, as long as you focus on other things, you can avoid the negative emotions before.

In the case of breaking up because of willfulness, frequent quarrels or personality incompatibility, etc., the psychological change of a man is that he will feel a sense of relief at the beginning, feel very relaxed, and at the same time will have a sense of guilt towards the other party, at this time he will not be willing to meet the other party, because the pain of meeting you at this time is like a reminder of his cruelty and failure (no matter who proposed the breakup of this relationship, it is a failed relationship). Won't want to think too much about anything between you. At this time, most of the time he is immersed in or transferred to something of interest, so you can't see on the surface that he has any pain or thoughts about the relationship.

In this situation, the woman may understand that those who may ignore you and are unwilling to meet, or you may find that he is emotionally entangled in a different way from the past.

The second is because of the reality of the situation, such as studying abroad, long-distance and other reasons to break up, the man's psychological changes, at first will be very rational, think of various reasons to persuade himself, will be very attentive to the other party's situation, but also very painful, and unwilling to meet, which will aggravate their pain and incompetence, willing to do a lot of things for each other and miss the sweet love time very much, in this case, if there is no external force, the possibility of a third party is very rare, and then it will slowly calm down. But the feeling of powerlessness will always be there. In this case, there is no need to worry about why the other party seems to be the same as when they were in love, but everyone knows very well that the relationship is falling apart, just like breaking up after graduation.

The third is the case of hurting self-esteem, for example, the girl has a sense of superiority in this relationship, or the conditions are superior, the woman's parents do not agree, etc., the man's psychological changes, at first he will be very resentful and resentful of the woman, and will transfer his emotions through games or immediately find a new lover to alleviate this pain, and at the same time, he also hates himself for not being capable, and when his self-esteem can't stand it, he will hate the woman again, and then another round of such a cycle of resentment, if the woman is redeeming, she will bear a lot of anger that may be vented, The stage of breaking through the defense is also the most difficult part.

Generally, the breakup is nothing more than these three situations, some people may say that we are opposed by the man's parents, we are in a different place, but it seems to be a personality incompatibility, then I count which one, his mentality changes to see which situation, that is, the most important reason for your breakup is which is which situation, such as those mentioned above, the most important thing is that the personality is incompatible, then look at the first one. In fact, don't always worry about how the other party is, think about it, and don't focus all your energy on tangling and guessing what the other party thinks in their hearts.

If you really like someone, you will never choose to give up easily, but be there for you when you need it. If a person has you in his heart, he can't only have himself in his heart, but everything will be for you. The love I love the most is not too passionate, nor is it too missed, but I have you in my heart, treat you as a part of my life, and never give up on you easily.

1. When your long-distance relationship separates.

Love will go through a lot of tests, long-distance relationship is one of them, many times the original love of the couple experienced the ravages of time, and slowly gave up on each other step by step, this is not real love. Because a man who has you in his heart and really loves you will not easily let go of your hand, and will work hard for your love, even if he can't be together for a long time, but he will prove his heart to you in various ways. Will even be willing to compromise for you and come to live in your city.

True love has always put you in its heart and will never want to give up on you.

2. When you are lonely and helpless.

It is said that adversity sees true love, a person who truly loves you will never give up on you when you need help and are lonely and helpless, but will spend time with you, comfort you, and rely on you. The more a man has you in his heart, the more Liang will appear when you need it and give you a tranquilizer. Therefore, sincerity will never disappoint people, but will be by your side and run to you as soon as possible.

Therefore, a man who truly loves you will not give up on you at this time.

3. When your life is not going well.

To judge whether a person truly loves you, it depends on whether he gives up on you when you are in a bad situation. A man who truly loves you, no matter what your life is, will always be to you, and will do his best to help you and rely on you. In life, he will take care of you as much as possible, give you warmth and love, and let you feel his heart.

And the man who dislikes you and gives up on you easily is not sincere to you at all, so you have to look at the right person in life.

In real life, it is very difficult to talk about a relationship for a few years, but even if it is very difficult, most boys will resolutely choose to break up after a quarrel with their girlfriend. Everyone is also very puzzled, why do men easily give up their years of relationship? I think it's probably because this man doesn't put his mind on you.

Although it is said that two people have been together for a long time, it does not mean that the relationship between two people is very good. If the woman invests too much at this time, she will inevitably be hurt, and I feel very sad.

Most girls are willing to be in a relationship with a boy for a long time, which proves that the girl wants to marry the boy, but some boys will choose to give up the relationship easily. Boys are actually more realistic than girls, girls give a lot of things in a relationship, or a relationship lasts for a long time, then girls will no longer think about meeting other people. Boys are different, boys may feel that they have known this girl for a long time, and they have already done what they need to do, and there is no need to marry someone they are tired of.

The situation mentioned does not refer to all boys, there are some boys who are very good, and in the process of falling in love, they are also very warm to their girlfriends. For a relationship, most netizens are very concerned, and they also hope to be able to make this relationship last longer through what they do, big love is a matter between two people, if one party is determined to break up, then your persistence is useless. <>

I hope that everyone can leave some way out for themselves in the process of falling in love, even if the two of them later embark on the road of breaking up, we will not be particularly uncomfortable. Everyone's personality is different, so some boys will think differently, people are separated from the belly, we never know what their inner thoughts are?

This is for them for so many years of relationship has no novelty, no longer value this relationship, or there are better people around them, so they will easily give up this relationship, I personally think that it is indeed not love, if you love, you will not give up easily.

Because many boys will feel particularly tired after being in a relationship for a long time, they will not have a sense of freshness, so they will give up easily. It's true that boys don't love places very much.

This is because boys are very rational and will give up easily as long as they feel that it is not suitable; It's not that they don't love it, it's that they don't feel appropriate.

Maybe it can't meet the other party's requirements at all, maybe the other party will have some high dowry, or maybe the other party needs to ask for some good cars and houses, so they will give up. Real-world problems.