Why am I so apathetic? 30

Seeing more is secondary. It doesn't matter, but it doesn't matter, because your expectations are disappointed and your confidence is broken. For example, someone around you disagrees with something you appreciate.

A good way --- to seriously position yourself in the role, avoid being ambitious, start from a low place, and work hard to a high place. Any success today is the cornerstone of tomorrow.

Learn to be kind to yourself.

Let me tell you.

The trend is leading, because the depths of consciousness tell you how I should be, and I am completely confused.

You read too many cynical books, so consciousness forms a norm, but I want to tell you that those cynical theories are the most vulgar, and you are like an elephant in chess so prescribed by these ideas that you don't even know that you yourself have been sold.

It's not that you're indifferent, it's that the person who can make you burn your enthusiasm doesn't show up, so you don't have to go to it in pain.

I'm afraid you didn't look at ** and saw the madness!

Let's find a few more friends to enrich your life first!!

A person must first have his own beliefs, and if he works hard for them, he will be enthusiastic.

Meddlesome!! Please continue!! Hehe.

In fact, as long as you are more concerned with the things happening around you and have more curiosity, your life will be much more fulfilling.

Start with what you're interested in, and you'll find what you're looking for.

Go to the neighborhood committee to visit and see how enthusiastic those old ladies are!

Find more like-minded friends to hang out and increase the mood

Mune's character is outdated.

You haven't gotten into it yet.

As you wish, as you wish, as you wish, as you like.

If you want to change yourself, start with your own mindset.

I think I've seen it through, so I'm indifferent. Be at peace with the situation, go with the flow, and don't fight or grabNo matter how hard he worked, he would never complain. As long as he and his family get the happiness they deserve, everything he gives is worth it.

However, many middle-aged people may have lost their direction in life and become numb to life because of many stresses or changes in human feelings. They live a "normal person" life like the walking dead every day. The dream in their hearts was once a mirage.

Now their lives are in shambles. Being satisfied with the status quo has become the best way to describe them, and going with the flow has become an important excuse for their "failure". No matter what kind of people and things they deal with, their interests are long gone, and they will definitely not choose to break through.

In their opinion, fights and robberies are the business of young people and have nothing to do with them.

I just want to stay in my own worldSeeing one's relatives and friends can also give people the feeling of running away, fearing that others will rob him of his money. Although he doesn't think so in his heart, it is really difficult for a person to understand such a performance. Many middle-aged men behave the same as Lao Wang.

Maybe they are not successful enough and have unexplained low self-esteem, which makes them afraid to communicate too much with others. Even ordinary greetings do not dare to expose their weaknesses. They are afraid that others will read their hearts.

Calling him inferior often evokes a sense of contempt.

Reluctance to meet new peopleWith the passage of time, middle-aged people's outlook on life, worldview, and values have become a breakthrough for trying new things。Ordinary life is their best description. People and things around you don't change much.

A new friend and a new colleague can only become a passerby if they want to enter their life and world for a long time. The same goes for new things. Challenges are like crossing the red line of their lives.

Their best bet is to settle for the status quo. As they enter middle age, the "insecurity of the late season" may be their biggest concern. So that's why people are getting more and more apathetic.

Because the pace of life is getting faster and faster.

Because people nowadays live at a fast pace

When a woman becomes very mother-in-law, her mother will be unhappy if she chatters in pieces.

Maybe the world has gone mad!