When will people have courage?

When people are mature, they will have the courage to express themselves and dare not express their inner needs; I don't dare to ask others to pay, I only know that I work hard silently, challenge myself, and must change.

Don't dare to break the status quo and change jobs and fields; The relationship and marriage are not smooth, indecisive, and dare not stop the loss in time;

What you want, try to get enough; If you can't reach it, you secretly tell yourself: That's because you don't deserve it now.

In fact, all of this is because I haven't learned to strengthen myself in my heart, and I don't know that behind this dare, my self-strength has never been stimulated and awakened, and I haven't built a stable value system for myself, and the motivation to live seems to only depend on the judgment around me.

Until one day, I began to question myself deeply.

Because for many years, I followed a traditional and fixed mode of thinking.

To live and work hard, to work diligently, and persist for many years, it is still 108,000 miles away from the expectations of my heart.

It was only after about five or six years of entering the society that this sense of panic grew stronger and more questioned, and I really realized that something had to be done.

People are generally the most courageous when they are in a desperate situation, there is no way to retreat and they are not afraid of anything, they are fearless, in fact, in most cases, people are more patient, with the choice of taking a step back and opening the sky, forbearance, once they fall into the time when there is no way to retreat, they are not afraid of anything, and they are full of courage.

Becoming more courageous after a setback or after encouragement from others.

When there is no way out, with the encouragement of family and loved ones, when the country and the nation need us the most, only in these times will people have courage.

At the moment of crisis, people will have the courage to break the axe and sink the boat, and the ruthlessness to break the net. If it is not yet the last moment, people will continue to choose to avoid the problems they are afraid of, and not face the problems head-on.

Liang Jingru said that courage is always available. When you are angry, it should be the best time to be courageous, or when you are drunk, you should go forward.

People have courage when they are in a hurry, or when they are cornered.

How to get courage? This is a broad concept, everyone's knowledge structure, life experience is different, in terms of values are not the same, the attitude towards thousands of things is also different, but as the courage of inner conviction, is a process of continuous cultivation, the richness of knowledge, the understanding of society, and the degree of reflection on oneself will constitute the acquisition of courage.

Most of people's courage is more than people's self-confidence, and very few are passive courage to drive crazy! So when a person is full of self-confidence, courage comes!

When he was forced to a dead end, he had all the courage, and many capable people were forced out.

At a time when you're afraid of losing something.

It's the courage to push yourself to a dead end!

When there is righteousness in the heart, it is the bravest. The heroes and heroes of the past and present have been able to regard death as if they were at home, because there is righteousness in their hearts, and righteousness can be awe-inspiring.

Becoming more courageous after a setback or after encouragement from others.

Everyone has compassion; Everyone has a heart of shame; Respectful heart is shared by everyone; Everyone has the heart of right and wrong. compassion, benevolence; The heart of shame is also righteousness; Respectful heart, courtesy; The heart of right and wrong, wisdom also. Benevolence, righteousness, propriety, and wisdom are not imposed on me from the outside, but also by me.

Mencius, Confession I

The heart of compassion is also the end of benevolence; The heart of shame is also the end of righteousness; The heart of resignation, the end of courtesy; The heart of right and wrong, the end of wisdom. There are four ends of human beings, and there are four bodies.

"Mencius: Gongsun Chou Chapters and Verses".

Mencius believed that as long as people are timid, ugly, and selfish, it is precisely because of these bad natures that we ourselves cannot abandon that we can make ourselves benevolent, virtuous, courteous, and wise.

Why did Mencius think so, because Mencius believed that if he abandoned cowardice and timidity, then this person would not be afraid of anything, and he would not feel fear, so that he could rationally look at the generation when facing anything, and there was a problem with sleep, he was missing one person, a subject who survived in this world and cared about the people around him, because he was not afraid, he would not associate himself with the terrible things that were happening in front of him, and he had no ability to push himself and others. If someone takes a knife and kills someone in front of him, he will not be afraid.

Therefore, when a person will become brave, that is, when he pushes the harm suffered by others to himself and others, and thinks of himself, he will be brave enough to help others.

Finally, I would like to add that people with strong minds and no impurities are the most terrible.

There are four ends of man, and there are four bodies.

Let's take a good look at it.

How much despair you have experienced, how much courage you will have.

Sometimes we always envy others.

Envy the luck of others.

Envy of other people's income.

Envy of other people's idleness.

And I always seem to be not so happy with myself.

So we'd love to change.

But there are so many things that can't be changed.

It can't change your birth.

It can't change the path you've traveled.

It can't change the love you've ever given.

All the choices you've made.

All you've ever been through.

have made you who you are today.

It also sets your tomorrow as well.

Probably the only thing we can change.

It's the mood we feel when we live in the moment.

and the mindset to face tomorrow.

Facing the past, forgiveness can be forgiven.

Living today can be inclusive.

Looking forward to tomorrow's efforts, it is worth the effort.

Be yourself and live every day well.

There's some gossip that someone else can say.

Some pain is lonely and learns to digest on its own.

Some hopes and hobbies learn to work hard to persevere.

Maybe sometimes you feel like it's going to be hard to be yourself.

But choose to stick with it.

You will discover life.

It was supposed to be simple.

It's that we think everything is too complicated.

The simpler the person, the happier they are.

No compromise, no complaints.

Be yourself, you are yourself.

Bravery is generally a description of those who have taken risks to achieve their ideas.

On the one hand, they have more purpose and direction than we do. Because there is direction, there is a reason to take risks. If we think about it from a phenomenological point of view, anything that makes people have firmer values and a clearer direction will make them brave.

On the other hand, in the same dynamic situation, brave people are more inclined to risky strategies, but at this time it is no longer possible to distinguish between "brave" and "reckless", because it is only a strategic tendency, and it is OK to choose no matter what. People who engage in risk-taking activities more often may also be more accustomed to choosing aggressive strategies.

It should also be noted that it is not brave to be more capable and choose something more risky. After all, the strong take less risk than the weak, on average.

Many people say that they are brave when they are cornered. That's not bravery, that's just a low-level biological instinct.

If the subject wants to "change" bravely, think more and challenge yourself more, even if it doesn't make sense.

Let me tell you! Courage is actually a reflection of your heart and self-confidence, and deep down in your heart I don't know what you are afraid of. What are you afraid of?

What do you think when you're alone in a lonely place where no one can bully you anymore? I think you're going to feel like the world doesn't make sense anymore, don't you? You want to be brave, but I want to tell you what real bravery is?

That is, you change yourself to look less cowardly, believe that you are responsible for yourself, don't blindly endure, let alone cry, don't think that tears can cover everything, which will only bully you even more! You completely change yourself, you must first start to change by yourself, don't care too much about what he says, when you hear it, you should not hear it, laugh at it, show your unique character, don't be inflexible in everything, and don't procrastinate. Finally, a word to you is not to insult him, that can only be a double defeat, to change yourself, believe in yourself, let him admire you from the heart, is the real solution!

Everyone has setbacks at times, but don't doubt your ability because of temporary setbacks, and then form a kind of pressure.

When you encounter setbacks, you should keep your mind clear, face reality, face it bravely, and don't run away from it. Calmly analyze the whole course of events, analyze whether it is your own problems, or is it caused by external factors? Or both?

If it's your own factors, then you should reflect on yourself, why did you make such a mistake? What should be done in the future to avoid similar incidents? Instead of rushing to hold yourself accountable or blaming yourself, you should think about whether there is room for change.

If so, what can be done to minimize the loss or pain? What should I do to feel better?

When you encounter difficulties, remember that there is no such thing as ——— eternal difficulties, and there are no difficulties that cannot be solved, just the length of time to solve them. Difficulty, compared to life, is nothing more than a pigment, a pigment that adds color to life.

When you are forced to a dead end, you are the bravest, because you can know what will happen after you whether you do it or not, and if you are not brave at this time, there is basically no way back.

There is also a situation where the brain will do it directly if you like it extremely, so it is also very brave at this time.

We should be more courageous, do what we like, see the scenery we like, in the eyes of others, in fact, we will not be surprised that you will do this, even if they occasionally laugh at it is unintentional, and then they will only forget about it, only you remember it.

People become strong when they lose their support.

Because if you have a backer, you always want to rely on others, and if you go out by yourself, you will let yourself grow!

People are the bravest when they are at the end of the road and have no way to retreat! It's human instinct to fight in desperate situations.

1.When you don't have anything to rely on.

2.The cry of children.

3.The hardships of your parents are vivid, and their experiences will inspire you.

Some people become brave after being injured, some people become brave when they save someone, and some people become brave when they are frustrated and suppressed and looked down upon by others. Everyone has to be brave and brave to face it.

In front of the things I am familiar with, after experiencing great difficulties.

People are mature in their hearts and will become brave in the face of difficulties and adversity, as the saying goes, the more frustrated they are, the more courageous they are.

For example, when you encounter something and you can't bear the consequences if you don't face it bravely. Or when the person you care about the most is hurt.

You can't imagine the courage of people when they are alone, because no one can be your support when you fall, so you have to be brave.

When people encounter setbacks, especially the encouragement and support of those around them, they will make themselves more confident.

Courage is not guts, courage is a kind of responsibility.

As a man, he faces everything and dares to take on everything.

Courage is to say what others dare not say and do what others dare not do, but not to be stupid. Stand up when it's time to stand up, and try to do it when you need to do it. Courage is a person's personality, and the responsibility and responsibility of a flesh-and-blood person!

It's courage to be able to seize opportunities, and you should have courage when you have a sense of justice and what you think you should do. Walking out of your wonderful life without regrets is why you have to have courage.